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i have major cramps and its killng me so bad.
what can i do to maybe release some pressurevor make things better (link)
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No please don't ever take ice cream for goodness sake. Don't take anything cold cos it causes cramps.
You should go for a hot chocolate drink or any hot drink. Put a warm towel on your stomach or go and take a warm shower and keep rubbing your stomach to circulate heat all over your stomach.
I don't recommend taking pills.
Sometimes, when I have cramps, I'll carry my guinea pig and place it on my stomach, and it's body heat will help relieve my cramps. I'm not kidding. What I'm trying to say here is that warm things do help. So do try what I recommended. Take pills only as a last resort.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months and we have never had a fight. my friend say this is a bad thing. should i be worried? (link)
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It depends. Different people solve things differently. Your friend says its bad cos she feels that by fighting, both of you will be able to trash things out and solve problems.
To her, she thinks tt when you're not fighting, it means you two are keeping your problems to yourselves. She's correct to a certain extent. But then, you and your bf could be those type who solve problems by talking and not fighting. In other words, both of you are mild tempered and don't see fighting and shouting as a way to solve your problems.
As long as you and you bf do talk things out and communicate, it's fine. Fighting is not the only way to solve problems. If you're comfortable with the relationship, you shouldn't worry at all.
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Does Anyone have any good R&B music about love lol ?? (link)
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Akon - nobody wanna see us together
Akon ft Snoop dog - I wanna love you
That's all I can think of at the moment. I'll add more once I think of more.
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my dog was like attacking a baby bunny and so ive kept it inside for about 2 or 3 days now. i gave it some water through a water bottle thing, but what can i feed him? he hass to eat but he barely drinks. advice please? oh yeah, hes not bleeding or anything on the outside..but i think my dog paralyzed his back legs because he cant move any of that, he just drags his back end around (link)
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Give it some dry baby food that you can purchase from the pet shop. Give it some greens like cabbages and carrots since it's not drinking water. It doesn't drink because it hasn't been fed properly. Once it is eating properly, it will drink.
Gently pat it's head. Bunnies like their heads to be stroked. Try to do that often cos your dog might have given it quite a bad scare.
But still, I really think you should bring the poor bunny to the vet and see what they can do bout it's paralysed leg. Poor bunny.
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I want some movies to watch that are similar to My Best Friend's Wedding, or When Harry Met Sally. Basically, movies about a friendship that grows into more, or one person in a friendship liking the other person. Thank you! (link)
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Top Two of my favourites
*Now and Then (story bout 4 girls growing up)
*Some kind of Wonderful (girl likes her best friend but latter doesn't know)
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i was watching tv with my b/f haha and someone was pregnant and had morning sickness. someone asked what that was and i told them, then my b/f jokingly says yeah you would know, first hand experience. and i said no?? what? he said dave! (ex bf who pretty much used me) and i said no! again. i know hes joking and all but do you think he means something more by it? and my bf now is kind of shy so it was odd for him to bring up, but im totally not like that i mean in terms of doing anything sexual, im not a slut and ive only gone to 2nd what do i do (link)
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Simple. He just wanted to know if you hit home run with your ex.
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Okay so I really want to dye my hair some crazy color (not your average color i.e. red, blonde, black, brown etc. Something more along the line of different colors i.e. blue, red (the color red not redhead), green, pink, etc.)
But I was wondering which (sp? I suck at spelling tonight and it just looks like I spelled which wrong..) color would look best on me?
Here are two pics of me: http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s165/xx_tickle_me_emo_xx/Picture476.jpg
(this next pic might be better) http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s165/xx_tickle_me_emo_xx/Picture458.jpg
Well, thanks =D (link)
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Pink or purple highlights.
I don't know why the moment I saw your face I thought of pink highlights.
You could go for it. That was my first intuition ;)
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is there any tamil people here as this girl whos 12 and im 13 shes having her puberty ceremony on 15 july my period hasnt even started the girl is a show off so u know its kind of embarassing what do i do stressed thx in advance! (link)
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Hey I'm not tamil but I've seen one of these things before.
You're the one who's causing stress to yourself. It's really nothing great to get your period. So what if she gets her period early? This means she gets those cramps, mood swings and PMS earlier than you too. It sucks. There's nothing to show off.
If she starts to show off in front of you, just say "ok good for you" and then faster walk away or switch to another topic. If she keeps harping on it, tell her that getting cramps earlier isn't exactly the kind of thing you'd brag bout.
The thing is just to ignore this type of people. Ah well , you'll learn. We'll always meet this type of people and in time to come, you'll be an expert at dealing with them.
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Ok Ive put this under mental health, cos thats what Im supposing it is..
Well where do I start... Since I can remember, Ive noticed Ive been doing some really strange things, mostly which are coming out now..if Im walking along the street, I tend to roleplay something over and over in my head, and sometimes Ill end up speaking it out loud.
If see a car, ill imagine a whole crash, and sometimes if I pass a car park, Ill pick whichever car I would have if I could have any.
Theres lots of strange things like that, sometimes Ill breath ot the beat of a tune, or Ill just imagine some really strange stuff. Its hard to explain.
I told a friend for the first time last night, he suggested it being that Im intelligent and my mind is under worked, so now its over active?
But Im more worried about it being serious. I suffer from panic attacks aswell, just incase that helps.
If you could just give me an idea of what you think, dont diagnose me with everything under the sun, with panic attacks, Ill diagnose myself with whatever you tell me Ive got, I dont want that :)
Thanks! (link)
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I'm not a doctor. But I would just like to share with you what I think.
I personally do that all the time. I don't do exactly what you do, but its similar.
I have to walk in a straight line sometimes, I sometimes draw circles with my spoon and each circle has to be bigger than the previous. When I scratch one side of my hair, I have to scratch the other.
I'm not trying to diagnose you or whatsover. But I think we have OCD (Obsessive compulsive disorder). It's not serious at all if it doesn't affect your life adversely. I think everyone to a certain extent do suffer from OCD. But yours doesn't seem serious.
We experience OCD probably because we're insecure and also because we crave for perfection. I can't draw any link between your panic attacks and the things you do. But what I know, is that you sound normal. And you might find yourself wierd, but actually, everyone does bits and pieces of such things and they are just less upfront bout it than you are.
As long as these things are not causing you any damage, and are just little things that you do just cos you feel like doing, it's fine. I wouldn't worry too much bout it.
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what goes on in you gothic peoples heads? like do get songs in your head and what are your thoughts and do you love people or not and what do you goths think about? (link)
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Goths just look different. But inside is still the same. Sometimes I feel like dressing gothic, sometimes preppy, sometimes..watever. These are just labels and they dun matter shit.
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when someone knocks on a bathroom door and your inside, what are you supposed to say? haha i know its a stupid question but i dont know what to say. (link)
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Hi I'm bathing. Wanna join me?
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this guy REALLY likes me like he called me beautiful and stuff but i REALLY don't have feelings for him at all. and it seems like the more he talks to me and tells me he likes me, the more turned off i get, and the more i like this other guy.
now, the guy that likes me told me he liked me AFTER i told him i liked someone else... so i dont know why he told me. but he did. and he asked me for my cell number & he doesn't text... which is pretty much the only thing a cell phone is USED for... and he called me and he was like, hey i'd really like to talk to you and i mean i feel bad and everything but dude, he's becoming sort of obsessed with me. like the moment i get on my instant messenger, he IMs me.
i just REALLY need some space. i've been trying to avoid going on as much as possible, saying i'm busy etc. and only limiting to talking to him in school, but idk it's just really hard cause of all this guilt.
he KNOWS that i like someone else that's not him cause i told him, but he still tells me he would like to kiss me, thinks i'm beautiful and wants to go to the 8th grade dance with me but i really don't like him beyond friends.
the TRUTH is, i only asked him for his screen name cause i thought he was friends with my crush! it turned out horrible, and NOT what i wanted. cause now my crush's so called friend now DIGS me and my crush still doesn't like me!
please help me? i can't just tell him to lay off cause that would really hurt him.
xo (link)
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Why don't you tell him firmly, but gently that you already have someone else in mind? Cos it seems as though ignoring him isn't the solution.
If you want him to stop pestering you, then you'll definitely hurt him in one way or another, whatever method you choose. The best you can do is to minimise that hurt. The best way to do it isn't by ignoring him only. And I think that by ignoring him, you're hurting him as well.
You should tell him that you like someone else and not him. Tell him that you really like him as a friend and all but just feel that you two shd give each other a chance to go out with other people.
If you don't want him to IM you, just block him. It's that simple. Don't give me bullshit bout telling me that blocking him is bad. He wouldn't even know anyway. Don't care if you think it's bad or not. It's the best way to keep yourself sane. Besides, it's the most effective ignoring method. Why keep him unblocked and have him pestering you the moment you sign in?
It's better to use a combination of ignoring him plus telling him straight that he's not your cup of tea. There's no other better way of telling a guy to lay off than telling those things.
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My mom ordered me a pair of shoes on eBay:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=014&sspagename=STRK%3AMEWN%3AIT&viewitem=&item=330111463706&rd=1&rd=1
She made a mistake in the size. She bought size 5.5 Womens, even though I am only size 5 womens.
Does that mean that the shoes won't fit? It's been a month since I paid for the shoes to be shipped from the UK and I only realized that I was a size 5 when I tried on a pair of size 5 heels at the store. (link)
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Hey nice shoes.
Anyway, it depends. Not all shoes follow the standard measurements. Notice that when you ask people their shoe sizes, they tend to say "oh I'm a 6 or 7".
It all depends on the cutting and design of the shoe. If it is a slim cut, then maybe you might need a size bigger than 5. If the shoe has a wider opening, then maybe you need a size smaller than 5.
Don't worry bout it. You can always sell it on ebay if those shoes don't fit.
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I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. Usually we hang out 3-4 times a week, and if not he calls pretty often. It's been 11 days since he's called once or even hung out. Finally he shocked me by coming to my door today, because I didn't answer any of the phones when he called today because I've felt hurt. I asked him why the hell he hasn't talked/hung out with me and so long and he said "he's been busy". Yeah, he's been busy hanging with the same person for 11 days, I know for a fact. I asked the other guy he hung out with, and that's all he's been doing. Hanging out with his other friend. That's fine, but I mean he's too BUSY to take maybe 1 minute out of an 11 day period to fucking call? Can anyone tell me what kind of message he's trying to send me here? Is he trying to say he doesn't want to see me as often or what? I'm just trying to understand this. Thank you. (link)
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Hey whoa..cool it. He feels sorry for not calling you and it's really nice of him to show up at your door. So for one, I'm very sure he doesn't wanna give up on this friendship. Cos why in the world would he even bother looking you up if he doesn't give two shoots bout you?
Maybe he has he's own reasons for not contacting you? You should ask him exactly what you wrote in your qn. Ask him why can't he even take out a min or two to call you. You have the right to ask him that.
I, for one, can't tell what kind of message he's trying to send here. But I'm very sure that he still wants to keep the friendship.
If he doesn't wanna tell you, then let him be, the more you push him, the more he's gonna snap. I'm very sure each and everyone always have their own reasons for doing something, esp if he's your friend. You should trust him and trust yourself more. Why in the world would he do things to harm the friendship between the two of you? I don't see any need for him to do that.
Go talk to him. That is the best advice I can give you.
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How young is too young to get Rhinoplasty. Im 14 (almost 15)/male. I dont have a horrible nose. No hump or beak just a tad big. My parents will pay for it if i tell them too. So... IONO!
Cody* (link)
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Guys with big noses are fine! I tend to like big nosed guys. As long as they don't have blunt noses, it's cool.
It is better to wait till you've fully matured physically. I'd say wait till bout 21 to be very very safe.
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Can people with REAL relationship experience please answer? People that have been in serious relationships that lasted more than a few months? Thanks.
I'm 17/f and he's 21/m. We've been together since July 5th of 2005. It's the first serious relationship each of us has had.
Everthing was going wonderfully between us until the beginning of this year. We fought over stupid things. I kept getting really angry with him because he wouldn't go get a job and all he cared about was playing his computer and video games. He IS in college though and is going for internet security, so that was a good thing. Most of the time we worked through whatever problems we might have had, though. I really got better at respecting his hobbies and such. Plus he finally has a job now. Okay.
Lately though, I just feel like I don't want to be around him because I know it will be boring or he'll just make me angry in some shape or form. I don't want to hang out with just him because I know we'll just sit around and be bored because there's nothing to do.
Whenever he calls to say goodnight or something, sometimes I don't even pick up the phone because there's nothing to talk about or I don't even want to talk to him.
The point I'm getting to is that I think I might be falling out of love with him. I don't know if maybe it's because I see him too much or what, but I see our relationship more as really best friends instead of loving boyfriend and girlfriend. I know I care about him because I would never want him out of my life.
So my question is, how do I fall back in love with him? How do I make our relationship more fun and loving? We've been together for nearly two years and I can't figure out a way to keep things as lively as they were the first few months we went out.
At this point, I'm not sure a "break" would work for us because I'm going to college in the fall. If we took a break, that would be it and I know we'd be done. So that's a last resort.
I know that deep down, some part of me needs to stay with him and keep loving him because I'm asking this question. I want to find that part of me and bring it out. I want to be just as much in love with this man as I was the first time I told him.
Any advice? (link)
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You can't make yourself love someone. You can make yourself have positive feelings bout someone but loving that someone is another thing altogether.
Let's say you have a list of things you can do to make him like you again. Doing these things will just make you both be in a good mood. You know what I mean? Doing these things sustains you for only short periods of time. After a while, it'll be back to you thinking bout your mundane relationship with him.
I feel that you are holding on because it's been so long and you're used to his company. It sounds to me that you're seeing him as a drag cos you dun even answer his good night calls. You should feel happy when he calls you and not see him as a chore to deal with.
You should spend some time thinking if you can carry on in a relationship like that. And if it would be better if you gave the both of yourselves a chance to meet new people.
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hey. ok 14/f. well, i met this guy at church a few weeks ago. i could tell from the second that i saw him he liked me. and after i talked to him for a little bit, i liked him, even though i didn't know him very well. well, he always kept flirting with me. and today he told my friend Tina that he liked me and was gonna ask me out. and after i got out of the bathroom, he asked me for my number. so like, 3 hours later he called me. and we just started talking, then he goes, "hey... do you wanna go out with me?". and i was like "i don't know.." cause i really don't know if i wanna go out with him. so i was just like "can i have a day to think about it?" and he just gets all pissed and is like "why do u need a day?" and i was just like "i don't know". by the way, i'm skipping a little bit of this, cause it is really long. so, we just started talking about all of this today and he keeps saying "baby, i love you" and stuff like that. he's also talking about kissing me, and how he wants to kiss me so much. and i just think it is all moving way to fast. but see, he's been in some trouble before. like, he used to smoke weed, and he got a girl pregnate (sp), but he doesn't do that stuff anymore. but also, there is a bit of an age difference. i'm 14 and he is 17. do you think he is to old for me? but tonight when he goes "i love you, you know that right?" and i was just like "yeah.." and he gets really pissed and says " you know what?f**** you, i've worked to hard in this relashonship, now its your turn" blah blah blah... i don't know what to do. i can understand he wants an anwser, but i need a day to think. what do u guys think i should do? do you think i should go for him, or tell him no? i really need help. i really like him, but i'm afraid he might break my heart. he told me that he is kinda scared to go out with me because he might "fall in love". like seriously, does he like me, or does he just like using lines from movies? haha, jk. anyways, help!!!! thanks a bunch! (link)
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It's a good thing that you are taking this seriously and not just throwing yourself carelessly into a relationship.
Honestly, I don't think he loves you. You're right, his lines seem to be too good to be true. I may be wrong but my gut feeling tells me that he has violent tendencies.
How can you say you love someone and then say f*** you a minute later? It makes no sense to me. It just sounds like pure impatience to me and I don't think he's looking for a serious relationship. And besides, love isn't calculative. It's just so wrong when he tells you that he's worked hard in this relationship and now it's your turn. What the hell?
Don't care bout the age gap. The thing is, he's 17 and yet he's behaving like a 13 year old. I don't think he loves you. I doubt he even knows what does love means.
I advise you not to go out with him.
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whats a wife beater? (link)
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Haha. I can't stop laughing at ammo's answer. He sounded so serious when he answered it. I think what you're asking for, is a kind of clothing that looks like a singlet.
The origin of the term wifebeater is from the stereotype that the shirts are worn predominantly by men who beat their wives.
When worn by a woman, the singlet is sometimes described as a boybeater.
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I've been having problems with my so called friends for a long time. I'm not exactly sure what i did but all the sudden it seems like they dont want to talk to me, which is fine because im sick of them anyway. Well I have a problem with one, she thinks she knows everything about what gus like and she doesnt know a thing. Shes annoying and she talking to this boy she knows i like ALOT! and i have a feeling that all three of them are talking to him on porpous just to make me mad. I'm trying not to let it bother me, cause i know they want to see me mad or sad or whatever, but i want to know what to do to get him to stop giving in to them. We are closer then any of the other girls are to him and he even said he likes me best. What do i do to get them to stop? =[ (link)
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Oh don't bother to get them to stop. They won't. They're bitches, period.
What you should do, is you continue to get closer to that guy friend of yours. I know this sounds mean, but I'd give subtle hints to him bout how mean and bitchy they really. But whatever, it's a fact that they are mean and bitchy. It's good that you aren't showing you're bothered by them cos people always like seeing a reaction.
Ask him to hang out, call and talk to him, msg him online, get to know him more. You can do it.
Be strong, you're not the only one who has all this shit. Everyone at some point in time will go thru this.
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is it possible to get pregnant having buttsex (link)
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Definitely. Esp if he were to ejaculate near your butt, which is close enough to the vagina. The sperms could possibly flow down to the vagina.
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