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Please give me some advice! I'm heart broken
Hey, I've got a really serious problem:
I've known this guy since august 2008 and i love him mora than anything, we've been friends, we've go out and boyfriends on and off also and this monday (6 of april of 2009) we were going to clear up things and everything would be just fine BUT he told me from one second to the other "I dont love you anymore, and i like your best friend" I got so mad and sad...and my EX best friend likes him too and they had already kissed tough my bf said she was not going to do anything with him cause she didnt want to hurt me but obviously it wasnt true and they lied to me..i suspected they liked each other but he kept telling me that he only liked me but well...his best friend is my friend too and he told me that this situation was weird because that day (monday) he was talking about me and saying how much he loved me and then he did this,. He thinks someone put the idea in his head that he liked my bff, and convinced him about that...now i hate my best friend and i will never be her friend again and this boy, well i love him ad just cant forget him...the question is : WHAT CAN I DO? i know it's a little annoying to answer but please help me :(
Thanks! :D
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Well you can only like someone by your own choice. Sounds to me he may be a little confused as to who he likes. But he kissed her on his own will. No one made him do that remember that. You are just going to have to move on. Get out there and have fun meet new guys and meet new friends. Sounds to me that your other friend was a backstabber. You have to watch for those they can be real bad. I have had a few in my time and they aren't fun. They stab you in the back and then twist it. All you can do about that is let her know what you think about her and then move on. Find new friends. As time moves on you will move on from him. You think you love him now but your going to love many guys before you meet your one true love.
Good Luck!
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Well im just going to be brutally honest here:
He doesnt really love you if he left you for your best friend, and shes really not your best friend if they kissed and she didnt tell you that she liked him let a lone ask if it was ok that they were together. I would move on, there are a lot better people out there who will find out how cool of a person you are and would never do this to you that is a true friend and you will find someone who really loves you, someone who really cares and wouldnt do that to you. Im really sorry this happened to you but good luck! =]
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well thats tough i remember when this boy told that to my sister and she couldnt forgive him or forget him but the way to get over a old boyfriend and get under a new one! keep tellin yourself that you dont chase boys you replace them!i know its gonna be hard but eventually you wont even remember his name like that anymore and yourbestfriend could go kick rocks for dissing you and go behind your back and do that but most importantly,remember if it wasnt ment to be and if it is let it work itself out and also remember that i am allways avalible.
GodLuck
Tatianna:))
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