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About Myself: Hey, my name is Jena and this is my Advice Column. I am 16 years old and I love to help people. I have been through so much (more than anyone could imagin for just being 16, and alot more then most people go through in a life time)! I had to grow up fast and because of that I can relate to most people about everything. Feel free to leave something in my Inbox about anything you want, I'm always looking to meet new people.
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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster?

aww im sorry but i hate to break it to you sweetheart.. there is NOTHING you can do to make it go faster. believe me if there was i would be in heaven! lol. i think that everyone female would be praizing the gods! im sorry hun! i hope everything works out and that it ends in time for you to have "fun" with your guy! good luck!

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OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?!

do you drink coffee? that could be a cause of what makes your teeth yellow. umm i really dont know what else could be causing it, however if you want to whiten them, i do suggest using crest whitening strips.. they really do work! hope that helps any. good luck.

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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??


-Scared :(

you could be pregnet, however i doubt it! you have been taking the pill and for 4 months b4 you had sex, so the hormones are still in your system. i dont know if you know how it works or not. it makes it so that your body thinks that your pregnet when your really not. SO since you forgot to take it after the sex, im doubting it.. but there is still that chance. also if he pulled out before he busted then you should be totally fine, however if you are concerned go get a take home test and see. i know that this can be scary but if you ever need to really talk about this im here for you. i know, ive been there. IM me on AIM my screen name is (Beauteful withn). good luck with everything!

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Hey, I'm stuck in this bad situation. I like two guys. Well, one guy I like is really sexual, like I've never done anything with him, of course since I'm only 14.. And the other guy well hes like great, he always calls me beautiful and really cares for me but always says that I like the other guy. Who would you choose? I think I have an idea, but I'm not so sure. Thanks!

hey sweetheart. well if you ask me i would choose the GREAT guy. not know does he know how to treat you, i dont think that you will end up in a sticky situation like you would with the other guy. i think that the other guy might try to force something on you that you arnt ready for. so i say go for the nice guy! in the long run, its a better choice. good luck tho babe.

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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!!

hey hun, chances are you are doing it right- but it might be easier if you kind of lean back a little cuz of the way that your vag is shaped. i know that it might hurt but the cause of that is because the walls of your vag arnt use to being widened i guess you could say. if i were you, i would use the smallest kind, i think its called junior. that way it wount hurt as much.

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I have a party to attend in december, it has a new romantic/early 80s theme, i think its cool but i have a problem, where do i start, what clothes should i go for, for maximum effect, and most importantly, how do i do my make up and hair. Thanks for you help in advance.

hey hun you want to make your hair really big poofy and fizzy, you want to wear tight cloths like spandex.. you want to have spandex pants and like a pokadot or just a skirt in general. you want bright colors.. also leg warmers. where dark blue eye shadow and bright pink or red lipstick. hope that helps.

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there is this guy i like that says i am to young for him but i am bout be 16 and he just turned 17. i think this might be an excuse but he acts like he likes me.am i "too young"? i don't have a clue what should i do is there any way to show him i am not to immature and how do i talk to him about it? he also told me his last g/f was B**** and she was immature and she was my age. could this be why? i really think it might be an excuse. plz help i really do need it!

hey sweetheart, yes if you ask me i have to say that this is JUST an excuse. i think that he was really hurt by his last girlfriend and he doesnt watn to show anything. you are NOT to young! age shouldnt matter when it comes to how you feel! i think that what you need to do, is just give him some time. if he does really like you then he will come to you, and if not then you dont need him! you dont need to be treated like crap from a creep that gives you lame excuses! i hope that everything works out for you babe.

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Can birth control give you really really bad mood swings? I started on Ortho tricyclen about three months ago (I'm 19), and recently I've been having really bad mood swings. Could birth control be causing that? Or could it just be outside stress? (which I do have a lot of right now) Any help will be appreciated...I'll rate a 5!

Hey hun, first of all if this advice isnt the best, you dont have to bribe me and give me a 5. lol im here to help. im 16 and ill be 17 in march, ive been on birth conrol since just after my 15 birthday. ive been on 4 different kinds. i did however notice that it did give me really bad mood swings in the beginnign. i was constantly fighting with my mom and everyone around me. BUT as time went on things got better. so i dont know if its the Ortho tricyclen or if its the stress- i also noticed that when i get more stressed i get bad mood swings. i think that if you are really concerned about this you should talk to your obgyn or your dr. giving it to you. i hope that this helped and everything works out!

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I know I've seen a question similar to this before, but I haven't been able to find it. So, I'll just ask it again. I'm usually have my period anywhere in between 21 and 28 days. Well, I'm a bad, stupid little girl and I forgot to mark my last one down on a calendar. I'm pretty sure the last time I had mine was on November 2, but I'm not sure. That would make today Day 27 if I'm right about the last one ending on November 2. I'm still kind of nervous about it though. I've never -- well, I have once -- missed a period. I'm a 13 (nearly 14) year old virgin female. Is this normal? I've had my period for about two years.

HEy, yes that is totally NORMAL! i had problems with mine too, im 16 and have had it since i was 9 and its still not the most regular thing ever. so you dont need to worry about anything, especially since your a virgin. sometimes stress or depression or even your diet can mess with it. so its ok, everything will be alright. but if you are worried- talk to your mom or your dr. about it. i hope that helps.

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i have this bed head stuff i used to scrunch my hair, it always seems to get frizzy when i put hairspray in it, but i have to otherwise it won't hold.. what can i do to it that'll make it less frizzy??

ok i scrunch my hair too- i have that bed head stuff but it doesnt work i dont think. i use moose and hairspray.. i also somtimes use a little gel cuz of the weather. try using moose or gel insted of the bed head stuff.

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Does anyone know of a good eyeliner that stays on all day and doesnt smear?!?! I can't seem to find a good one!!

if you are looking for a pencil i dont really know of a kind, however if you use on top- if you use i shadow put it on over the liner. also using mascara helps.. but if you havent tryed liquid i really would. it stays on all the time. ive never been let down with any kind.

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This year i started a new school and made a really good friend. We do a sport together so we became pretty close fast. Well I am switing back to my old school cause i'm really unhappy at the one i am at now. Well i have to tell my new friend that i'm not goin to be goin to school with her anymore. What should i do cause i dont want to hurt her feelings but i need to tell her.

what you need to do, is let her know that you 2 are going to remain good friends. just because you dont go to the same school doesnt mean that you cant keep in touch. when i was in middle school all of my best friends when to other middle schools. so just let her know that and how much she means to you and im sure that she wont be as hurt. just make sure that you dont lie about it and when you do go to your old school forget about her, cuz that wouldnt be good. just make sure that you do keep in touch and everything will be great!

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we just started going out and i have a feeling that he has girls that he flirts with and makes out with and stuff. I know he likes me and i like him so much but i'm affraid he just wants to have sex with me. I cant talk to him about because he gets all touchy.What should i do?

ok if you 2 are goin to have a good relationship, he should and would be willing to talk to you about it. you cant have a relationship with someone that you cant talk to or be truthful with. you need to talk to him, and if he cant talk to you about it, then you really need to rethink if you really want to be with him. i know that you like him alot but babe think about it, you dont want to be put into a situtation that you are uncomfortable with. id hate to have anything happen to you just because you couldnt talk to your boyfriend.

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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?

ok, what you need to do, is sit down and talk to your boyfriend about what you are comfortable with. if you feel like you are being pressured at anytime you need to let him know. if the only reason he is with you is so that he can get something, then thats not right. if you let him know how you feel and he is ok and understanding about it, then everything will be ok and you wont get hurt. if he is however just with you to get some, then you need to get rid of him before he gets the chance to hurt you.

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well i broke up with my boyfriend in may and now i go to the same school with him and he still wants to be with me i dont even want to be friends with him and now he has a classes next to my locker and i see him everyday i dont want to talk to him and i told him i like another guy and he insists that we should get back together but i told him i dont like him at all and now he doesnt stop bugging me what do i do. or what can i do

I dont know what happened that caused the 2 of you to break up, but it must have been bad that you dont even want to be friends with the guy. i think that you should have a serious talk with him and let him know, that things are over. altho maybe being friends with him will help out the situation, i dont know forsure but it might. if it gets really bad, like to the point that he starts to harass you then you need to report it. but all i can say, is to just try to talk to him about it again.

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