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ok so everyone at my school wears a thong. Tey tell me that wearing a thong is sexxy and it makes you cool.Well i tryed one on and i hated it. I could not stand it!! So I dont wear thongs. Not wearing one makes me look like a loser and i know im not one. plz help me and tell me if im sounding like a loser or if thats normal?

wear whatever you feel most comfortable in! nobody will even know... unless you have VPL (visible panty lines) thats why most girls wear thongs anyways... and they arent to comfortable at first... but you get used to them after awhil! lOl so not wearing oNe?! lOl nobody has to know.. i love thongs 2 death! but boyshorts are pretty damn cute and comfy 2!
xOxO, aLeX

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Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!

I rate 5's on every one

well before you tell your parents.. i reccomend you take a pregency test first... even an at home one is fine.. but you can't take it right away.. The most accurate way to test for pregnancy is to wait until after your period is due. All pregnancy tests on the market will pick show a positive result, a higher percentage of the time, if you wait until this point. bUt, to be honest i had a pregnency scare a couple of months ago... and i over analyzed the symptoms and told myself i had them... just because i thought i was pregnent.. did you use a condom?! did the condom break? do you have a reason to think your pegnent? or do you just think you might be pregnent cause you had sex? so take a test 1st... and honestly... i dont know if your parents would like him to be there...he's 7 years older then u... totally illegal.. and if your dad is over protective like mine... he might be pretty pissed at the guy who got his little girl pregnent.. i dont know if this was the answer u were looking for... but i was just giving u what i would do! take a test! i hope your not pregnent! and be safe in the future!
xOxO, aLeX

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k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks

yEAh! pIgtails will look more cowgirlish! even if you wear 2 braids thats cowgirly! haha! whatever looks cuter... but if your trying 2 be more like a cowgirl... then i say pigtails/braids!
xOxO, aLeX

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okay uhm. my breath always smells! i brush my toungue use mouthwash and all how come it always smells like crap

follow these steps:
1. brush your teeth
2. floss your teeth
3. get a tongue scraper (like $2) it elimaniates the build up of bad breath
4. mouth wash
5. gum/mints
xOxO, aLeX

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OKay, I worry easy so bear with a silly question.
Can a guy get an STD from Fingering a girl? Or from having a girl give him just a handjob?

No! and its not a silly question at all hUN! those people are wrong though! there is no STD that is on your hands/fingers! and thats what you use for fingering and hj's.... so dont worry about iT!
xOxO, aLeX

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I am 13 and I think Im to old for trick or treating any ideas on what to do during halloween?

lOl! i still trick or treated when i was 13... but oH well! have or go to a party or watch scary movies with friends! go see the new Saw movie! im sure its gonna be good! i cried in the 1st Saw! lOl! aLso go to like a haunted house/trail! have fUn!
xOxO, aLeX

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i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.

Most birth control is almost 99% accurate... depending on the method and brand you are using! like pill, patch, shot etc... i'm sure your fine.. but remember for dOubLe the saftey.. have your guy wear a condom! and if your really scared about pregnency, take the morning after pill!
xOxO, aLeX

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Okay I'm just interested to know what people are up to and how they feel about it so this is like a little sex survey that I hope a lot of people respond to even if they aren't sexually active. I will rate high!

1. male or female?
2. age?
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual?
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? If so how much?
5. have you had sex? why?
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?
7. ever been kissed?
8. given or received hand jobs?
9. blow jobs?
10. anal sex?
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?
13. how many relationships have you been in?
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren't dating?
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? If so what and why?
17. have you ever cheated on someone?
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?
19. what do you think love is?
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing?
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?
22. what is your greatest fantasy?
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex?
25. any other information you'd like to share?


Thanks a TON! Did I mention I would rate high?
:-D

1. male or female? ~female
2. age? ~17
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual? ~heterosexual... that means straight right?!
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? if so how much? ~yes i have drank alcohol.. how much?! well i have had alcohol poisining and i drink whenever i feel like it... 3 times a month.. and yes i have done drugs
5. have you had sex? why?~ yes i have... because i love it!
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?~ umm well when i have a boyfriend thats different... we would have sex alot! but now... whenever a good guy comes along
7. ever been kissed? ~ of course!
8. given or received hand jobs? ~ yes! but ughh handjobs are seriously sooo 7th grade! fOR REAL! hAHA
9. blow jobs? ~ my favorite thing ever! hAHA!
10. anal sex?~ eww no!
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?~ that if a guy would ever ask me 2 do it... i would think that they were gay! whats wrong with my pussy?!
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?~ 3
13. how many relationships have you been in?~ serious....2 not serious~ 4 and i\'ve had alot of flings!
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?~ i have had sex with 8 guys (im not a slut!) and i have done sexual stuff with alot of guys....not gonna count it all out probably 25+
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren\'t dating?~ r u kidding?! of course! thats the best tIme!
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? if so what and why?~ yes! i regret giving this one guy head... because it totally changed our friendship! aNd i Regret having sex with my sisters best gUy friend... totally awkwarD!
17. have you ever cheated on someone?~ yes.. sorry andy!
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?~ nope not at all!
19. what do you think love is? ~ i dont know!
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing? ~ yes.. i was having sex with my ex sitting on his computer chair and his dad walked in... and just dumb stuff having my friends walk in!
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?~ ummm football field, under a stadium, ocean, in a club....
22. what is your greatest fantasy?~ cowboy baby!
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex? $$$rich!$$$ hot, good body, at least 6'0, funny, good kisser!
25. any other information you\'d like to share?~ that just because im sexually experinced and like to do sexual things... does not make me a slut! personally, i love casual sex and think people shouldnt make such a big deal out of it!
26. i've made out with 2 girls... nothing big, i was drunk and it was fun

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does anyone know what "desee que yo la tuviera" means???

desire that i had it
i just went to www.freetranslation.com and chose spanish - english and typed that in!

xOxo, aLeX

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last weekend i had sex with my boyfriend and now im worried im pregnet cause we didnt use a rubber but he did pull out

hMm! even if he did pull out... there is still such thing as pre~cum.. which could also get u pregnent... if you were super concerned you could have taken the morning after pill... but now its 2 late.. chances are, your probably not pregnent.. as long as he pulled out correctly... but wait until your period comes (or is supposed to) and then next time use a condom and be more careful!
good luck hun
xoxo, alex

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my sister in law is 7 weeks pregnant and would like to know what the sex of her unborn child is? she already has 3 children.she is 30.

the doctor can tell her tHat! she just needs to set up at appt!
xOxO, aLeX

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well my exboyfriend keeps prank calling me and i know its him ...and i keep telling him to stop but he wont ...what should i do????

tell him to grow up... hes obviously still not over you... prank calls?! that is so 2nd grade. tell him he has a small dick and to fuck off!
hahaha! i was kidding... (kInd of)
xOxO, aLeX

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I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks!

yEaH! for sure! she said so WE can get subway.. we means more than 1 person and lOoks like your sitting with her tomorrow!!
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so i've been tanning in a lay down bed for about 2 years now, and i always stop during the summer.. and now it is time to start up again. my sister and i were talking and she said i should go to a stand up bed. So my question is: what one is better, a lay down or stand up? i'll rate

hEY! OmGosH! i have a terrible experience in a stand up bed... lol but dpeends pn what kind of lay down bed you use... like the power.. stand up beds are generally more powerful.. most of them the max time you can go in is for 14 min and if your clastraphobic they are nOt a good idea! so stand up beds probably will get you tanner faster... but are usually more expensive... depening on what kind of lay down bed you use!
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school starts on wed. im a 16 year old female and i been with this guy for a yr. on and off. but now its over i cant be with this again and again breaking up again and again it hurts to much and its to stressful. SO anyway, I STILL LOVE HIM i dont no how to stop or why i do but i just do. and when i see him in school i dnt no what to do. i no he loves me and always will but im confused. should i play like i dont care and i've moved on? or should i flirt with other guys in front of him when i dont like it? or just be me and make him notice my pain? but the twist is i dont want a relationship..i need advice on my feelings..

oMg! are you my long lost twin sister! i swear did i just ask this question?! seriously! umm! i'm gonna give you some advice that i usually wouldnt give on this question... bUt this is exactly what i'm doin... uMm! yEAH! play like you've totally moved on! make him jealous huN! if he thinks that your still head over heels in love with him, hes gonna think your psycho and desperate! fLiRT lIKe cRAzY! and he'll be so jealous... seriously! guys looooove a challenge just like most of us girls and they loove it when they find girls that they cant have! nobody like someone who totally throws themselves at you! so when he'll see you've moved on... he'll want you mOre! aHhH! tHe tWisTs oF lOvE! you've been with him for a year (on and off) and breakups take time! its sooo normal for you to not be over him yet! and i know exactly what your thinking... you don't want to be with him... but you want him to love you still and dont want him to be with anyone else! MmmM! cause thats just how i feel! aHH! hUnNY! wEre tHinkin aLiKe! good Luck thougH! and if you need more advice feel free to drop 1 in my box! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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I am 17 and my breasts have been about a 36A since they first started growing when I was 13. I couldn't stand the look of them. I was totally flat and my body was uneven since I have a "ghetto-like booty". I was about a 34A when I decided to try and do something about it. I ordered these expensive creams and they only tightened the look of my breasts and there was no real growth visible. After that I grew to a 36A by using these breast growth pills I ordered online. I spent about 100 bucks for a two month supply of it and it only increased my breats from a 34A to a 36A. I have been wearing silicone inverts for about 2 years now to make my body look even. It is frusterating because I know that my real breasts don't look that big. The inverts I use increase my chest a full cup size. So I go from a 36A to a 36B. I want to be able to grow to that size soon without drastic sugery or anything too expensive. My past bfs have all wondered why I would never show them my chest and I don't want it getting around that I use inverts because that is completely embarassing and degrading. I can't even get too physical with my bf because then he will want to see my chest and it is too embarassing for me to talk about or for him to know about. So is there anyone that can please help me! Does anyone know of any type of thing sold online or in stores that effectively increases your bust and does it fast?

aWW! tHe hOrror of having small boobs! i am also 17! and welcome to the itti bitti titti committie! haha me and my friends had that cLuB in 7th grade!!! haha! dont you hate that when your with guys and they always want your shirt off?! HAhA! uMM! i feel soo uncomfortable! unluckily for us... as much as internet pills and schemes come up that you can buy fake breasts without the surgery... its totally fAlSE! pills, creams, stuff like that dosent actually work... unfortunatley! breasts is all in the genetics! dAmn mOm! hAHA! but yoU hAVe to tRy this bRA:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=SC-176190&page=1&cgname=OSBRPVERBRA&rfnbr=1489
wOw! it makes mY small b's look like small c's! people always say why do you complain about your boobs?! their not small... haha if they only knew i have 1 in every color! hAHA! your boobs may not actually be bigger... which almost every girl wants.. but its as close as you'll get! those pills and shit dont work! bUt you could be like me... and be hoping to get that bOOB jOB! haha seriously.. lOl! good LUcK though BAbe! hope helped! sorry i wasnt much of a heLP!
xOxO, aLeX

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hey I wanted to remake my room and make it something like this http://www.kohls.com/main/vendor_home.jsp;jsessionid=0001ZO3Z2FJ2UJLCT4YT0X3ZMZI:u1v27uba?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=230963855&bmUID=1124676204661 my floors are all messed up I was wondering what do you think would look better wood floor or a rug what color plankit cuz I like the strips that she has and all the different colors I have a like bubble gum pink on my walls now and I don't like it at all but I don't wanna paint it over so what would look good with that can you give me some places or websites where I can get more furniture i have a small room

oMgOsh! bAbE... i LoVe thAT rOOM! sO coLorful! and hAPpY! good chOice! uMm i dunno if i'm retarded... but i dont know what a plankit is?! i should get my mom! shes like a major jeneveve (trading spaces!) bUT: hAHA anYwAYs! the bubble gum pink would totally bE workin for this room! sO hAwt!

some websites for more furniture:
http://www.pbteen.com/index.cfm?sid=PBTW1S4HJ3CSIRRCXA2ITYSYGJW9ETPI200508212319&ftest=1&cmreferrer=&flash=on

http://www.ikea.com/ms/en_US/

http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/default.asp?order_num=-1&

hMM! depends! both floors would look good! depends on what kind of floors you would like... i remeber at my old house i am such a klutz.. and i spilled so much on my floor that finally i just HAd to have wood floors! or maybe if you got some hOT rugs that matched your room! that could look awesome! if you have more questions... definately asK mE! aHH! i wish i was redecortaing my room! im so jealous! good lUcK! let me know how it turns out!
xOxO, aLeX

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i want to break up with my girlfriend but let her down easy, like break it to her softly and u know not an insensitive im dumping u manner just like a lets be friends 13/m

hEY hUN!! mAke sure you tell her in person! seriously! girls hate it when you text them or talk to them over the internet and say aHH iTs over! cause then you dont get everything fully expressed! tell her nicely that you think shes totally cool, but things would just work out being better if you two were frineds! just like u said babe! hAhA! let her talk and say what she wants... but dont be an ass about it! tell her how you feel and why you want the breakup! aHh! breakups suck! but you'll be much happier! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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I`m single and ready to mingle but there is a fiew problems. I get really nervous around guys and they tend to try and use meh (I dont let them) I`d really like to get a steady boyfriend cause I`m going to be going into highschool and its like a fresh start. This past year i had 6 boyfriends and none of them were steady. Also I am trying to get a job to help out my family. But I get nervous around people I dont know.. Any tips?
14/f

hEy hUn! aHh! i totally know what you mean... i mean it can be intimidating when your with people of the opposite sex! but as stupid and obvious as this sounds.... you just have to be yourself! find things that are easy for you to talk about... i recently read in a magazine that your supposed to ask a tOn of questions about them... and let them talk about themselves because everyone knows so much about themseleves and love tellling people about them and it puts them at ease! so ask tons of questions and act really intrested! and be yourself! once people find out the rEAl you... they'll LOVE ya! so just let them know the real you! as much as you don't want to sound stupid or annoying... its better then not talking at all! good luck doLL! you'll bE fIne!
xOxO, aLeX

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How can i be more affectionate with my bf. He thinks i dont like him as much as I do so yeah what kind of stuff can i do to make him more convinced? (nothing that involves taking off clothes) I RATE REALLY GOOD! So please give good advice.

awwww.... i wish i had a boyfriend now! haha lucky girl! lol anyways... there are tOnS of ways to show your boyfriend you care about him without taking off a single thing of clothing! (lOl) unexpectadley kiss him, give him hugs, backrubs or massage, hold his hand, cuddle with him, compliment him, or tell him how perfect you 2 are togther, hang out just the two of you... hAHA babe, you have no idea how jealous i am of you nOw! good luck hUn!
xOxO, aLeX

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