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what to do??
So I will try and make this as short as possible...
I have this guy friend called ryan, who I am close to, && he has told me he really likes me as more than a friend. Firstly I dont feel the same way as he does && I have told him this. We are still friends && it hasnt effected our friendship but I can tell he still likes me. && lately I have been hanging out with ryan and his friends, one called steven who I think likes me. He flirts with me && stuff and I am starting to like him. ryan doesnt know that we flirt b/c he isnt around when we flirt. i dont want to hurt ryan but I also dont want to ruin my chances with steven over it.
to make this more confusing for me, i like steven but I am not sure whether to trust him. he knows ryan likes me but he said that ryan says this to so many chicks. he didnt flirt with me until i told him i only liked ryan as a friend. he never bitches about ryan to me, but he speaks to me about him.
what to do?? :-/
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Somteimes you just have to go with your heart. Sure Ryan will be hurt but sooner or later he will move on. You guys aren't going to stay togeather forever. You may not find your true love until later in life. Who knows this isn't something Ryan should take personal. But he will and at first he will be mad at you for it. But then in about a week or two he will have moved on and finally start talking to you again. So be prepared for a rough ride at first but then it should smooth out and you should be able to have Ryan and Steven.
Good Luck!
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well sometimes you need to go with your first hunch probalbly(spelled wrong i no)he is sneaky and you have to really ask yourself''is it worth loosing a friend over?''i mean it sounds like hes trying to pull somthing with ryan like make fun of him and say he got you and he didnt but i wouldnt know so do what you think is right and remember i am always avalible
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follow your heart.
make a pro/con list for each of them.
sometimes that really does help, even though it sounds kinda dumb.
hope i helped :) good luck.
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