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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) !

First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



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Is a guy who has a girlfriend completely off limits? Why do you think that way?

Because that is the rule!
They're taken, and other people love/like them.

So yes, they're off limits.

Would you like another girl doing that to you, I'm guessing no?!

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what color eyeliner and eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes??

Green, Plum/Purple, Creme, brown works with a lot of colors.

Also, wear brown eyeliner, it will make it pop more.

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how much do breast implants cost around?? and is it better to get one beore having a baby or after???

They cost around $5,000-$10,000.

Also, there are different types of breast implants you can get. And they have different types of procedures too.

It's better to get them after you have a baby, and they're done breast feeding.

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I have light brown eyes. What kind or color of eye shadow should I wear to accent them?

Purple/Plum, Green, Brown, Gold, mostly a lot of colors.

What the coloumnist below me said was right on.

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okay i got an email from my friend and it was a game. at the top ot said david copperfield. and it said to pick a card than to look in his eyes and when you look again it wasnt there... HOW DOES HE DO THAT?!??? ESPECIALLY OVER THE COMPUTER

please and thank you.
so confused!

haha my mother got the same one.

Is it were you pick a card, but not click it, then say it in your mind as you look at him, and then he guesses ?

Well I'm not quite sure how he does that, and I know a lot of people aren't, but hey it's David Copperfield, you're not supposed to know the trick.

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what is your motivation for giving others advice here?

My motivation is because I like to help people. I'd like to think I am fairly well at giving advice. Also, I always like to give my opinion on things, and when I'm older I want to be a therapist or psyciatrist. So, this helps me practice.

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I know that the sidekick 3 has an mp3 player, but once you upload songs onto it can you make those songs your ringtones and stuff?

I personally had the Sidekick 3, and now I have the Sidekick LX.

No, you can NOT make the song your ringtone. You can't do that on any of their sidekick phone, that I know of. That's for the Sidekick 2, 3, and LX.

Also, just to let you know they discontinued the Sidekick 3, just to let you know.

Also, the bluetooth isn't like regular phones, it can not share ringtones with other phones, like the RAZR or such. It's more towards connecting headsets.

* I know this because I've tried.*
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I REALLY NEED HELP! i have a 6 week old puppy, he is a lab/pit bull. he was crated when he was with his mom and brothers. but now that hes crated here even if hes falling over tired he still cries! he wont stop. all night long. non stop.. we have to put him in the basement where we cant hear him but i feel so bad!!! even in my room if the door is shut he starts yelping. i know the crying is just cause hes out of what hes intouch with but everything people have said to do does NOT work. even if i lay down with him and my fingers inthe crate singing or talkign to him he SCREAMSSSSS and i cant take it. i start to cry. if anybody has ANY tips pleaseee help me.

*a vet told me not to put any hot water bottles, school clocks, blankets, or toys unless they are kongs. they choke on toys and blankets, pop the water bottle, pee on the toys and blankets. it makes a mess... so i cant put anything int here!! i put his stuffed animals outside looking in thinking that would help. it didnt.

*I take his water and food up about 2 hours before being crated and i take him to go to the bathroom and run him around alittle bit untill he gets SUPER tired and is falling over. (he still wakes up when he is put in there and starts howling)

any tips, stories, anythiiinnngg!!! just please help me! thanks sooo much in advance.

*EDIT*

I did not say that you were torturing him or using it as punishment, I was just advising you not to. I'm just saying I know when I was a child I used to sit out of my dogs crate and do that, but now I've learned that it only makes it worse. I hope whatever you tries works, Good Luck!

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What the columnists below me said were smart.

Large puppies like that are not meant to me crate trained, they gear that more towards smaller dogs, because lets face it bigger dogs need to sprawl out and run. They have a lot of energy and need/want to use it.

You could try facing him to the door/wall, and/or put the sheet over the crate. Don't just sit out of his crate and pet his threw there or put his toy outside the crate, they teases him! It's actually pretty cruel, because if you have the ability and time to sit out there and watch him, then why don't you take him out?!

I know this sounds weird but we bought a playpen for dogs for my little teacup yorkie, it's less restricted. It may not work for your puppy because he's bigger but it might. Try www.divapups.com -Or you could get a real baby playpen, although when they become bigger they may knock it over and it will fall.

Like the coloumnist below me said, each day put him in there for more and more time, but don't use it as torture or disipline.

But please, if you are going to keep him in there and not let him be free and run, get rid of him, to a nice loving family.

*Crate training is used only in night, when it is time for the dog to go to sleep.*

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how many times can you go tanning at the same place in a day?

You are only allowed to go tanning once every 24 hours.

So, if you went tanning on Monday at 4pm, you couldn't go tanning again until Tuesday after 4pm.

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Alright so this may be an intresting question...

I want to know if each of these things is considered good or bad, ok?

-My b.f has an 8inch penis (hurts me sometimes)
-He doesnt cum for like 2 hours (this is the one that worries me a lil)
-he never gets tired after sex

haha thanks in advance!

- That size is not normal liek the coloumnist below me had said, the average size for a male erect penis is around 5.2-5.7 inches. So, he is considered above average. Not saying this is a bad thing, every womens bodies can hadle different sizes.

-Before sex try foreplay, give him hand/head. It may help.

- Most men at a young age can keep going and going for a long time, because well face it, guys like sex. Studies show that Men's sexual peek is when they're around 18, while for Women it's when they're in their 40's. Strange huh ? This meaning, they're their best and have more energy.



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I want a really pink lipstick of lipgloss that really shows its pink. I live in MO and i've checked walmart and walgreens ... so what places should i check.?

You can try your local mall, or you can go on the websites for Walgreens (www.walgreens.com) or go to Walmart (www.walmart.com)

I looked alittle at the cosmetics on walgreens,
I found an Almay Lipstick, in the color of Pink it's around $8.

http://www.walgreens.com/store/pickcolor.jsp?CATID=100294&navAction=push&navCount=10&id=prod2028993&skuid=sku2028473


If you like anyone of them that you find online, you can just order it from there and have it shipped to you!

If you try the mall, I know that Chanel Cosmetics have a bright pink, but it's going to be more money then something you were to buy at a drug store. They have over forty colors.

http://uma.chanel.com/product.php?chnprd=MALPR35Y

Here's more chanel types of lipglosses (around $25) and lipsticks(around $30-40):

http://uma.chanel.com/mprod.php?chsetdefgnavdiv=15&landing=m&branding=lpr&sub=lips

http://uma.chanel.com/product.php?chnprd=MALPR060



i recommend Chanel all the way! They last awhile and look great! Ecspecially their lipglosses! They also have good skincare products and other types of make-up!


Another great place is MAC. They have a ton of colors because they're based more towards teens.

Here are the links to their lipglosses and lipsticks. They have all different types and they each have atleast a dozen colors! Around $15:

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/mp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15113


http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/mp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15112


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I was around 7 when my brother n law started talking to me about sex and little kisses here and there began, the touching started around 10 or 11 and then all the way when i was 12,i told my sister a few years later when i was about 14, she promised she would not hate me and things between us would not change, we were so close even though she is more then 10yrs older, but she lied when i was 18 it finally came out to the whole family, and i was told to deal with it i couldn't stand to be around him, but they said deal with it.so i've tried, at his son's funeral i felt sorry for the bastard, i went to hug him and he held me tight and said do you know how many beautiful women have hugged me tonight god help me i thought i'd die.i;ve tried shrinks and its all still in my head, how do i get my sister to love me again?shes convinced it never happened, and i just want it all to go away, it has been over 15 yrs of hell, any advice much appreciated.

Most people find it easier to get over or forget if they confront the accusser- step brother.

I'm almost positive they have a type of medicine that you get from the shrink that can block the memories, and maybe other shrinks can help you in different ways then your previous shrink did. But I'm not for sure about the medicine.

For a lot of people who are molested or raped at a child it's hard to forget, it's a part of their life and makes them who they are today.

And for your sister, if she hates you or doesn't love you because of this, that is EXTREMELY uncalled for. You chose to confide in her because you trusted her. But, I'm guessing she may be set in her ways..

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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.

I'm sorry but having those three guys call him was rude and uncalled for, any boyfriend would be PISSED! So, you should feel bad about that..

And for you kissing a girl and him saying he didn't care, I'm pretty sure he wouldnt mind because it was a girl, not a guy. That's totally different, you wouldn't date the girl, would you, I'm guessing no, but you would date a guy, so that's why that's different. And you never know he may have thought it was hot, I know most guys do.

Just talk to him about it, asap. I would apologize if I were you because what you did was rude. Tell him the girl kiss was a dare, and you never and would never cheat on him with a guy or those ones. Tell him you love him, and care about him and don't want to hurt him and want to make this work.

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In the newer episodes of Zoey 101, I didn't see Chase, but I saw some new guy. (I also saw him in the beginning credits..) Well I never saw the episode when Zoey came back from that other boarding school, and then Chase left or something. Where did Chase go? What happened? I remember seeing the commercial but I never saw that episode. Also, is that other guy a replacement for Chase now? Meaning Chase will never come back? If anyone could give me the latest info then that would be great!

After Zoey found ourt Chase loved her she came back to PCA, only to find out that Chase left to go to England to go to the boarding school Zoey was supposed to be at. Chase's parents won't let him come back to PCA until he finishes a semester. No, the new guy, Jake, is not a replacement. But, he is currently dating Zoey, which was showed in the newest episode. Chase will be back, I'm guessing.

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"This is a serious question and i would like serious answers"

For almost a week my boyfriend has been asking me if he could put it in my butt. I kept telling him no, it will hurt ect. but he keeps asking. Finally i told him i would let him "try" on Valentines day, and i let him down and he got mad. Last night me and him had sex and i told him i was going to let him do it this time, so he waiting till after i came, and tried to put it in there but i stopped him because the lub felt nasty. Now this morning he's calling me a bitch and saying i should die. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do about him. any advice?

Honestly, the most common reason why men want to put their penis into a girls anus is because A) their penis is too small and an anus is tighter then the vagina, or B) they may be homosexual. Not saying any of these reasons are true, but they are possiblities.

But, just like the other advicenators said.. Any man that forces a girl to do something they are unwilling to do or tells you that you should die and that you're a bitch is not worth your time.

No means no, and I'm sure his mother taught him that a long time ago. So, he just needs to get over the fact that he may not get what he wants. Its your body and you should do with it as you please.

Hope I Helped & Please don't let him treat you like this..

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okay so this might sound really stupid but like.. im so confused haha..

alright so i know your suppose to use the renewing cleanser first.. then the Revitalizing Toner and then the repairing lotion.. but then i have the oil control and refining mask and my question is.. people told me to put the refining mask on at night.. but i use all products morning and night and it works but like.. if you put the refining mask on at night after all the 3 steps wouldnt that just wash everything off? are you suppose to use the mask first? i dont know im confused about that someone explain to me what i should do in steps? thank you so muchhh, ill rate high.

I use proactive, and this is what I do.

- I was my face about an hour before I go to bed. First, I use the cleanser, and then on the nights I use the mask I put that on next. I then leave that on for about 15-20, wash it off and use the rest of the stuff.. toner and repairing lotion.

- When I want to leave the mask on all night, I do the regular procedure, ie. wash face with cleanser, then use the toner and repairing lotion. Then about 30 minutes later, or right before I go to bed I put on the mask. Therefore, everything has a chance to settle into my skin.

Hope I helped & Good Luck with the Proactive !

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if you 'subscribe' to your friends (like on the homepage) does it tell them you're subscribing to them???

No, it does not tell them.

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My bf and i are 15 and his penis is about 5.5 inches long hes a bit shy about is that about average for his age?

Yes, the average size for an erect penis is about 5.2 inches. So, actually he is abit above average.

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how do i change my login date

It changes when you log in.

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can u get pregnent from fingering yourself??????


thanks

No, you're dumb.

The only way you can become pregnant is when male sperm goes into your vagina and then fertilizes the egg.

So, therefore, you need a male to get pregnant!

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