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"best friend"
14/f
my "best friend" is a huge bitch and she lives far away from me so we only talk online and stuff.
We don't get along ever, she's such an annoying bitch and we're practically polar opposites. She's always happy and uppity no matter what, i'm always sad and mad and monotonous. She's shallow and materialistic, I'm the deepest person ever.
She has this boy who she's only seen a few times in her life and they talk online and stuff and she thinks she's his girlfriend just because they've been talking online and on the phone and he calls her his "girlfriend". They haven't even had a date.
I talk to him(or used to) sometimes because we used to think we were going to hook up, and recently when I talked to him he said "ellen doesn't want me to talking to you anymore, so bye bye." and then he just blocked me! i was so offended and it made me cry.
My question is this: does this bitch have the right to tell this boy that he can't talk to me?
What should I do I hate her so much and she makes me feel SO much worse about myself, she doesn't understand basic social graces and she thinks she knows everything and she's only 13! i'm more than a year older than her and all she can talk about is HERSELF and just OMFG I HATE HER SO FUCKING MUCH!
so any advice would be appreciated. thanks.
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Ok why did you call her your best friend and then a bitch three words later? You are being very pompous when describing.But, if he calls her his girlfriend then I would assume they are going out. She doesnt have the right to tell anybody who can and cannot talk to you. Only you can make up that for yourself. Tell her that she is being very rude and that she needs to telling people this. After I really read into this I saw realluy what you were saying. Tell her say like this, Girl I know you did not tell (insert name here) that he couldnt talk to me anymore. Why are you doing this to me. Do you need to make my life miserable? How would you like it if I told her boyufriends name he couldnt talk to you anymore? Then just walk away and dont say anything else. I hope I helped!!(( I hate these kind of girls)).
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ok. well, i'm assuming the only reasons you talk to her is because it would be awkward to break off the friendship?
and honestly, it doesn't matter if she has a right. sure, it hurts and you know, she doesn't have the right to say "oh, you can't do this and this and this," but the fact that she IS doing this and he's LISTENING means that this boy doesn't care. he's going to listen to her.
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If you hate her, she's not your best friend, nor is she even your friend at that. She's just someone you know.
Anyways, no, she doesn't have the right to do that. She doesn't own him & he has a mind of his own & can talk to whoever the hell he wants. Honestly, either bitch her out or make a different sn & IM him.
Talk to whoever you want & if he honestly is that stupid to listen to her, then he's not a good friend either. Think about it.
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Dear Best Friend,
Wow. That's harsh! I really dont thing that she is someone you would even want to call a bff. Why dont you try to find new friends who will have more common interests wih you?? And I dont think that someone has the right to tell someone else what to do. I think that she's just puling your strings. Honestly-- she's probably just jealous or feels like that is the way she has to act to be your friend or as "mature" as you, when she's just making a fool out of herself. Why don't you say to her in a nice way that the way she is acting is immature and she needs to think about others, or else she wont have any real friends...
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Well 1st of all how is she your best friend if you hate her so much?! haha if saw that you either need to talk it over with her and ask her why the hell she told him he cant talk to you and then you need to maybe end that friendship. why put up with her if she just annoys you? thats not a good friendship now is it? So i say if your not happy with being her friend then you shouldnt be her friend at all. hope this helps! <3 Nikki
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