Hey I am 16 and believe it or not I have a lot of experince in giving advice.
So let me know if I can help and I will do my best.
Gender: Male
Location: US
Age: 16
Member Since: March 21, 2009
Answers: 97
Last Update: April 29, 2009
Visitors: 4317
|
| |
17,f
I've been with my bf for a month and 8 days.
Hes nice, and very honest, and he treats me well, but sometimes hes weird and I cant figure him out. see if maybe you guys can...
the reason I say hes weird is that every time we talk on the phone, we end up not saying anything after a while, and just being on the phone doing different things without talking. sometimes i forget hes there altogether. and i hate that. but everytime i ask him what hes doing or thinking he always either says nothing or that hes thinking about me. I get the impression that hes not really listening to me and that he is either thinking dirty and doesn't wanna tell me, or hes not listening to me... And at one point, everything I told him hed answer with yes...
are you tired? yes
do you want me to let you go sleep? yes
am i going to see you tomorrow? yes
what do you wanna do? yes
what? yes
can you say anything else but yes? yes
say something else! something else
he was trying to be funny i guess so i said:
okay i think you should sleep, ill call you tomorrow morning.
Him: "not really"
Me: what do you mean?
Him: never mind
Me: what? why are you being so weird
Him: IM being weird?
and basically thats how our conversations are sometimes on the phone, he doesnt make much sense and ends up annoying me to the point where im like okay goodbye. then he gets mad at me???
i dont get it! can someone help me out? if i try to hang up he wont let me and says he wants to talk, but then he doesnt and when i try to he doesnt seem to listen and then when i ask him why he isnt talking he gets mad and shit. wtf???? can someone please explain? (link)
|
Well sounds like he may be shy. I know as a guy I used to do that to. I am a shy kinda guy to when it comes to girls that I like. Or he may not know how to talk to girls at all. You would be surprised the only thing you can do is just go with the flow. Try to start a converstation that you both have in common. Like music or TV or school. That may also be something you guy's don't ever talk about something interesting to him or to you. So be patient and just try to talk to him about something you both like.
Good Luck!
|
So I will try and make this as short as possible...
I have this guy friend called ryan, who I am close to, && he has told me he really likes me as more than a friend. Firstly I dont feel the same way as he does && I have told him this. We are still friends && it hasnt effected our friendship but I can tell he still likes me. && lately I have been hanging out with ryan and his friends, one called steven who I think likes me. He flirts with me && stuff and I am starting to like him. ryan doesnt know that we flirt b/c he isnt around when we flirt. i dont want to hurt ryan but I also dont want to ruin my chances with steven over it.
to make this more confusing for me, i like steven but I am not sure whether to trust him. he knows ryan likes me but he said that ryan says this to so many chicks. he didnt flirt with me until i told him i only liked ryan as a friend. he never bitches about ryan to me, but he speaks to me about him.
what to do?? :-/
(link)
|
Somteimes you just have to go with your heart. Sure Ryan will be hurt but sooner or later he will move on. You guys aren't going to stay togeather forever. You may not find your true love until later in life. Who knows this isn't something Ryan should take personal. But he will and at first he will be mad at you for it. But then in about a week or two he will have moved on and finally start talking to you again. So be prepared for a rough ride at first but then it should smooth out and you should be able to have Ryan and Steven.
Good Luck!
|
Hey, I've got a really serious problem:
I've known this guy since august 2008 and i love him mora than anything, we've been friends, we've go out and boyfriends on and off also and this monday (6 of april of 2009) we were going to clear up things and everything would be just fine BUT he told me from one second to the other "I dont love you anymore, and i like your best friend" I got so mad and sad...and my EX best friend likes him too and they had already kissed tough my bf said she was not going to do anything with him cause she didnt want to hurt me but obviously it wasnt true and they lied to me..i suspected they liked each other but he kept telling me that he only liked me but well...his best friend is my friend too and he told me that this situation was weird because that day (monday) he was talking about me and saying how much he loved me and then he did this,. He thinks someone put the idea in his head that he liked my bff, and convinced him about that...now i hate my best friend and i will never be her friend again and this boy, well i love him ad just cant forget him...the question is : WHAT CAN I DO? i know it's a little annoying to answer but please help me :(
Thanks! :D (link)
|
Well you can only like someone by your own choice. Sounds to me he may be a little confused as to who he likes. But he kissed her on his own will. No one made him do that remember that. You are just going to have to move on. Get out there and have fun meet new guys and meet new friends. Sounds to me that your other friend was a backstabber. You have to watch for those they can be real bad. I have had a few in my time and they aren't fun. They stab you in the back and then twist it. All you can do about that is let her know what you think about her and then move on. Find new friends. As time moves on you will move on from him. You think you love him now but your going to love many guys before you meet your one true love.
Good Luck!
|
|
Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance. (link)
|
Well first off you SHOULDN'T have taken him back. No guy is worth your time if he cheats on you once but twice he should have learned the first time. Your too nice of a gift for him to cheat on you twice. But anyway you shouldn't let him tell you who you are going to hang out with. If you let him break a friendship that is 5 years long then you have let him have to much control. Thats one thing you shouldn't let him control is you friendships. What you should do is tell him to never talk to you again. You seem to be a person of princpal and you shouldn't take that from him. You should get back with your old friend and tell him to leave you alone he isn't worth your time.
Good Luck!
|
Okay, well i have this bad habit to get REALLY jealous REALLY easily. But like, i cant even help myself. Cause ive never been this jealous before. Like, any other past boyfriends ive had i didnt even care, but now my boyfriend that we are REALLY serious about each other, i get REALLY jealous. Like, if i see him looking at another girl, i feel like im not good enough...idk its really bad. And if he talks to another girl, idk i just fell like i dont matter? I do not know what the heck is wrong with me, but i try to stop myself cause ive talked to him about it and he saif that theres nothing to worry about, cause he only cares about me, and i definatly believe him i just keep thinking like that. But one of his ex-girlfriends i dont like, and becuase he told me what he did to her, but we were talking about that stuff, and now whenever i see her, and hes with me i just picture him doing that to her, and its horrible. I really think i have a serious issue with being jealous. I dont kmnow but all i know is i just needed some advice PRONTO so i can
try to stop doing this. help PLEASE! :( (link)
|
You can't just stop. Sounds like you are insecure and so you are afraid yur not good enough for him and your afraid hes going to find someone better. Trust the only way to stop is to say to yourself that you are worth his time and that there isnn't anyone out there better for him. Because until you beleive that your going to be this way. Which everyone should be a little jealous but when it gets in the way of your relationship, you should just talk to him about the way you feel it may also help about him and his ex.
Good Luck!
|
My boyfrend thnks I'm cheating on him.
I'm not! I shall say I'm attractive and a lot of guys like me, but i only have eyes for him. I'm also friends with mostly guys and I told him that when we first started talking and he semed to understand...
but I've told him everything imaginable how I felt and how I wasn't lying. I've even asked him if he's the on cheating and he says he's not. Today, he told me he's going to find out that I am some kind of way and I said I did not care because I'm not cheating.
& I always let him go through my phone & I go through his.
soooo... Wat can I do to prove to him I'm not? I'm sick of him saying it! (link)
|
I just responded to him. Look you guys sound like your a good couple. Don't listen to those other advice givers. I relationship is NOT based on just trust. It's based on many other things like communicated, affection. So your relationship is not over just yet. Even though I told him that I do understand why he reacted the way he did. Guys always assume the worst. But you shouldn't have a guy texting you calling you babe. You shouldn't have a guy wanting you to call him at a certain time. Trust is something you guys are going to HAVE to work on to make it as a couple though. Your just going to have to keep telling him and soon enough he will believe you.
Good Luck!
|
Me and my girlfriend are 20 years old. We been going out for 2 years and 10 months. But on our anniversary I found a text message in her phone from another guy which called her babe and if he could call her at 9.15. I broke up with her and I don't know what to do.
She told me that she met this guy once before we started going out, he lives in LA but I don't know what to believe, she also told me that she's never done anything. And doesn't plan to meet him. She said she doesn't talk to him all the time, but its only been about less than 1 month that he started talking to her.
I don't know what to do. I love her. But I don't know if I can forgive her. What do I do? (link)
|
I know those two other advice givers were a little harsh. I think your doing the right thing. This call texted her calling her babe. First off he shouldn't call her that I am a guy and I don't like girls that are my friends babe at all. Then he wanted to talk to her. So it seems to me that they could have started something in the near future. Just because he lived in LA doesn't mean they couldn't of had a relationship. What you need to do is just ask yourself do you think you could trust. Because if you think your going to have problems doing so then it won't work out. Secondly if you can't forgive her then you can't date her you will hold that against her no matter what. I also understand if you can't forgive her, you have my support in any desicion you make. She has to understand that a guy should not be texting her calling her babe wantinh him to call her. I would have done the samething. Your not overracting you are simply reacting to a problem.
Good Luck!
|
|
On friday I told my guy friend from school that I liked him (i was really scared to do it so i texted him during class while he sat right behind me, stupid i know but that's what happened). He didn't respond and he didn't say anything to me the next 2 periods either (since we have them together). I'm not going to go into detail, but certain things he did made it obivious that this freaked him out, and he really didn't know what to say. But he doesn't really show his emotions on the outside, so anybody else would've had no idea that he felt this way or that anything happened in the first place, so he's pretty hard to read. He didn't say anything to me over the weekend, and we didn't talk yesterday. I'm well aware that it wasn't exactly the smartest move and I came on way to strong but I've dealt with that and that's not what I'll be asking about. Today (tuesday) I decided I would say hi and then just apologize for freaking him out. I did, & even though I could tell it was sort of hard for him to make eye contact he responded nicely. I asked him if he hated me (not in a pathetic way, kindof a joking but serious way, I'm just paranoid and that's just something i would say and he knew that haha) and he said no i don't, you just kindof scared the crap ot of me. And I was like I'm sorry again. I'm glad that had went well because all in all i didn't want to ruin our friendship, all though it was still a little awkward and we still weren't talking as much as usual, which is understandable. I know I shouldn't get my hopes up too high, or at all for that matter, but is there still a possibility he might like me at some point after finding this out? I mean I know him and it's not everyday that a girl blurts out that she likes him so I know he really wasn't sure how to react to the situation or know what to think of it. I'm not going to push it any further because I don't want to ruin our friendship, and the upcoming break from school should let the awkwardness blow over. If anything were to happen between us I'd leave it up to him. I feel like if he did like me or were to decide he did he would've said so by now. But it's only been four days, is it possible he may like me or may ever decide he does? sorry this was long and overly descriptive. (link)
|
Well like you said he is shy. He may have issues about telling you how he feels. Especially since you guys are friends. That makes it twice as hard. So it may be a mistake on your part to leave it up to him. I mean I don't think he will get mad at you if you ask him about yourself. He's had plenty of time to respond to you. I'm not sure if he likes you it's hard to tell since I can't see him but there is going to to be a chance. But your just going to have to ask him how he feels about you. Because like you said hes shy. Secondly he is a guy and well being a guy in all he doesn't express his emotions very well. He may also not now how to tell you.
Good Luck!
|
(Im 17 senior and he is 17 too) Well i have a friend and i like her brother.
One night while i was talking to her on yahoo, she said that her brother wanted to add me.
So then an hour later he ims me saying its nice to meet me and we talk for about an hour..Then the next day on the bus..(we ride same bus to school)...his sister says that she guesses that he likes me. So when I get home and sign in, he is already talking to me. I ask him why he wasnted to add me and he said just beacuse he wanted to. His sister said that he doesnt talk to ppl he doesnt like so I guess I feel kinda special because he wanted to talk to me. His mom and grandma also think im really pretty...Idk if hes shy....Sometimes it seems af if he is not showing interest at all and sometimes alot of intrest..its like a rollercoaster with him...and weve only been talking 4 days!..SO anything to say about that? (link)
|
Seems that it may be a little early to tell wheather he likes you. But he may also know that his sister told you. Because he knows how his sister is and I am sure he also knows that his sister can tell who he likes. So he may be thinking that since you two are friends you have talked about it and he maybe waiting for you to say something. But since your friendship is only 4 days old. Get to know him don't rush into things become friends and before you know it he may open up and tell you. But if he doesn't then your going to have to make the first me. Trust me some teenage guys aren't going to make the first move they may act tough but when it comes to lvoe they have a shy and soft heart.
Good Luck!
|
heyy
i like this guy, lets call him Pete. and we were at school camp last week together. okay well he is new at our school and hes really shy. we had a dance party there and he asked me to go to his cabin room with him instead, and i did. we were sitting down and then he goes "Can i kiss you?" and i was shocked because he doesnt talk that much and hes shy so i went all red and didnt say anything and just hid my face and then i stood up and ran away and sat on the top bunk, and he was leaning against the ladder, and then a teacher came in .. xD. we got put on 1 hour of after school detention and he got upset about it because hes only been new for a month and didnt want his reputation with teachers to be ruined, and i tried to cheer him up and then i said If you want to be alone then i can leave and he said Yes please, so i left. He talked to me the day after and said Sorry about ignoring you last night and then we talked for a bit and everything was fine. That night we got back to school and everyone was getting picked up, and my best friend Andrew came to meet me. I got him to carry all my luggage for me lol so we were walking and we walked past Pete, so i said bye to my friend and sat down with Pete. He didnt talk at all so i got a bad vibe and so i asked "Do you hate me or something..?" and he just shook his head no and didnt say anything. I felt abit weird so im like Okay what the hell so i got up and walked off. I didnt talk to him since then and today i had a double class with him, and my friend sat down next to me just do that Pete would have to sit next to me or there would be no seats left. Well that didnt work because he didnt talk to me at all. I feel as though hes ignoring me. I dont want to be lame by seeming clingy and talking to him first..I dont know whats wrong with him because if i remember HE was the one that told me to go to HIS room, and HE asked me if he can kiss ME. does anyone have any idea whats wrong with him?
thanks :) (link)
|
Sounds like he may be a little jelaous our your friendship with andrew. I am a guy and guys don't like it when you seem too have a go to guy for everything. But anyway don't be afraid to tak to him first. He may be to shy to talk to you first or even scared who knows. But also he is in a new school right? That may also be putting some extra stress on him and making him a little moody. The only thing you can do is help him through the transition through the schools and let him know that you and andrew are nothing but friends. Ask him how he feels about you, clear the air of any confussion at all.
Good Luck!
|
Hey everyone, im 15/f. and i have a boyfriend that lives across the country, and it kills me that i never see him. But we talk everyday, and msn and text, call, email. Everything. I trust him with all my heart, and i belive that he would NEVER cheat on me. Its just that i never see him, and it kills me. So i dont know what to do. Also, i LOVE my boyfriend with all my heart. But i have had a crush on someone at my school, and they like me. Should i stay with the one i love, and never see? Or be with someone i only like, and see everyday.?
Thank sin advance. (link)
| |
Well from what I have learned you should go with the guy you like. Long distance relastionships aren't really for teens. Because when your a teen you need to be able to see that person hold their hand and kiss them. With him you can't do that and eventually would have either cheated or broke up. So sounds like you should go with the guy you can see everyday. Your going to have regerts no matter what you do. So just remember that when making your desicion.
|
|
Well theres this boy at school that i really really like. He doesn't know i like him . Im too afraid to tell him my feelings, eventhough he said he would give anyone a chance, because I dont really know him that well and I dont think he likes me.I think hes becoming a slight obsession aswell, i cant stop thinking about him. Im really afraid of rejection, should i tell him anyway? or just keep quiet and hope that one day he notices me ? HELP :(. (link)
| |
Rejection is something we're all afraid of. Trust me I am afraid of it as well. But you can't let that take control of your life. Whats the worst that can happen he say no. Thats not a big deal there will be plently of others just like him. All you can do is just go for it. Good Luck
|
|
Whenever I try to read or study for school, I get so sleepy that my eyes have a hard time focusing on the words and I can barely stay awake. I used to think I was just sleepy to begin with so I'd try to take a nap and then get back to studying, but when I quit reading/studying I'm not sleepy anymore. Sure enough though, as soon as I try to start up again I get sleepy! I've tried drinking a caffienated soda while I studying; I always study sitting up, never lying down or anything, and I've always got plenty of light, but none of that seems to make any difference. Does anyone know why this happens or have any suggestions to fix it? (link)
| |
Truth is school just may not be interesting to you. Thaty's normal the only thing you can do is study as soon as you get him. Study in the kitchen or around some noise. Don't study in a quiet room. Turn on some music or something. Don't study for long periods of time. Study for 20 or 30 mins, then take a break. It's normal to do this everyone does it.
|
|
oka well i dont know where to start i guess i can kinda say my life so far been kinda not right. I dont wanna sound all you kno what but things just havent been right. You see lately ive been kinds depress you kno, and like there are alot of things thats on my mind. And like my friends they be in their own little world. Like you see i have these 3 close friends 2 of them are in my grade in one and a lower grade so i dont really see her at school that much. But ones that i do see i dont really talk to them about my probelms anymore, its like they so busy with eachother im just an outsider. And when i do try to talk to them just about lil stuff they act like they dont care. Like if i talk about a tv show i saw last night they be like gurl i dont care about that show i dont even watch it no more or somtin like that. But when they talk about a tv show they be all about it u kno. And my other friend i can really talk to her about my life exactly she be too busy talkin about hers. Like this boy, i mean every 24/7 thats all she talks about and im getting fed up with it. So tell me if im souding crazyy or somtin. I just feel like i have no one to talk to personalty. (link)
|
I know how that goes. Trust me you are not alone. But if you ever need too talk e-mail me at Canda2011@hotmail.com. I will try to help you best I can. Anytime e-mail me I promise my ears are always open anytime you need advice.
Please e-mail for anything!
|
Hello.
K so, I am 13/F and he is 14/M, and well... Here is the thing...
So, for a long time I have liked this boy, and he likes me too, but since we are quite young, and for other reasons, we have decided not to create a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. However, this doesn't stop us from time to time acting like a couple. So yesterday at lunch this girl, she's kind of pretty, came up to him and was like ALL OVER HIM. She started talking to him and she would like grab his hand real quick, or touch his cheek, or tug on his sleeve, or all kinds of stuff, when I was standing right next to him. We were talking and she just comes up and does all of this stuff, and it drove me INSANE. I was like crazy mad and even really jelous. I mean, its not like she knew about our... well, whatever we have... And he isnt my boyfriend, but he likes me and I like him, and I don't know what to do...
Does he have any commitment to me? We agreed that we would wait a bit to make a relationship, and I know he has no intention of dating her or anything like that and that it was all completely harmless flirting, but I also know that he is NOT my boyfriend... So why am I so jelous??? (link)
| |
Well truthfully you have no claim to him so you can't really say anything. Honestly the only thing you can do it sit back and watch it because you guys are just friends. Just because he doesn't push the girl away doesn't me he doesn't like you still. All guys like girls affection no matter which kind. So just stick through it until you guys can actually date then she will understand.
|
Ok so I just broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago because he had a crush on some other girl. Since then iv'e been having regrets! I REALLY! like him and wish I hadn't done that. Is this just those feelings you get after a brake-up?
PLEASE HELP!!!
(link)
|
Well everyone has doubts after they break up. So i'm sure you would have those feelings wheather you had feelings for him or not. Another thing is truthfully guys and girls are going to like different people even though they are going out with someone. It's just human nature to like people. But in the end you had his heart and you were the girl that he thought about every night before he went to bed. You were the girl who had a special place in his heart. So those feelings of regert you have are normal but they could also include some feelings of gulityness that you have. So maybe you should talk to him and clear the air with him. In the end you will better.
Hope that I helped!!
|
ok...
so i've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. he's been great, up until about two weeks ago when he got drunk and cheated on me. i broke up with him, but we got back together a week later because he promised he would do anything to have me back. Now, I believe that he's sorry, but it was kind of a relief to not be with him. don't get me wrong, i love him. he's awesome.
but i have a big problem.
my ex, who i dated for two years, has been calling me. he has wanted me back since we broke up in August. basically since i got with my current bf. i love talking to him... but he will call or text one day, and then i won't hear from him for a week or so...and so then i kind of start to heal the pain a bit and appreciate my boyfriend and think i'm over my ex, and he will call again, completely re-opening the wound.
when i'm talking to my ex consistently, my boyfriend kind of fades out of my mind. but then when my ex stops calling for a week, my attention is back on my boyfriend. I've never cheated on my boyfriend and never would, but i know i still have strong feelings for my ex... but is it just because he was my first love and i should get over him? or is there something more there?
my bf treats me right (except for the whole cheating thing...) but my ex is soo tempting. i think maybe i should decide who hurt me more... my ex broke up with me because he was dealing with his dad being on drugs and he couldnt tell me about it because he thought i would tell someone... so i understand why he left. and maybe i rushed into things with my current bf too soon after my ex and i broke up. but i think my bf hurt me worse by cheating on me. idk. any advice would be greatly appreciated =)
sorry it was so long.
btw, i'm 17, my bf is 21, and my ex is 18. (link)
| |
First off you sounds a little young I hope your not missing out on what 17 year old girls are supposed too do in the middle of all this. But anyway sounds like you love both very much. But I would think your current boyfriend doesn't deserve you because he cheated on you. He must not care to much for you or your feelings. People get drunk all the time doesn't mean they go off and cheat. Also your ex is closer to your age so that may also be better for you. He may be able to meet your needs a little more accuratly that what your current can. In the end you can't make everyone happy your going to hurt someone in the end. It's up to you to decide which you couldn't go day to day without talking to.
|
|
So I've known my friend Chris for almost 5 years now and we've become pretty much best friends. But I've been in love with him since I met him.. And I know he feels the same, but he won't do anything about it. Like we'll be driving in his car to get our friends, and he'll just reach over and grab my hand like it's no big deal but as soon as our friends get in the car, he lets go. Do you think he could be embarrassed of me or something? Because when we're alone, he's lovey dovey and huggy and acts like he wants to be with me but then around friends and at school most of the time he's totally different. Should I pursue something with him or let it go cuz it'll never happen? Please help me! :/ (link)
| |
More often than not guys have issues showing publci affections. I am a guy and I can honestly say I have trouble doing that as well. That may also be the problem. But secondly you just need to ask him what is going on. Also where this relationship is going. Because you want to be more than friends and it sounds like he may want to be too. He may just be to chicken to take it to the next level. Someone has to so you need too ask him whats going on with him and where he sees you guys headed.
|
|
I told my guy friend from school, who i like, that i liked him today in one of our classes, which was really hard for me to do. He sits behind me but I decided to just text him during class. I told him I had to tell him something but i didn't want him to be weirded out and he sortof seemed confused. So I told him, and said that it was hard for me to say and that i understand if he doesnt feel the same way and that I hope we could still be friends in that case and that I'm sorry if I freak him out. He didn't answer. The bell rang, and since it was double period science we had the break and usually he stays but this time he totally dashed out the door to go talk to our other friend, but i don't think he told her about it. When he came back I was on the phone with my cousin and he was obviously trying to avoid me by being all buddy buddy with his other friend that sits behind him. When we went to get lab books, he passed by me as fast as he could. We're in different lab groups, but he came near my lab table at one point for supplies and whatever and didn't acknowledge me. I did happen to notice him looking my way through this glass cabinet a couple times when he was at his lab table on the other side of the room, and clearly I was upset and pissed that he didn't say anything and he still hasn't said anything. I don't regret telling him but I feel like an idiot now and I'm upset. Does him ignoring me and avoiding me like that mean he wants to have nothing to do with me or does it mean I just took him off guard and he just needs time to respond to me? Should I say something to him at some point this weekend or wait until monday? I'm really upset, I really don't want to ruin our friendship =[ (link)
| |
It's hard to tell by people's response everyone is going to respond differently. So no that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Some guys don't know how to show affection and that could be another reason as to why he decided to just avoid you. He may not know how to tell you he likes you. I would say something to him monday give him time to think things through and gather in his mind what hes going to say. Be clear when you talk to him monday that you don't want this to ruin your friendship at all. That if he doesn't like you back then you guys could go back to being friends like you were.
|
15.f
i dated this guy for 4 months and then i left him for another guy.. and then once me and that other guy broke up i came back to him and he took me back. only thing is that he doesnt want people to know we're dating so he tells everyone we're just friends, we're constantly fighting and i just keep thinking about this and if its even worth it . there's this guy in my art class and he's probably the nicest and funniest guy i've ever met. he always compliments me and he is very good at showing affection. but he's telling everyone at school that we're dating and he's even kissed me in front of everybody during lunch. i dont want people to think the wrong thing though, especially since i already did it to him once. but what should i do? i'm so confused. i care about them both but i just dont want to hurt them. (link)
| |
Truth is you can't please everyone. Trust me I have seen people try and it doesn't work out. This guy your dating now that won't even tell people your dating seems to be kinda a jerk. It isn't worth it if you can't even show affection to him in public. Instead you have to hide it, it doesn't seem fair. Wherre on the other hand you have a guy that is more than excited too have you as a girlfriend. He isn't afraid too tell everyone and he doesn't seem too be to afraid to show affection or to let you show affection toward him. Sounds like the answer is staring you right in the face. But whichever you chose is your choice and I am sure no matter whatc choice you decide you have a good reason and shouldn't be questioned. But just remember you can'y make everyone happy. Your going to hurt people in your life it's just human nature. It's ok.
|
|