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oka well i dont know where to start i guess i can kinda say my life so far been kinda not right. I dont wanna sound all you kno what but things just havent been right. You see lately ive been kinds depress you kno, and like there are alot of things thats on my mind. And like my friends they be in their own little world. Like you see i have these 3 close friends 2 of them are in my grade in one and a lower grade so i dont really see her at school that much. But ones that i do see i dont really talk to them about my probelms anymore, its like they so busy with eachother im just an outsider. And when i do try to talk to them just about lil stuff they act like they dont care. Like if i talk about a tv show i saw last night they be like gurl i dont care about that show i dont even watch it no more or somtin like that. But when they talk about a tv show they be all about it u kno. And my other friend i can really talk to her about my life exactly she be too busy talkin about hers. Like this boy, i mean every 24/7 thats all she talks about and im getting fed up with it. So tell me if im souding crazyy or somtin. I just feel like i have no one to talk to personalty.
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You don't sound crazy at all! I used to feel the same way about my relationship with my best friends and sometimes I still do. I don't know your personality, but I'm very shy and quiet so I guess you could say I don't really demand my friend's attention. Also, people are naturally selfish, so your friends may have just not stopped to realize that they are making you feel alienated. Sometime when you're alone with one of your friends(if it's just the two of you, they're less likely to feel attacked and try to save face in front of the other)try talking to them about how their attitude towards you makes you feel. Like I said, they may have just not realized it. If talking to them doesn't seem to make any difference, you might try seeing a counselor(after all, they have to pay attention to you. you're paying them for it!)Seeing one helped me a lot more than I thought it would. Journaling seemed to help me a lot too, and I don't know your religious beliefs, but what helped me the most was talking to God. He desperately wants a relationship with you and he always cares about everything you tell him.
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