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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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my little sister is 11 turning 12 in a couple of months and is confused about what to be. Any ideas?

fairy, witch, dead cheerleader, briney spears , marilyn monroe, madonna, paris hilton, bunny , cat ,mouse, dog , baby, belly dancer

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I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)

watch texas chainsaw cause 1) it will freak u out and 2) its a good movie as well.

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I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)

watch texas chainsaw cause 1) it will freak u out and 2) its a good movie as well.

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what are some good comedy, scary or just good general movies

wedding crashers, grease, elizabethtown, walk to remember, mean girls, notebook, ten things i hate about you, 13 going on 30, legally blonde, the list goes on.....

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This one girl invited me to her birthday party I dont want to be mean and say no because that'll be men does anybody know any good excuses and PLEASE HURRY.

tell her you already have plans with your family & cant cancel on them again

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does anyone have any good ideas what i can be for halloween. I'm 14, a girl, and it's going to be liek 60 degrees out. I want to be something, fun, crazy, and sexy. NOT somethign scary or ugly. any ideas? thnx, ill rate

cat,bunny,supermodel,marilyn monroe, madonna....

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Is it true that putting a dab of toothpaste on spots overnight will bring down the redness and flatten out the bump?
Thank you!
(Sorry but I rate honestly!)

yeshem it worked for me son

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a few days now and what are some things I could do to show him that I am a really good girl to be with and stuff that would make his day?

be nice to him, compliment him, make him lunch, help him with work/chores

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My computer just recently got fixed so it ran just like a new computer, now idk what happened but it doesn't let me go on aim and idk its being gay.. does anyone know any good and free virus scans? please help! i rate high

I use norton because its amazing...its not free though, it cost $85, but its so worth it.

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what are some ways to flatten you stomach that actually work? i don't want a 6 pack, just toned i guess. thanks, i rate.

crunches,situps & curlups.

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well saturday my friend is having a halloween party so i need to find a costume QUICK any kinds for a 14year list as many as u can please

bunny,cat,baby,supermodel,marilyn monroe, dead cheerleader, mouse

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what does it mean " boys like you are a dime a dozen" and yes i know its from a song

lol i think its an insult..meaning your worthless but i could be wrong

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Okay, so hypothetically...Lol...
I have this friend. (No, seriously, I do) She likes this one guy, but he and I are friends and he acts like he likes me sometimes. Like, he hits on me over IM, flirts at me, tends to look at me when she and I are talking to him, and he asks me for help with his homework, even though my friend and I are both in his classes.
Now, I have a boyfriend. This guy's cute, but I'm not interested in him. I feel weird 'cause she likes him, and he appears to like me...
What would you do in this situation?
Please lay off the chatspeak...^^

Okay, since your friend has a bf, and hasnt openly told you her feelings for him, you cant be too sure. If you like this guy, and think you would really want to be with him, then you should breakup with your bf because thats not fair to any of you - especially your bf.

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ok im 13 and in a year im gonna start high school my best friends going to private school and im going to public and this guy i have liked for 2 years is moving 3 hours away I dont know what to do because theese people have been such a big part of my life for as long as i can remeber

You will meet so many new ppl at highschool that even if those three friends didnt leave, you prob wouldnt see them THAT much during the schoolday anyways. This will give you a great chance to make new friends though.

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okay. so, i ended up getting a gentle no from a guy on my invite to an upcoming way formal dance. what he said was that he really wants to go, but he just cant afford it. what am i sopsed to do about that? since i asked him should i pay for his ticket? so, i guess u could say he likes me...right? so what do i think of that?

please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!!

It may hurt his feelings or ego if you offer to pay since guys are the ones who are suppose to, but you could offer to lend him some money for now if you really want him to go.

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I'm an Aethiest. I strongly believe that there is no god. I respect other people's religions, and I don't try to convert people or anything. Now, I've been in scouting for years. Lots of years. From a Tiger Cub Scout in 1st grade to a First Class scout now (I'm kind of slow with scouting). Anyway, the requirement for every class that says to live the Scout Oath and Scout Law in your every day life is now being enforced. My parents made me describe each part of the Law and Oath in great depth. When we reached Brave and Clean, I was starting to slip up. And then we reached Reverent.

Boy Scouts expects everyone to believe in some sort of god, and be straight. Gays and Aethiests have been kicked out in the past. And since Boy Scouts is a private thing, government can't interfere. People have tried to sue and lost the case. Now, I want to keep scouting. I love being a Boy Scout. Plus, it'll look good on my job application forms when I'm old enough that it won't be against child labor laws. =P So my options are:

a) Quit scouting (I don't want to. Really.)

b) Believe in a god (I'm not going to change my beliefs because of this. It's not in human nature.

c) Lie about my religion (Also against the Scout Oath. Not good.)

So obviously, I'm screwed. What should I do? It's putting so much pressure on me...

Well if you must go against your beleifs then its really not worth it. I'm sure there are many other clubs & orgs. you can join that dont discriminate

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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate)

well if hes not acknowledge you at school then he definately isn't worth sweating over. If he really liked you, he would be acting just as sweet at school. Maybe he's even trying to two time you wiht your bestfriend....it does happen.

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My sweet sixteen is in 10 months, I need to get my planning on a roll. Big problem, I don't know what I want to do anyone has any ideas. Umm, I live in the suburbs and I am an african american with a lot of friends. Please help

some themes: moulin rouge, clubbing, hollywood...ect. Just anything that seems cute & you know all your friends like.

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My parents are ALWAYS fighting with my older sister. I've always been the "good" child so I don't normally get in fights with my parents. But the problem is that I hate it when they all fight it just REALLY breaks me down and sometimes I just need to talk to someone that understands!! And I don't really want to talk to my guidence counciler at school.I have this really close friend that I tell everything and she can TOTALLY relate to me but I think I need a little more!! What can I do???? Please help me!!! I need ALL the advice I can Get!!

try writing your problems out in a journal. If you want to share you feelings with other ppl though, try livejournal or xanga. Try calling a hotline.

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She is not very social. She is not very "cool." She wants to be my friend but I don't like her very much. She is weird. She got off the bus crying the other day because people call her a lezbo and a homosexual. I asked her why she was crying and she said she didn't know what thoughs words mean. I am 1 year younger than her. She is a geek...HELP ME! How do I a) get her away from he and/or b) make her cooler shall I say.

well first of all let her know what those words mean. Either you guys are very young or she has been living under a rock to not know what they mean. Anyways, you can get away from her by telling her you don't feel comfterable around her or you can make her cooler by letting her hang out with you & lettin her in own new "cool" stuff.

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