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fighting


Question Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 10:32 pm

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months and we have never had a fight. my friend say this is a bad thing. should i be worried?

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queenhearts answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:41 pm:
Nope. My friend said the same thing.. Which actually bothered me so much.. that it lead to fights. She was jealous.

Don't be worried.
Be happy.
You don't need to fight.
You sound like a happy couple.
You probably have had disagreements but you talk it through rather than fighting.

It's healthy both ways.
Some couples 'need' fighting in their relationship. But you sound like you don't!

But make sure you communicate with each other and everything will work out. :]

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heyteg answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:37 pm:
Dear fighting,
it's a wonderful thing that the two of you see eye to eye on a lot. I once had a relationship that was awesome we were the best of friends and still are, however you need to see what bothers him, and how he handle things whats aturn on and off. so just ask him dont provoke him if you have a wonderful thing enjoy it. because good relationships are hard to come by. For the record I ended our relationship because of a friend whom i'm no longer friends with misery loves company.

heyteg

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clarayow answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:32 pm:
It depends. Different people solve things differently. Your friend says its bad cos she feels that by fighting, both of you will be able to trash things out and solve problems.

To her, she thinks tt when you're not fighting, it means you two are keeping your problems to yourselves. She's correct to a certain extent. But then, you and your bf could be those type who solve problems by talking and not fighting. In other words, both of you are mild tempered and don't see fighting and shouting as a way to solve your problems.

As long as you and you bf do talk things out and communicate, it's fine. Fighting is not the only way to solve problems. If you're comfortable with the relationship, you shouldn't worry at all.

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christina answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:27 pm:
Well, yes & no.


It's good you don't fight, but it's bad because fighting is very healthy for a normal relationship. But cherish what you've got. No fighting is amazing. =)

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Huxtable answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:20 pm:
Well 1st off im going to tell you congrats! Thats a really good thing because that mean you have a healthy relationship! Do you guys ever do things to bother each other though? if so then you should talk it over but otherwise that show you guys have a good relationship :] <3 Nikki

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iwantthetruth answered Sunday June 17 2007, 11:13 pm:
thats not a bad thing. its good. that means that you two can comunicate very well with eachother. but if there is ever anything that he does that bothers you then you should tell him about it. if you let everything slide then thats not good. dont listen to your friend because you seem to have a good trusting relationship.

SAM

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