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I am a nice funny person. I love to swim and dance, and i love to help people. I like hanging out wiht my friends and goin out on friday nights and stayin out late! Im all about havin fun!! Ask me for help when you need it. I will be happy to answer your questions. I love answering questions about relationships, so ask me about that!
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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!
Oh sorry to say..you got yourself in kinda deep....You HAVE to tell him. Make sure your not pragnant first though so you can tell him for sure your not, because if you are, that might lessen your chances with getting back with your boyfriend (sorry to say, but hopefully your not pregnant*) and get yourself tested and stuff. Anyway, if you dont tell..this will always be on your mind, and you will always feel like theres something between you and your boyfriend that needs to be said...and this situation will be it. if your bo friend really cares for you...he would probably take you back...but it might take a while. If he doesnt ocme aorund right away....give him a couple of weeks, and see what his intentions are. Although you shouldnt have drank and gotten drunk......people do make mistakes....even though your 15, and this was a HUGE mistake (sorry but it was) try not to get yourself into situations like that anymore, because they can lead to trouble. Anyway, just explain what had happene,d and all the things that were on your mind, and tell him how much your love him....hopefully after some time, he will come back to you. Hope i helped! And good luck!
My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
Please help
ok well did you at least talk to your mom about it? because these symptoms sound pretty serious...unless you use like acrilic nails on your nails, so they become weak, or you use straighteners that make your hair fall out...but any way, you need to over come your fear of needles and get a doctor.....sorry...but you do.
i have a lotta vivid dreams, and theyre always frightening, stressful, or sad, so i keep waking up scared, panicked or even crying. so it takes me forever to get back to sleep again. i know i probs cant stop the dreams but does anyone have any tips on how i could relax when i wake up from them? ive tried everything from stretching to listening to music to breathign excersizes and nothing works until i just drop off back to sleep again and have another scary/panicking dream. what else can i do?
the dreams are usually about me being lost somewere and panicking that i cant get back, or me dying, or being chased by something, that kinda thing if that helps.
ta muchly.
Well starting off with the dreams...are you eating right before you go to bed..or watching alot of tv?? That can cause bad dreams.....try reading alittle before going to bed....it will get your really tired from looing at the pages filled with words. but if your do get these bad dreams and wake up, try drinking a glass of water, it will cool you down, or try reading again lol, find something boring. My assisstant principal told us all that if we wake up in the middle of the night and cant sleep, to read the like 5pagesof school rules in out agenda books (school planners). Hope i helped!
Okay, I'm really confused about this guy, it's drving me crazy. This boy and I are in the one of the same classes together, and we talked somewhat, and I did flirt with him, but didnt expect anything to come out of it. Well, we started talking on the internet a lot, and he admitted to me that he liked me. So me and him started going out. Well in school he doesnt talk much and it's kind of awkward between us, and sometimes we don't even talk. It doesn't seem like he wants to be around me much. For that first week, he was online all the time, and was the sweetest person to me, always telling me how much he wanted to see me, and now he's hardly ever on. I confronted him and asked him if he still wanted to go out with me and he said he did. it just seems like he acts like two diffrent people. At times he'll seem like he doesnt wanna be touched, and then the next second he'll put his arm around me and pull me closer. And he doesn't talk to me on the phone, and he doesnt make much of an effort to see me on the weekends. But, he is really nice most of the time, and really sweet, there's just nothing to talk about between us.I know this sounds trivial and unimportant, but it really bugs the hell out of me. So could someone please help me and tell me what's going on or what to do?
You know, im kinda going through the same thing....but not really. I have a relationship with a guy and we are like family friends but he goes ot my school. He like nevr talks to me in school, but onlne we always talk, and like whenever i go ove rhis house in the summer we always have fun. I sometimes do care about the way he acts with me in school, because it makes me sad. But we arent going out. But as for you, i think you need to make a bigger effort to go up to HIM and talk with HIM at school, and make some date plans, and see how he reacts. If in school you try to talk, and he acts like he doesnt really know you..then forget him, you deserve better. I know its hard...but for a relationship to work, there must be communication...whcih there seems to be lacking in this one. Hope i helped!
Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear?
y dont tou put a lock on your suitcase....that way he cant even get in. or you can tell your mom that your on your period, and tel her you dont want your brother going in there and finding them like he always does. Just so shes aware of whats going on. Put them in alittle cosmetics case or something under a bunch of makeup and stuff.....are there any secret compartments in your suitcase?? Like sippers along the sides or something. Pts the pads inside a shir and like rap the shirt up around it. Plus even if he does see them, unless hes young, he should know what they are and all girls need them, and if hes really young he wont know what they are, or he will be so unconfortable with seeing them.....he wont look in your suitcase anymore. I mean hes your brother..not like a guy from school...dontbe ashamed. Hope i helped!
I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this?
I htink that he may be telling the truth about being sick....did he seem sick like caughing?? if not it was probabily just a cover up because since hes shy, he wont move to kissing to fast. or maybe he just believes kissing on the first date is moving to fast, and he was just taking his beliefs to action. I dont really htink you have anything to worry about. Tou guys like each other, and you didnt know. Maybe the next time you get into a good convo, somewhere in the middle just say something like...."hey, sorry i was moving laittle to fast on our date, i wasnt sure i you were ready for it, or even if I was.." I dunno thats just a thought. Hope i helped!
Hey does anyone know any good ways to lose about 5 pounds for the summer? My friend wants to go to the beach but i dont look right in a bathingsuit. Any tips would be REALLY helpful Thanx
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if you cut 500 caleries...like if you normall y eat 2000 caleries a day, eat ike 1500....then u will lose 1 pound a week....excersizing will help you lose more...cut out potatoes breads pastas, eat more fruits and vegies..hop ei helped!
my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop
yes cats will always do this..put out some treats or food or soemthing so it will pay attention to that....im rating this question a three...its kinda funny and put a smil eon my face!
my cats name is jack...and he drools...alot...is that normal?
to tell you the truth, I have never really seen a cat drool...your cat jack is very interesting to me. Maybe one of his teeth is bothering him, or is like hurting. I just know when a baby drools a lot its because his teeth are growing and hurt....(not comparing babies to a cat) lol. It was just a thought. If it countinues...take it to the vet...make sure he had water out for him.....Hope i helped!
I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.
woah girl.....finding love isnt the big reason of haveing a relationship at your age..which is also mine. Your supposed to go out for fun, and the experience! I guess it also teaches what kinds of guys are good for you, and which arent, and they teach you looks dont matter and its about the perdons personality. I do think you can fall in love at a young age... Some people take most of their life to find their soul mate, some people, find them really quick. Adults are to serious about it, but kids play around with dating, and sometimes find that right person....but would never really know untill you got older and went out with some other people. Since this is your first boyfriend, you might not understand what love really is yet..Hop ei helpedBy the way, if you think your to young to fall in love, and dump a guy because you dont love him (yet) how will you ever fall in love? You would always think the relationship is pointless before you got to know the guy. Your not wasting time and energy with this guy..unless hes not treating you well, but u didnt mention that so....keep with him.
It's me again! If I do break up with my boyfriend under these circumstances how should I go about doing it? should I wait until our next arguement and then ask him how he feel the relationsip is going? or if realistically things could still work out?
ok well maybe..you should wait a little, see how tings are going. if they seem to be going good..then countinue with your relationship. But one thing is...dont TRY to make it good by always agreeing with him, and letting him win fights. Make it good by how it SHOULD be. i mean when you frst got together...your relationship was good...and other relationships you have been in...some where ood right? Is this relationship good like that? if not...and your feeling like your pressuring yourself to stay in the relationship, call him, or do it in person as soon as you can. The sooner you do it, the happier you will be, the closer you are to a new fresh and good relationship! Hope i helped again!
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I am 16 (sophomore) and he is 18 (senior). Recently we have been getting into stupid arguements because he seems to like arguing and always has to be right. I always give into him just because I don't want to fight anymore. He also never listens to me when I say "no" when he tries to touch me. We both lost our virginity to each other and sometimes I let him, but when I tell him not to, if im just not in the mood he, doesn't seem to understand that. We've talked about it numerous times and I've tried everything. Do you think this relationship can be saved? Because he means so much to me and I would hate more than anything to hurt him.
Thank you
-Confused
well....you said you didnt want want to hurt him...well hunny comone...look at all he has done to you. He doesnt respect what you want when it comes to sex....respect is one of the most important things in a relationship, and if he doesnt respect you, the relationship cant work. Dince he doesnt respect you..hes hurting you. Dumping him might hurt him, but by the way hes acting..he doesnt deserve you. If you have talked about it, and nothing as changed..i dont see how it ever will. As it comes to you religions...its very good its so important to and i dont see why he wont talk to you more about his...i dunno of hes hiding something, im not familiar with the baptist religion...but it looks like he just doesnt know enough about it. He should support your beliefs, and if he doesnt...once again, he doesnt deserve you. I hope i helped! Thanx for asking just me, it makes me feel good people want just my advice..it means something i said changed someone for the better :) If you have more questions just ask.
Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.
why dont you go to a school guidence counceler, and tell him/her, tell them your concerns and the concerns of other in your school..maye get a small group oof 3 people to go with you..and tell your guidence counceler to not tel this girl your names..so its kept a secret between your group and the guidence counceler....he/she will call her parents if its a problem which it sound like it is. Hope i helped!
hey can anyone help me? i am 13/f there is this guy at my school who i really like and think he is totally hot and cute and sweet and nice. he is all i think about and i am always talking about him to my friends. but the problem is he ignores me and is annoyed by me but i really just wanna be friends right now but he won't even talk to me anymore!!!! can anyone tell me how to get his attention? i need some help!!!! thanks so much!!!!
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get his attention by being open, if your in any classes with him...answer question! He will see your kind of a leader and very smart...Number one thing to do is...dont look at him...i know it may be hard. Dont talk to him for like 2 weeks...se what happens...he will come up to you to talk. This works becaus ei have done it, i am 14/f, and a guy friend had told me to do this and it works! Hope i helped!
im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.
well......its normal that this white stuff...which is discharge...is coming out..nothing to worry bout. Some people dont get their periods until they are like 16. And im sorry to say...no one can tell you how long afetr are you have discharge will you get your period..i means its been 2 years..everyones body are different, but dont wory. When your time comes it does...hope i hleped and dont worry!
im just wonderin how is this a home decorating question??
I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI?
sometimes it doesnt...depends on your hair..those kinds of straighteners never worked good one my hair...i got a straightener ranked better then a chi and a little cheapers..like $116...its called a sedu ionic straightener or something... look on this website.....http://www.folica.com/Ceramic_Fl_214_1.html Hope i helped!
I have a boy friend and my perants are cool with it but then my friend said that he was going to ask me on a date my parents say that I can't date till I drive what should I do
maybe you can ask your parents if they can invite this guy over to your house one day for dinne ror something so they can meet him...i know sounds corny, but it might work. I mean if you cant date him..but call him your boyfriend..whate the point....no fun. Plus you dont want htis guy dumping you because your parents wont let you do anything with him.
ok my cuzin wants me to stand up in her 15th birthday they have another name for it but i can't spell it and i'm not gonna waste my time trying to spell it anyways i got 3 months i want to lose some weight! please give me tips on wat to eat and excersing i rate high and do u know how much weight i could possibly lose in 3 months ?
go to toneteen.com for idea and tips on eating right. Just run and do lots of cardio excersizes. If you work hard you can lose like 24 pounds in 3 months...is the party also called a quininera....or somehtin like that..is it like spanish?? sorry that was off topic. dont eat starchy foods, like pread, pasta, potatoes. You can try the cabbage soup diet...search for it on google..it works you have o tmake this soup thats better when its cold to eat. Hope i helped!
i like to write songs or poems, well at least try. but everytime that i do at the end they always sound really stupid. so does anyone know any like tips or tricks that i could use to maybe get some decent ideas or to make it not sound so well...corny?
maybe...you should go to a place you feel is very confortable..maybe sit in front of a lake and just look out...or a sunset...corny i know sorry. or like think about someone you love.....or have strong feelings for. Hope i helped!
Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!!
ok well im sorry to say but you just named everything that COULD be done, and you said dont tell you that so i mnot gonna. But i mean if your not willing to do any of those things, shaving is the only thing that you can do. Just remeber to yuse soup or shaving cream because if you dont you can get rrazor burn..and it will be all red. Bleieve me i see girls have tred al in that area under their nose and its not pretty. Also, you might wanna put some face cream over that area afetr you shave it. Hope i helped!