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we just started going out and i have a feeling that he has girls that he flirts with and makes out with and stuff. I know he likes me and i like him so much but i'm affraid he just wants to have sex with me. I cant talk to him about because he gets all touchy.What should i do?
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If he can't talk to you about it, there is something wrong. You deserve better than someone who can't put all of his attention on you. You need to confront him without backing down, if he gets touchy than thats how it is. It looks like it's going downhill already, so don't go down without a fight. Make it work. Make him understand that you need answers or it won't work out.
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I know you like him, but I think you like a player. But maybe he just needs some time to mature. If you stick by him though (as long as you don't find out he's cheating) and make sure that he gets the message somehow that sex isn't the one and only thing you're after, then it could be all good. It's a situation that will require careful manuevering. Also, consider his personality. Is it playful and friendly, or does it seem seductive and untrustworthy? Go with your instincts and decide and I hope it all turns out okay!
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-chill. unless you know this "feeling" is really true, then don't break up with him over it.
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ok if you 2 are goin to have a good relationship, he should and would be willing to talk to you about it. you cant have a relationship with someone that you cant talk to or be truthful with. you need to talk to him, and if he cant talk to you about it, then you really need to rethink if you really want to be with him. i know that you like him alot but babe think about it, you dont want to be put into a situtation that you are uncomfortable with. id hate to have anything happen to you just because you couldnt talk to your boyfriend.
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about the other girls thing, talk to him about it. i'm sure that it's not the way that you think it is but bring it up casually. don't just randomly say "i saw you flirtin with another girl" just be like "so am i the only person that you like?"
what i would do if i were in your case is not be around him when he would have the chance to have sex with you. when you and him are around and you feel like he's getting to touchy then just stop and say hmmm lets go some whre and just go to where people are other than just you two.
hope all goes well! >Rachel
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If you don't feel there's any trust in the relationship and that he's not being true, DUMP HIM. It will never work if you don't have trust. If you are really serious about having a relationship with him- talk to him and tell him how he's making you feel! If he gets all touchy like you say he will- forget him. He's a stupid boy who just wants to get some if he can't even have a sensible conversation without getting all up on you. Do the right thing before you get hurt or in trouble!
-Jennifer
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