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ex-boyfriend! Help
school starts on wed. im a 16 year old female and i been with this guy for a yr. on and off. but now its over i cant be with this again and again breaking up again and again it hurts to much and its to stressful. SO anyway, I STILL LOVE HIM i dont no how to stop or why i do but i just do. and when i see him in school i dnt no what to do. i no he loves me and always will but im confused. should i play like i dont care and i've moved on? or should i flirt with other guys in front of him when i dont like it? or just be me and make him notice my pain? but the twist is i dont want a relationship..i need advice on my feelings..
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just focus on other things for a wile to get your mind of him like hanging out w/ friends, schoolwork, hobbys.just try to get your mind off guys in general. soon enough you will spot a guy you really like, probably even more than your past bf. be carful b/c you might get hurt again. Dont get too into a relationship when you meet that guy.
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Let it go.
If you tease or go out of your way to flirt or make him feel bad, you'll just be continuing the cycle of stress and pain for you both.
Be yourself, and keep your distance from this guy. Your feelings will fad in time if you don't keep the little mind games going.
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I think the best thing to do would be to be yourself. flirting with other guys would get him angry then he would stop liking you. ignoring it and moving on could be better but there is no point if you still like him. follow your heart you do what would be best for yourself. hope i helped.
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oMg! are you my long lost twin sister! i swear did i just ask this question?! seriously! umm! i'm gonna give you some advice that i usually wouldnt give on this question... bUt this is exactly what i'm doin... uMm! yEAH! play like you've totally moved on! make him jealous huN! if he thinks that your still head over heels in love with him, hes gonna think your psycho and desperate! fLiRT lIKe cRAzY! and he'll be so jealous... seriously! guys looooove a challenge just like most of us girls and they loove it when they find girls that they cant have! nobody like someone who totally throws themselves at you! so when he'll see you've moved on... he'll want you mOre! aHhH! tHe tWisTs oF lOvE! you've been with him for a year (on and off) and breakups take time! its sooo normal for you to not be over him yet! and i know exactly what your thinking... you don't want to be with him... but you want him to love you still and dont want him to be with anyone else! MmmM! cause thats just how i feel! aHH! hUnNY! wEre tHinkin aLiKe! good Luck thougH! and if you need more advice feel free to drop 1 in my box! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX
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