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Heyyy!!!! What's up everyone. I'M BACK!!! my name is Catherine. I am 15 years old. I may be a minor you will be surprised of what I know, especially things I haven't been trough. Just leave anything you want to talk about in my inbox.advice
How can you hint to a guy, that you like him?
what you need to do is flirt. I have a friend who flirts ALOT and let me tell it works.
ok im 16. i have been w/ my b/f for bout a year n a month. and i just found out im pregnant 6 weeks. i love him very much but my family really doesnt aprove of him or want him in my life! now that they know im pregnant they want to stop seein my b/f becuz they think he is not father figure becuz my b/f isnt really that good guy he drug deals and used to be in gang and used drugs but has sober for about 8 and a half months. i dont know what to do help do i stay with his family and him n leave mine his family loves me sooo much they were always there for me. help. i dont know what to do!!!! HELp
het back to me!
I think you gotta do whats right for ya child. Which means he has to be in your life. Just cause your family don't approve of him doesn't change the fact that he is a father. How does your family know he ain't a good father. You HAVE got to tell your parents "Mom, dad I love you all but you can't take my baby's father out of his/her life, you can't change the fact that we are having a baby 2gether"
I'm 13 female and i haven't kissed anyone yet...is this normal? Most of my friends have kissed someone but i want to wait until i find someone special. Most girls though have their first kiss when they are 12...am I abnormal? Or just plain 'ol me?
It is normal. I never had my first kiss either. There is nothing wrong with you.
I go to an all girls high school. I am 14, and the biggest tomboy EVER!! Thing is, i really want a bf. I have friends who r guys, but they cood never be a boyfriend. I cant just go up to a guy i see at the movies or mall, like thats just not who i am. Im not sure guys wood ever think of me as more than someone they cood talk sports with. Other than me not having a bf, im happy with being a tomboy, and not wearing makeup, and wearing football jerseys. I dont wanna change myself. What shood i do? pleees help!!
I think you should wait for the right guy to come. You know someone who will like you the way you are. The way you dress is fine and the right guy will come along sooner or later.
sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok
please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it.
Listen I know how you feel. I've been trough worse. My dad he goes to jail to for a couple of hours for fighting with people. He ALWAYS makes an excuse to not come to my b-day. He told me I had a brother and a sister in P.R when I was 8. And SO MUCH MORE. But if you haven't met him B4 then I think you should take a chance. I gave my dad a chance, so I think you should too. GOOD LUCK!!
There this new guy in Early childhood class and he is the only guy in it and he lives next to me.I REALLY like him and I told my friend that and she is all over him.Then I asked her if she liked him and she said ewww no!!! I cant get my mind off of him.I think he likes my friend because no doubt she is really pretty.But everytime we see each at home he says hi in a really hot way and smiles and then he goes hola to me.He is soo hot.Should I make the first move or should I try to forget about him.I rate high!!!
Yeah I think you should take the risk. I mean I can tell your shy but, if you really like him than you should ask him out. Tell me how it turns out!?
well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken
Listen if he doesn't like you the way you are then he is no good for you. I know you don't want to here it but you really do have to get over him. And you know why you can't get over him, it's because you don't want to get over him. I went trough the same thing you did I was in love with a guy name Michael. I liked him for about 3 years and 1 month. I told my friend to ask him a couple of things. But I went trough worse because he said "I don't want to go out with her not even if you gave me a 100 dollars" I wouldn't stop crying. But I got over him little by little saying to myself "Well if he doesn't like who I am then he can go to hell, because he is not worth my affections.
My little brother can be extremely annoying. I dont want to tell him to go away, but somtimes i lose my temper. I hate yelling but he just deserves it so much!!!! How do i get my mom to relize that he's the monstor not me and to start dishing out the punishment to the right person????
He has chased me around with knives, hit me, refused to let me eat, and done countless other things! He really hurts my feelings.
What do i do?
I rate 5's!
~Melissa~
You should mostly talk to your brother. I know how it feels to be tortured by a brother. So tell him how he is hurting you. And if that doesn't work, when your parents leave try to get revenge.
I am not fat. But I want to get slimmer. its okay if you get mad and tell me not to worry about my weight but i've tried and it wont work. what do i do to get a slimmer stomach. please dont give some website to look at b/c i hate researching on the web. just tell me what to do... PLEASE! thanks in advance... :D i rate high if you are good!
Just do a couple of situps. Don't try by not eating any food not even a day.
Hi wel i like this guy a lot n he likes me to but he hasnt asked me out n plus his friend likes me n wants to go with me n he says that if the guy i like talks to me then hell get mad it him n stuff n i realii wana go with him like realii badli do u think i should jus ask him out r wate till he asks me out?
answer fast pleaze!!
You can't wait for him to ask you out. Why don't you ask him out? Its your move take your chance and ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you out. Maybe he's just shy.
sorry it's a little long well one of my close friends asked me out and he's kinda known as a cheater and I'm thinking of telling him yes but I've been hearing all these rumors that he kissed his ex and that he was trying to hook up with some other girl and it just makes me wonder about him.I asked him if it was true and he said no that he puts it on everything he has and he swore to god. my friend asked him too and he told her the same thing I really like him but I think I might get hurt if I say yes I will rate a 5.please help
Look what I think you should do is find out the truth before putting anyone in judgement. I mean he is your close friend. If he does cheat on you than he isn't the right person you shouldn't even be hanging around with. Before you say yes or no you need to find out the truth.
Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\
Look, sometimes guys like girls who are shy around them. But if you want to talk to him just think of as a friend for now cause sometimes if you think of him as your crush AND ONLY your crush you will get nervous. Just remember be yourself. Good luck.
i have been cutting since 5th grade, im going into 9th now. I don't want to stop because i love the way it feels, and its the only thing that helps me to forget the things i dont want to have to remember anymore. Ive tried stopping before but i physically can not do it. Im so attached to it. But, i cant get caught anymore, and i hate the scars i have all over my body. can anyone help me..?
Well first you need to go to somebody like a counselor. Like for example in Degrassi(a show) a girl name Ellie will always cut herself cause her mom. so she went to a counselor cause of a friend. Now whenever she feels like cutting herself she uses a rubberband. So I am telling you as a friend that to go to a counselor or use a rubberband as a replacement to your cutting.
ok i just met this guy throught my friend who is a year younger than me and we got really close cause we went to 6 flags togther (thats when i met him) so now i think he really likes me and i dont know if i shoulkd go out with him i really like him but my friends said i shouldent go out with him b/c he is a year younger
Listen, like I tell everbody else, it doesn't matter how old he is or what your friends think of him. If you like him alot then don't anything including your friends to stop you.
if your off a diet like you losted all the weight you wanted to how do you stay off like not gain any of it back do i still have to ride the bike a walk and such or can i just eat non-fatty foods and how do i lose about 10lb in a week would a treadmill work as good as ride a bike and does a treadmill lose weight in your stomach or just the legs how long will i have to do it a day i rate 5s
You can do whatever is easier for you, but I think losing 10lb a week is to much. I would 2-3lb a week or so but you don't have to do every week. Just be careful losin so much weigh can be bad trust me I know.
a girl i dont know that well, but is good friends with my good friends invited me 2 her b-day party, but i was gonna be on vacation, so i told her that and said i couldn't come. she called me a month later and invited me to another party, but i was really really mad at the moment. and i bitchily said "i'm busy" halfway through her sentance and she was like "oh... ok" and i said "bye" and hung up. i called back and apologized once i had cooled down a bit, and explained it was just my mood. but she's been telling her friends (mine too) that she thinks i hate her. any suggestions to make her realize i have nothing against her (and start getting invited to her parties again, because it sucks, cuz she has them all the time and i'm never invited anymore)
Just tell "look I'm really sorry about my moods and I'm am really sorry that I made you think I hate you. But I don't, can you forgive."
my BEST FRIEND has been for me since 2nd grade, and i dont want anything to come between us.
last year i went out with a guy, umm lou..sure...and he broke up with me...but ive always been crushing on him since. just crushing...i still flirt with others and stuff, but my best friend..uhh..zoe....nos that i "like" him.
lately shes been flirting with lou alot, and she came out and told me she likes him more than a friend. i was really upset, but she promised me that she wouldnt hurt me by going out with him or anything.
so now she told LOU that she liked him, and im thinking that they are soon going to go out, cuz my other friend came up to me and was like, "do you hate zoe now??" and im like why and their like "oops nvm" and so i think they're gonna go out or already are.
so what im asking is should i just let them go and break my heart..but still have my friend and try to forget about it-or let this situation hurt my friendship and make her realize how bad she really hurt me.
ill rate high nomatter what cuz this is longish...thnx
What you should do is tell her how you feel. Don't get mad though cause that will make it worse. Just ask "Are you and LOU going out?" if she says yes then tell her "I thought you promised that you wouldn't HURT ME by going out with him and look what you are doing to me now" Look just talk it over. It least you two will forget somewhere.
ME and my best friend used to never get in fights but lately she is like causing so much drama and like gettin pissed at me for nuthin and i dunno if there is anything i can do to change this.. should i baQ off for a lil while n let her get her issues strait.. or wut?!? please help!!
You need to help her. If she is you best friend you can't just stand there. If she been making drama lately there must be something that is botherin' her if you ask she will tell. You never know just help her out.
What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?
Well to me a friend is like a back up. See your best friend is someone you can tell your secrets to, helps you when your sad, calms you down when ya mad, and will be there for you no matter what. And a friend is, well not as good as a best friend but at least having someone to talk to when your BEST friend ain't there.
i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do
-to hate or not to hate-
13/f
You should not hate. What you need to do is try not to have so many arguments. Talk to her as calm as possible. You need to tell her straight up saying "ya know what we really got to stop fighting or else our friendship will get father and father apart and I don't want that to happen"