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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
try and ask me some questions if you want.ill get back to yuhh.loveee : )



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i really like this guy and i cant get him off my mind. EVER i really do love him more than anything in this world but he just doesn't understand that. we were in one of those perfect relationships where he would call me at 3 in the morning just to see what i was doing or just because he wanted to hear my voice. !! one night he called me and asked me about my ex who was killed a few months ago, he didn't know that he was killed but he thought that i was still with him. but an hour later he broke up with me and i still dont know why. its been weeks and i still cry over him all the him. i dont think i could stand to cry over him one more time. he likes all these other girls now. i just dont know what to do or how to get over him.im sorry this is long but please answer me fast !!!! thank you !!

well im sorry to hear about what happen to your x boyfriend..but your that other bot you like is just staraight up rude..he moved on so so shouild you..why shouild satnd back begging for him so..you know..i know its really hard to move onm but its something you gotta do in life..you cant love him forever..but you do what you gotta do to move on..he just sounds really ude to do that to you..well i hope you can get a new boyfriend..and i hope you move on to a better person that loves you..and i hope you dont get hurt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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im just starting to play the guitar. all the sites that i go to so that i can figure out what chord is what doesn't help...does anyone know of any websites i could go to that would better explain all the chords and tabs and stuff?

well go to google..my x.boyfriend plays the guitar..but i dont no anything about it..just keep trying to search stuff..maybe you will find a teacher that will help you..if you give me your name ill e-mail you what to go to..ill ask my x-boyfriend or ill ask him what it means and what to go to..so go to my page and e-mail me what you need and you name and e-mail..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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is advicenators moving? to where? when will the new site be up? will it still be www.advicenators.com?

thats what i was asking...i have no clue..i just got an e-mail saying they were moving..and i totally freaked..im sorry i cant help you with this question..but when you get info e-mail me or tell me!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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my boyfriend is also goin to college.. are you still gona be with him? i dont know what to do ..everyone usually breaks up before college cause of the whole stereotype college hook up stuff..i trust him but i dont know what to do..any advice?

`baby

well you shouildnt let his school get in your relatinship...but if you feel that he is going to do something then that means you guys need to break it..but if you have trust for him then why lose something you love..and im sure he will not do anything to hurt you..but if you know that he is going to hurt you then you need to do something about it..but im sure and i hope you guys can stay together..just spen your last days with him having fun and do what you guys want to do..just dont get hurt..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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i have a boyfriend and i think he just wants to have sex with me i am a virgin and point is i dont want to loose it yet but i am scared if he eventually cinvince me to than leaves me

well dont let your boyfriend pressure you in to doing anything!!
and you need to tell him that your not ready for sex!!
and he shouildnt leave you because im sure he didnt hook up with you for sex..and you dont want to loose you virginty then thats cool..you dont halft to..but if you do then you need to use a condom..you do what you feel is right..and dont let him force you in to doing anything if you dint want to..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s

well you need to go to a doctor..and i dont know if you have pink eye..my mom had this itchy red eye..and we thought it was pink eye and it wasnt.and they gave her these eye drops and shes all better now..so just get your self to the doctor and get checked and geta prescription and then youll be better hopefully!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

well you shouild never keep anything from your friend..and yes that means that you shouild tell her..maybe she will back up off hi if you tell her..im sure she wil appreiciate it if you tell her..im sure she wont mind though...and thats good you and your friend tell each other everything..and its good that you to have that trust between each other!!but yeah dont break that trust and just tell her..im sure she wont do anything..but she may get mad at you..but just give her sometime!and im suure shell get over it!1
hope i helped....!!!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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My Boyfriend and I were involved in a car accident friday afternoon... We are alright though. The car is totalled he hurt his shoulder and I hit my head.. but anyway.. I am terrified to ride with him.. or for that fact even drive. Since his car is totalled we've been driving my car and I've been driving. and hes like I'll drive.. and I tell him no that I Am.. I really trust him. I mean we've been together almost 11 months. and this really hurt him when I told him I was scared to drive.. and now he feels like I dont trust him anymore. and I don't know what to do to fix this. I even told him that I trusted him that he's just got to give me sometime to get over the accident that it just happened... What Can I Do?? :( Sorry This Is Soooo Long.

well you were fine when you told him to give you sometime..and if the accident was his fault then i wouild be scared to drive with him to..but if it was a nother cars fault then you know what couild he do about it..but i understand how you feel...and you guys just need to be more safe out in the roads..theres some crazy people out there..always buckle your seat belt..those things can save your life..but you know all you can tel your boyfriend is how you feel..that you do trust him and that you do need time to get over the accident!
and then maybe he will understand..????
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I'm petrified of the dentist and I have an appointment tomorrow. Im getting a tooth filled. Ive always been scared, but I always end up walking out saying that wasnt so bad. I realize that the only pain I will feel is the novacaine needle. Is there a way I can be less scared? I know the fear is worse than the actual procedure but Im still terrified.

well dont be worried about it..your just freaking your self out..and you dont need to be..well i got filling..and they didnt have to put the shot in my mouth..i saw the shot and ask them did they really need to numb my mouth..and he looked at my tooth and said no not really..then they didnt numb my mouth..but it did hurt when they did the filling..pnly like a little though..it was just cold on my teet..but youll be fine..your in a proffesinals hands when you go to the dentist..so dont worry about it ok..
hope i helped!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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ok
ive known liam for about 3 years now and he is soo great! we are like best friends but my feelings have grown for him. hes moving away soon to live in australia. i really want to be with him. has any one got any advice on how to hint or tell him that i want to be with him?
please help me!
thanks

well you shouildnt be worrying about hooking up with him..you shouild be worrying on what your last few days with im are going to be like..and what a re you guys going to do ..well if you do want to let him no you like him then maybe you shouild just tell him..because your proably going to waste your time trying to give him hints and stuff..so you shouild just tell him straight up.you never no maybe he feels the same for you.and its to bad hes moving..well i hope you get what you wished for with him!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?

well one thing is that you need to stop putting your self down..so what if your not as pretty has your friends..who cares other than you!!well if you want to look prettier then maybe you shouild buy or wear make up or something like t hat..or buy the clothes you like...or you do what you thnk is right to make your self look pretty..what do you think that you couild have that wouild make you look pretty!and so w hat if you have a weird nose..no ones perferct..you shouild not tell your self your ugly..and im sure it doesnt matter to other people how you look!!what does it matter to you!!it shouildnt matter..but you know just try to do what you think is right..what will ake you look prettier!!
hope in helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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well I was going out with this guy and then I played him with his friend so when he found out we broke up and i stayed with his friend I told his friend(josh)not to play me cause I was going to look really stupid if he did well after all that dumb ass did play me with his ex and now he's all trying to call me. I already told him I forgave him and that we could be friends and thats it nothing else. He won't stop calling. what should I do about this?

well you need to talk to him and ask him what does he want..you already told him that yall were friends and nothing more..you need to tell him that you guys are not going back out you dont want to go back with him!and you need to ask him to please stop calling you..and he sounds a little obssed..but you know..well you dont have to even be friends woth him but you know..how that goes with the boys..well you just need to confront him and tell him that you guys are staing friends and nothing more..and thats it..and if he stil calls you alot then he has issues..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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hey its tom, thanx 4 the advice. im not complaning about it i just wanted 2 know if it was normal. thanx agian

no problem..thanks for asking me..im sure your girlfriends normal..lol..and im sure she likes you and cares for you alot..so you do the same and show her how much you care!!
hope i helped!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Do you know how to stop deoderant from getting stuck in clumps beetween the folds of your underarms? Im afraid to lift my hands above my head because of all the white clumps of this so called "invisible deoderant" next, when I shave its smooth and there is no hair, yet its all dark, because I have black hair. Do you know any way to stop all the darkness and clumpyness under my arms? And plz, no waxing, cuz im terrified. I rate high

well you need to buy a better deoradarnt..you no my like dove..or secret..dont buy cheap ones..and it only leaves clumps if you put like om much on..and to shave under your arms you need to buy womens shaving creme..it helps..well you shouild buy dove deoradarnt because it smels good and it works all day..o yeah and it doesnt leave clumps.and thats nasty..so try to go buy some of that stuff..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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hey my name is tom and my gf and i havent been togeather not that long and she likes to get real close to me and hug and stuff. is this normal 4 a gf 2 act that way??

thanx

well you shouild be happy if your girl trys to get close to you..but you know..maybe she likes you alot..i wouildnt be complaing..but you know maybe thats me!!well the thing is do you care if she hugs you and stuff like that??well most girls like me can care less when they start going out with a boy..theyll kiss him on the first day they go out..but thats girls like me..hey atleats its not a boy i dont know..well yeha i guess it is pretty normal for a girl to act like that..you shouild feel loved..and she wants to make you feel and she wantes to let you know that she likes you..now if you want a girl that hates you and doesnt o anything with you then you wont have a hrad time finding one..but you know shes a girl..wedo what we gotta do..
thanx for letting me answer this for you!!
hope i helepd..
*love you always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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well see iv only kissed one girl before in a truth or dare game and she kissed me back and all but it was only a peck on the lips and im afraid becuase i always wanted to have sex but like im a little nervous now but only for like making out and the girl another time was dared to give me a handjob (yes we are physco) and i couldnt get a boner i tried for a really long time but i couldnt like does anyone know any things that can help me with kissing and is it because im nervous that i cant get a boner...i didnt think i was nervous but i might of been..sorry if its confusing


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well most boys i make out with they get boners!!well it just might of not been you and you were proably your nerves..i dont know how you boys get boners !!but maybe you shouildnt be so nervous..just let loose..theres nothing to be nervous..most boys just get hard whn they kiss girls..so just get warmed up by kissing her .then let her give you a hand job!!
sorry if i dint help with thid question!1
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ok so Im a 14/f. I've had 2 boyfriends. I didnt do anything with either one except i like cuddled and held hands with one of them. I know its not a big deal, and I feel like im being left out, yet its my fault. My first ex is really into like hooking up and stuff. Even though we're not together, he wants to makeout with me like all the time. I think I still like him, and Im going to be hanging out with him and some other guy friends in a few days. The problem is that im too scared to makeout but at the same time, im not. I want to, im just scared that I wont be good at it. And i know im going to have a hard time getting myself to actually go through with it. Is there any way I can signal to him that I just want to kiss him, and not makeout? Without actually speaking the words to him? Thanks everyone, sorry its long.

well thats pretty hard..you know that all those boys love kissing girls..but you may halft to tell him..or you need to kiss him and just stop..or you know this is a hard question???um...i dont know..you may just need to talk to him and say i think i like you..but i dont want to make out..i just wanna kiss you..but you know he mmay think your crazy..or you can kiss him and just stop when you want to..and he may think your crazy!!but you know that this is a pretty hard question..i tryed my hardest answering the best i can..sorry if i didnt help you any!!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

well you shouildnt let anyone bring you down.you are who you are..and if no one likes that then screw them..dont let them bring you own like you let them..just because your sister didnt wanna hang thats fine..you guys are sisters..you can hang any time you want..but you need to get out there a really find some friends..you are feeling sorry for your self and you shouildnt be..theres no reason to..just because people make fun of you..i no it hurts alot when people make fun of you..im going to the 8th grade..i got made fun of in 6th and 7th grade some much..but you no what??you cant waste time listening to them and leting them get to you..and this never had a boyfriend thing!!well you need to go out and get you one..you need to go to the mall and talk to some people..or when you go to school you need to try to talk people and try to nake friends..i have alot friends but some are bitches..and those kinda friends you shouild care less about..but you just approach people..and theyll be cool with you..but you no that your 17 and thats to old to not being having and no friends..so just go to the mall and just you no..do what you gotta do..or even in school..try to find friends..and dont worry about your sister..she just proably wanted to hang with her other friends that night..dont worry..you dont ever let anyone put you down.im sure your alot better then that..so you go do what you gotta do!!have fun at it!!
hope i helped!!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

yeah you got your cherry poped by a finger..well thats fine..well just tell him not to go so freakin deep..damn..well yeah you no how when you have sex you bleed..??that just means that you popped your cherry..but you obviously got your cheerry by a finger..but thats fine.but the bleedings fine..nothing to worry about..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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my boyrfriend is going to college and i was wondering if you had any cute ideas of things i could do for him

Well you need to spen all the time you can with him..um maybe you can cook for him..or you guys can spend a day with each other..or you couild some thing fun..you no maybe u can go to a theme park..you dont wont to spend the last days with him mopping around with him..so go have fun with him..get out there..you guys can go to dinner or something like that..just have fun..
hope i helped.
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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