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Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 9:37 pm

I'm 13 female and i haven't kissed anyone yet...is this normal? Most of my friends have kissed someone but i want to wait until i find someone special. Most girls though have their first kiss when they are 12...am I abnormal? Or just plain 'ol me?

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Erinlvsyou answered Monday September 5 2005, 4:34 am:
well thats just you plenty of girls havent kissed anyone bby that age. dont worry your time will come!
<33 erilvsyou

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jessicatrujillo answered Monday September 5 2005, 2:11 am:
Thats not true first you would want to be with a guy that you really like and when you are ready. When the time is right you you BOTH are ready the time will come. hope I helped and good luck.

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Courckypooh answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:45 pm:
just think of it as this.
Would you like your first kiss to be with a guy, who a day later breaks up with you because he finally got you to kiss him? How bout waiting for a really good bf or a guy that you like, or a guy friend that likes you so it's something you'll want to remember, and everytime you think about it, you won't hurt because the next day he broke up with you.
Get it?
I just think its better to have something good to remember of it.
Good luck and it is perfectly normal!
<3 Kylie

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geminic17 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 11:24 am:
It is normal. I never had my first kiss either. There is nothing wrong with you.

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TR0PiCALX3 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 2:19 am:
your fine!! I know ALOT of people who have waited..don't worry..your normal!! &hearts;

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OrangeLuverr answered Sunday September 4 2005, 2:16 am:
no its totally normal..there are tons and tons of girls much older than that and still havnt had their first kiss. you should wait for the right one, its worth the wait =)

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karenR answered Sunday September 4 2005, 1:54 am:
I agree with you! Wait until you find someone special. Don't just kiss some frog...wait for prince charming. You are normal! :)

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BaMaBaBy2005 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 1:51 am:
Dont worry you're not weird! Its normal to want to wait for the right guy b/c you always remember your fist kiss and some girls just rush into it to say they did it. But its okay to wait my first kiss was when i was 13 so slow down and take it easy you'll kiss when you're ready!

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:50 pm:
HEY! gurl dont worri about that it is like tobelii normal its your decision n you can do it when ever you want n dont listen to other people if they say its weird it is not trust me oki wel i hope i helped mwaz xOxO//&hearts;\

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xoiiheartyou answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:02 pm:
Hey! No your perfectly normal... I think its great that your waiting for the right guy to spend your first kiss with! Just don't worry about what your friends have done... {dont feel left out...cause its AWESOME that you wanna wait!} If you need more help just IM me on aol my screen name is xo ii heart you... or leave another question on here
-Amber

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BecauseYouLivex3 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:56 pm:
It's deffinately normal !!! Dont worry !! Some girls just dont get theres so early. And they want to wait like you just so they can make there first kiss special. Your perfectly fine ! Hope I helped !

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mangui answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:45 pm:
hey, im 13 too.my first kiss was when i was 12 ,but i wish i had waited for my love because hes here know,but not giving me the fist kiss.just wait is normal.you wont regreted!!!!.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:37 pm:
Hey. Its deffinitly normal. I'm 14 and i've only/have been kissed on the cheek. Dont worry about friends of yours. Its good that you want to wait for someone speacial. I'm doing the same thing, cept, i cant date or like...kiss a guy until i'm 16 so yea. But, once again,its totally normal for a 13 year old not to have kissed anyone yet.
~Brina

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TheTeenGirl answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:27 pm:
Definetly not abnormal. Just because your friends, or anyone has kissed a guy when they were 12, that doesn't mean that they've found the right person. Some girls do it just to experiance it, which isn't the best way to experiance a kiss. You should never rush a kiss with guys. If it happens, then the kiss will feel more normal instead of a big plan. So, never try to make a kiss happen. Just live your life, 13 is a super young age to be kissing anyway. So, you are too far from abnormal to be worrying about it.


-TheTeenGirl

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anne_givings answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:14 pm:
haha you are anything but abnormal i think its stupid to kiss someone JUST to kiss someone if you dont even really like them like that! i havent kissed anyone and im turning fifteen soon but im happy as a clam!
hope i helped!
<3 anne givings

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xo_iiLoVeYuH answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:13 pm:
oh my god dont worry about that. you are completely normal for waiting for the right person. my sister didnt have her first make out until she was 16. who cares what your friends do wait for when you think it is right ! i hope that helped !

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-Jackie

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TalentedStarz answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:02 pm:
well of course it is normal ;) yoo will bee ready wen YOO are redy not wen your frends are! in this situation its all about ur choice! hope i helped :)

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andhearts answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:43 pm:
hey girl! no thats totally normal. really, it is. im just like you. im waiting for that specail person too. your first kiss is something you remember for the rest of your life...it really is. and it shouldnt be something that your forced to do. it shuoldnt be planed. but if thats was YOU WANT....go on and do it. but i personally think it should be when the times right...and you will know when its the time. and romantic. but that might not be what you want. and if its not, im sorry...because then im giving all the wrong advice. but you should be mature when you have your first kiss. and personally i dont think your mature enough to appreciate it at age 12. well, send a message to my inbox on your respnse. hope i helped. much love, erica

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naimee answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:42 pm:
You're so normal, lol. & I think it's cool that you're actually waiting to find that certain someone to share your first kiss with. Because, to some people a kiss is nothing, but it really does mean a lot to people. Good job! But, yeah, you really are normal, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 14 & most of my friends haven't even kissed anyone yet & they're like 15/16. =)

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sbloemeke answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:41 pm:
No, you are not abnormal, your friends are just fast. You are perfectly fine. I think the average age for a first kiss is 14.5, so you're still in fine territory. Heck, I'm 16.5 and still haven't. But, I am male, it may be different.
-Steven

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Brittany_Kay answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:41 pm:
You are so normal! Don't worry about what others do! You do what you want! When you want! :)

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BeMyPrInCe22 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:40 pm:
no its okay dont worry.

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DazedAndConfused answered Saturday September 3 2005, 9:39 pm:
your just plain ol' you trust me i had like my first kiss when i was goign to be 14 and my first kick when i was 15 ...its normal every girl is different...just wait your time will come and it will be good

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