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Ok well i went to Florida a week ago and i got a little color and i got all these little bumps all on my shoulders and i got them last summer too i think its some kind of sun rash but im not sure...? does anyone know of anything i could use to make it clear up and go away or anything i mean i use like body wash and like noxzeama or how ever you spell it on my back and face for break outs but there not zits so idk please answer... (link)
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I think it's just a heat rash. Put some aloe vera on it and it'll just take some time to go away.
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OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do? (link)
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It doesn't make you a bad friend. It's only natural to be jealous, but the best thing to do is to just give her his number. It'll suck, but it's the right thing to do. If you didn't, he would find out eventually and then they'd both probably get mad at you and it would just turn out really bad. Hope I helped.
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I'm trying to determine out what makes things funny. Is it witty lines, timing, random stuff, or something else? I'll be looking forward for your answers.
Thank you
~Teen Guru (link)
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It all depends on the people. Sure timing has a lot to do with it, but also the type of humor. Some people think dirty jokes are funny while others have a dry sense of humor where wit is used. Use of sarcasm and a lot of other elements help things to be funny. It just kind of depends on the audience and the person that is saying the comment.
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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right (link)
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Personally, it sounds like the beginning of an abusive relationship to me. He should not be picking her friends and telling her where she can and can not go. It's too controlling not to be suspicious. First, talk to her about it and then if it becomes serious tell her mom. If you do tell her mom, be prepared for your friend to become very angry with you. Another aspect to think about is that if something really bad happened and you could have prevented it, would you feel guilty? Hope I helped and hope everything turns out ok.
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why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me?? (link)
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This is my own opinion and may not be right but I'm just putting it out there. I think guys are very territorial. Anything they once had any "claim" to, they feel like they still do even after you guys break up. He could be feeling jealous even if he currently has a girlfriend and just trying to do whatever he can to keep you away from anyone else. Sorry if that was completely off the mark and didn't help you.
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i went to my grandmas house yesterday and went swiiming and to get a tna ok when i first went in her apartment complex there were 3 guys i didnt really look or pay attention to them.. but then be4 i went to get tan i had to get something from my moms car and we i went up one of them was like hey andout of kindness i said hi back then when i was walkin to the pool air he came back up to me and was like do you see my friend over there he like you and wants to go out with you..i was like i dont know you and i dont know your firned he was like so he can get your number and talkn to you and get to know you and you guys can hang out. i wasnt wantin to talk a lot bc my mom was watchin all of this but she didnt know anything he said.on purpose will i was tryin to take off my clothes they throw there ball in water and wanted me to go and get it the basically wouldnt let me get a tan. my question is what am i supposed to do? i mean i would like it for the guy that likes me to come up to me and talk to me but he is too scared..he wasnt ugly i mean he had a really nice body. i was goin to go up to him but my mom was there so i was thinkin when i go back to my grandmas house what should i do? even if i dont go out wit the guy i can at least be his friend..can someone please give me some advice about what to say or do.. (link)
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You don't have to go up to him and strike a conversation with him exactly. Just make eye contact next time you see him, or smile, or just say a little hello. Anything to let him know that you are interested in any kind of relationship without you having to approach him. Hope I helped.
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Ok, so I've liked this guy and I've liked him for at least 4 or 5 months. We are pretty good friends, like we hang at parties (if he doesn't have a gf at the time) and we talk to each other online ALOT. Well, he doesn't know cuz he's had on and off relationships and I'm scared if I tell him it will ruin our friendship. But that's not what I'm asking advice on. Well, I told a best friend of mine that I liked him a loong time ago, like when I started liking him. And I still like him to this day and this friend told me she has started liking him too. And she tries to brag to me about funny conversations they've had and I feel like she's taking what I have of him. and i just don't know what to do....:(...I'll take any advice you have...please... (link)
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Some girls tend to enjoy drama and this friend might just be one of them. I think you should just explain to her that you feel like she's trying to compete with you and you don't appreciate it. Remember that although you might have "dibbed" him first, you don't have claims on him. Just make sure she understands that you don't want to hear about their conversations. Noone can take away your personal relationship with someone else, they can only just try to make you question that relationship. I hope I helped and good luck.
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My bestt friend in the whole world..talks about other girls a lot(he's a guy). And I keep telling myself and everyone else that all we are is friends because i know thats all we ever will be. but why do i get so annoyed/jealous when he talks about other girls?! i dont want to like him like that..because i know my heart will get broken. ive told him i dont like it when he talks about other girls, but he still does? how in the world can i get over him or tell him..well i don't know what i should do about it! pleaseee help!! (link)
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I'm sorry to tell you, but you can't make yourself not like someone. The only way to stop liking someone is to just wait it out. If you think there is a chance that you could benefit from telling him how you TRULY feel and you are willing to take the risk, then go for it. Otherwise all you can do is wait for the right guy for you to come along and sweep you off your feet. If your friend is not into you, then obviously he isn't the right guy. Just think of your friend as a step in the right direction to the right guy. Hope I helped and everything turns out alright.
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This may be long and I will try and not confuse you. My parent got a divorce like 2 years ago and are still going to court and everything for money cause my dad didnt pay for awhile ( he got caught up in drugs and had a lot of crack whores at his house, friend married one and also his friends son almost got shot cause a bunch of blacks *not offense but these people should be dead* wanted drug money or something) anyways i wanted them to get a divorce cause how i see it i dont have a dad. A dad isnt a person your scared when he comes home and u have packed extra clothes for when you get sick of it and run away again. *wow this sounds like a sob story* well we didnt talk for almost two years until i stupidly bought him and christmas gift and had a friend bring me over to his house he bought. He wanted me to blow off my friend and stay with him (he is an alcoholic and was on the verge of getting abusive again) so finally as politly as i could i told him that i already had plans and had to leave. we traded numbers (i hate being rude) and he called a few times i really didnt answere them. then after about 6 months he calls up to tell me he is dying 6 months to a year he has left to live. yeah i know i should be spending every moment with him. that night we went out i had an ok time he made me drive :( then while eating he tells me i need to lose about 20 pounds (im 145 but really athletic and used to be anorexic when i was little) did i also mention i start smoking ciggerates and cutting myself at 8 and drinking around 9. ive stop smoking i cant allow myself to be addicted to something and i dont drink as much. ok maybe i added stuff that dont belong but im trying to show what all im going through. Nows my question *finally* should i start talking to my dad again since he's dying but when we talk all i heard is whats your mother saying about me, why wont you come over im dying, let do this cause im dying. now i sound cold hearted. Any thoughts would really help im so freaking confused. sorry its so long. (link)
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A bunch of blacks? I don't know how that COULDN'T be taken offensively. You didn't have to mention what race the people were as it had NO purpose to the rest of the story. I don't know if you're referring to black people in general should be dead or those selected few, but next time watch what you say because you could easily make that kind of comment with some people who aren't as nice as others around and have some consequences. As of your question (I decided to be nice and answer it), you shouldn't talk to him because it seems like he's just using you as a pawn in whatever sick mind game he might be playing. It is your call since it is your dad and you will have to live with whatever choice you make for the rest of your life. Just remember what you might be sacrificing to make your dad happy.
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Okay well im turning 13 and guys just dont seem to like me... they have intrests in lots of my other friends but just not me... guys have never really liked me, im not sure why though, not to sound vain but im not ugly, am i doing something wrong?! (link)
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They are probably just intimidated by you. There isn't anything you can do right now and I know it sucks, but eventually a guy worthy of your time (and not intimidated by you) will come along. Don't change yourself, remember that. Just because the guys aren't ready for you, doesn't mean you need to change yourself to make it easier for them to approach you. Wait a little bit, and before you know it so many guys will be all over you that you won't know what to do with yourself.
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What are some good movies.. mostly chick flicks or comedy.. thanks! (link)
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Save the Last Dance is a good one... I heard The Notebook was good.... and Rush Hour 1 and 2 are always good... and 10 things I hate about you is funny chick flick.
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ok i've been going out with this guy for six months now but lately all we do is argue. we barely talk anymore and when we do i get soo annoyed by him. i hate to say it but i'm bored of him. i would break up with him but there's two things stopping me:1. we have a 15's to dance together in April and it won't work out if we're not going out and 2.he's in love with me(for real, it's not stupid little kid shizznit) so about a month ago this guy transfered to my school and i thought he was cute. i didn't like him or anything, though. so w/e we started talking about how we should hook up and stuff(it's strictly physical lol) so yea two days ago we went to a basketball game at school and finally hooked up.(he knows i have a boyfriend) you would think i regret it right? wrong. i enjoyed it(and i feel like a bitch for saying it) so now i guess you could say we're "friends w/ benefits" so my ? is, what should i do about my b/f? should i keep hooking up with this guy on the side and then break up w/ my b/f after the 15's?
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Break up with the guy now, my god. You are using him and that is not even right especially if you're going to cheat with him and not going to feel bad about it. Do him a favor and break it off, be unselfish for once. This is probably really mean, but you need to hear it. This has got to be one of the meanest things I've ever heard.
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my mom is going back to college.What should I do? (link)
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Support her? It's cool that she is willing to risk security and normalcy for something she really wants. Not everyone is willing to go back to college and learn something new once they get older. Sure it'll be different, but that's how life is... full of changes.
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i rate 5's
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Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me! (link)
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You need to talk to your school counselor or a teacher you trust. If life is really that bad for you, then you shouldn't stay in that situation. You can't deal with this problem by yourself and you shouldn't have to.
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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!! (link)
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You shouldn't care what other people think of you. If you like him, then you like him. End of story. If your reputation is that big of a deal to you, then you are shallow and shouldn't waste his time. Go out with him if you like him. Your real friends won't care how old he is as long as you like him.
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i have this friend at school and we are really close. (he is a guy) we went out last year for awhile and basically he ended up breaking my heart, but months had gone by and one day he just randomly comes up to me and we end up making out etc... the only thing is, i promised not to tell anyone... the problem is that our relationship has skyrocketted and we are not going out and he has said that he loves me and that the thought of me brings him to his knees, but he can't date me... he is with someone else now in a less tangled, less involved relationship, but i can't stop myself from wanting him anyway. I got him to give me a ride home yesterday and we ended up going too far for comfort since he is taken... he often complains about her. he confides in me a lot. but in the public eye we are enemies. in the public eye, he and i never talk, never even really talk at school. but at home and after school, he is the only person i really have. my feelings for him from the begining never died and he admits that the only reason he left me was because something inside (not the feelings for me) changed.
can someone tell me what i should do? (link)
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Have you ever thought he could be using you? The whole keeping the relationship a secret thing is kind of suspicious and the fact that he already has a girlfriend. If you are sure he really loves you, then you have to either deal with having to share him and keep your relationship a secret or make him choose. Sorry to say, but no one can tell you what to do, only you will truly know. Just tell him how you feel and give him the options you think you have for the future. I'm not sure I understand what you mean when he said "something changed" , but I guess things will work out as they should. Good luck and I hope I helped in some kind of way.
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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
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No it won't last your 13, but if you want to imagine he's the one then go ahead. No offense but it is unrealistic to do so, but as long as it doesn't do any harm there's nothing wrong with it. All I know is there is no way for you to know if he's the one when you don't even know what you want in a guy yet.
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 6 months... and then things started to change. so i broke up with him. then the next day he asked me back out and i said yes. and then after like a week i broke up with him again because it was different then before and i didnt like it. and he keeps calling me when hes in tears and i dont know what to do.. if i went back out with him ide be doin it because i feel bad for him and i dont wanna hurt him. more and more people are telling me "he'll change for you... he'll be different" and its all retarted and i dont wannna go back out with him.
any suggestions on what to do next???
thanks in advance
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Explain that he shouldn't have to change for you and that he needs a girlfriend that will accept him as he is. It's ok that you don't want him back, but he does need a girl who really wants him. Also, tell the other people to mind thehir own business. Sure they might be "trying to help", but it's only making the situation worse. You're only 13, surely they knew it wasn't going to last forever and you were going to move on to someone else. No offense, but I'm surprised you guys lasted 6 months. That's a long time for a lot of relationships especially for 13 year olds.
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15/F--I like this guy, and its the first time I've liked a guy mostly based on his personality and having looks coming second. I'm not a shallow person but when I usally like guys I'm attracted to them physically. But he is a great guy and he has told me before that I was pretty, and that I was a great person all around. I decided to finally do something about wanting to be more than friends, and a friend of mine is going to talk to him tomorrow. I'm happy that he will find out, but also kinda scared because I feel that there might be no chance. When he compliements me, he says it when I feel down about my looks and everything so I feel that its just his way of trying to make me happy. So when he asks me about me liking him, online (we go to different schools) I am going to be at a loss for words. I want to say everything is true, but on the other hand I want to run and hide. I am just so insecure about myself and what he will think of me, its making me crazy. I'm not really asking for specific advice, just comments and words of enncouragment. What should I tell him when he asks me about it? Thanks and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what! (link)
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Just be upfront with him. If you are going to have someone talk to him about it, then go through with it all the way. Tell him your feelings and put it all out in the open. He seems like he's a pretty cool kid and I don't see anything TERRIBLE coming from you telling him the truth. You're going to have to tell him the truth eventually, and if you run and hide he'll start to question your friend's honesty. Once again, just dive in with the whole situation. You started it, so you might as well finish it.
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Ok so in dance we're doing these choreography projects and my group wants to do either lyrical or jazz. Does anyone know any good lyrical or jazz songs? (link)
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Rock your soul by Elisa is a really good lyrical song and I love the song Ordinary People by John Legend so it could work for jazz.
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