i want to break up with my girlfriend but let her down easy, like break it to her softly and u know not an insensitive im dumping u manner just like a lets be friends 13/m
funnyman answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:42 am: haha im 13 male same as you and i had the same problom but after i told her i did it sorta nicei said it jsut diident feel liek a relashon ship even though i never liekd her in the first place lol and she asked me out any ways i was like we cant see each other ever cuz we couldent but you can say like um im sorry i rrally like you but were not ment to be but you know ofter you dump her she will be a total bitch just warning you........ [ funnyman's advice column | Ask funnyman A Question ]
jessica0WNSyou answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:04 am: warning :
do not use the,
"LET'S JUST BE FRiENDS" line.
-- you should also try to break up with her on the phone, or even better. in person. because over the internet or a text message just shows that you have no balls and then she'll tell her friends who will tell her friends who will tell their friends . . . and so on. and then you'll be known as the aHOLE ex boyfriend who dumped his girlfriend with a text or online.
every girl is going to get hurt when they get dumped. unless of course, she feels the same way. so don't expect her to walk away smiling and singing. just tell her that you don't really think she's the type for you, but that doesn't make her a bad person. and from there try to stay friends with her. be friendly and don't two-face her. just don't say, let's be friends. because most couples that use that line when they break up -- don't stay friends.
GroovyChick answered Monday August 22 2005, 2:59 am: Just tell her how you feel, if you don't want to go out with her mayswell say rather than keeping her if you have no feelings for her, if you understand me. hope i helped. [ GroovyChick's advice column | Ask GroovyChick A Question ]
blondebombshell33 answered Monday August 22 2005, 2:10 am: hEY hUN!! mAke sure you tell her in person! seriously! girls hate it when you text them or talk to them over the internet and say aHH iTs over! cause then you dont get everything fully expressed! tell her nicely that you think shes totally cool, but things would just work out being better if you two were frineds! just like u said babe! hAhA! let her talk and say what she wants... but dont be an ass about it! tell her how you feel and why you want the breakup! aHh! breakups suck! but you'll be much happier! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX [ blondebombshell33's advice column | Ask blondebombshell33 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday August 22 2005, 1:57 am: i would tell her
that shes a great girl and your lucky to know such a cool person..but right now you want to only be friends
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