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15/female -- is it wierd to like watching porn? i sometimes like to but i feel gay. is that normal???
Its normal completely! Whatever you like, guys do it and girls can do. Don't worry about it. The only time it can be bad if you watch it every day all the time and it starts to take over your life, which i doubt will happen. But its fine =). Hope this helped
hey, okay my hair is pin staright & i hate it,
it wont scrunch and i dont like curling it because
it takes to long and i dont wannna get a perm because it ruins your hair =// do have any possible way i can scrunch it b/c whenever i try to scrunch it, it falls right out! =( please help!
I wouldnt want to get a perm either hah. But it sucsk that you have straight hair.. some girls would kill to have natuarally straigh hair thou so you are lucky in some way. I'm not sure that theres alot you can do because I know alot of people with straigh hair and it always falls straight.. they hate it. To get my hair really curly, I just use alot of hair spray, gel, and srunch spray. If your going to try that, don't use conditioner becasue that makes your hair fall. So hopefully that cna help because thats all i know of, =/. Good luck!
-Kate
I am 14 5'6 and weigh about 125 pounds
I think I am kinda, well fatt!
Everyone around me thinks I am really thinn
But when I put a bikini on, I look huge!
My ribs are very bigg, so when I stand there, my stomach looks huge
I also have a pouch where fats sits...like not a lot, but when I walk, it moves
So anyways...my BMI is a healthy weight
Well whats your opinion on how bigg should you be to not wear a bikini, like wheres the line to say "your much to big for a two-piece."
All advice is welcomed
Thats a great weight for someone your age and heaight. I don't think you should try to loose weight at all. If you don't like your ribs, then it sucks because you cant really delete a rib or anything, but if you want to tone your stomach do ab exercises. Most all girls have a pouch for child birth and its like insanely hard to get ride of. I say just tone up if you dont like the way your stomach is. And anyone who says a 5'6" 125 lb girl cant wear a swim suit is crazy! Hope this helped
is doing 300 jumpinjacks, crunches and pushups mostly everday over-exerscsing?
It might be. You shouldnt work out with the same thing every day because tyour muscles need time to rest and grow. So if you want, do a few reps.. instead of 300 in a roll, maybe 50 at a time.. then the next day work another set of muscles. Hope this helped
hi, im 13/f and im a flyer, but i cant do heal streches or scorpions very well, and everytime i do a scorp i like gte the air knocked out of me. Do you have any flyer streches that will get me more flexible? thanks!=)
Splits! You can just, be flexible. It takes stretching every single day. Seriously, when I don't stretch one day I feel so stiff it is discusting. Heres the stretches I like doing..
- cross your legs elbows to the ground
- butterflys
-pike position (legs in front of you) and reach towards your toes
- middle and both side splits
- v sits
- v sit and reach over your side and touch your left arm to right foot/right arm to left foot (you'll feel it in your side)
- strech your arms
- back bends
don't push it though, if you can go into middle splits don't force yourself, just go a little farther down each day. also, do streches and scoups infront of your mirror everyday to stretch and see improvements.hope this helped!
alright so my hair is like realllly staticy lately. do you know anything that will help it not be so staticy? thanks :)
There are probably products that can help, but im not a huge hair expert. I'm sure you can find something that helps controll static. When my hair is staticy i just don't straighten, blow dry, or use conditioner. It works for me so maybe it wil work for you, hope this helped!
heyy i just wanted to say your an amazing flyer=]
thank you =)
Heyy :] it it bad if you shave it all off "down there", like how much should you shave? and how do you do it without it hurting? thankss
I wouldn't advise shaving it all because I'm sure the hair like blocks dirt and kind of like keeps all the nasty from down there. So i dont think you should do all of it. You can shave how much you want, if you want to do all go ahead i guess. Use alot of soap (no shaving cream idn if thats good for your vag). Just be gentil. i dont think you'd cut yourself its not like mission impossible or anything. hope this helped =)
heyy katie.
i`m 5'6 about 145 and pretty muscular. I was wondering that with the proper diet and exercise if its possible to lose about 20 pounds by may or june. thankss
Of couse it is. Eat healthy, exercise daily. You controll how much you eat, atleast 1600 is youre active and a girl. You should be able to!
hey, i'm trying out for cheerleading in a few months. i'm a little nervous about if i'm gonna make the team or not. i have my backhand spring and my tuck. actually i'm a level 9 gymnast. and i think that i'm pretty good at the cheers. so my question is... do you think i'll make the team? and if i do, i guess i'll be a flyer. im about 4'9 and 97-100 lbs. so can you give me any tips on being a flyer? oh yeah 13/f if that helps. thanks so much & sorry this is so long! =]
I neever saw your skills so I cant say but it sounds that your good and if you can tumble you have a good chance. You'll probably be able to be a good flyer. I'd give you tips but im not very good of a flyer, so what I can tell you is stretch everyday.. its super important. You have to be flexible or else flying isnt a good option. Also, don't be afraid to do stuff. Sure, you can be scared, buit you'll have to try new things to make sure you can do new stuff. Anymore I can help you with about cheerleading ask again for more info or something. Hope this helped
this isnt a questionn im just saying GOODLUCKK AT STATEE KATIEE!!!
THISS IS kelly by the wayy!
Thanks, haha should hve answered before i left ;)
hey katie this is a weird question lol in ur main picture the girl all the way to the right were did she get her shirt its soooo cutee!!! haha
Ummm those are my sisters and we all wear each others close so im guessing from where she shops, somewhere from Guess, Forever 21, H&M, or Kolhs. I'm just guessing though =]
Hey Katie,,
well i am 13/f and is it werid for me to play barbies...like i dont have my period yet if that means anything. But does this make me a baby. I mean i dont really play them often, but when i do sometimes i have fun. Does this make me a werido?
thanks =)
Not at all. DO what you like, if thats barbies that fine. I love my benie babies haha. Whatever makes you happy is fine with you and should be fine with anyone who cares about you. hope this helped
hi katiee i love your pagee! so i have a quistion do you watch american idol? if you doo , do you know what the song is that they play at the end when they show people who made it to holly wood .. its like oh hollywoodd , kiss me kiss me good?? haha thanks
Hah thanks, but sorry I do and never did watch american idol.. sorry! But i bet you can google something to find out. =)
im on the jv squad at my school. for varsity next year i have to have my back handspring and working my back tuck. i currently have my back handspring with a spot, and i can do it by myself on the tumble track (trampoline). i am deciding to discontinue the tumbling classes provided for my squad, and am starting private lessons once a week at a different gym, because i am not learning anything at my current tumbling gym. my question is, which tryouts like 2 or 3 months away, do you HONESTLY think it is possible to get my back handspring and mostly get my back tuck by the time of tryouts? if i work hard, and stuff, like i know everyone is different but..is it even possible?! thanks so much =D
I think its possible to get a flipflop in that time, but you have to get it good too. sometimes, girls just go from crappy fliflops to tucks which i guess can work, but its not as good as having a good flipflop. It might not be as likely to have a good flipflop and standing tuck in 2 months, but im sure if you try hard and work, you'll have a flip flop. Hope this helped, good lucK!
when you say 'hooking up' what do you mean ? cuz i thought it meant making out but some people are saying thats not what it is..
13/f
Hooking up can be from making out to sex or more. usually, it can involve no emotion, just lust. it all depends. it doesn't mean just making out.
urban dictionary says..
any form of getting some type of action, such as, making out, feeling things, or oral pleasure or sex between 2 people. "A hook up" is whats referred to as doing those things when your not going out with anyone
Hope this helped
Ok, so I've been trying to lose some weight lately by running. But whenever I run, my legs get really itchy :/ I don't know what is causing it or what will make it stop. Is this normal? If it is, is there anything I can do to make it go away? Please help, it's really annoying and discourages me to go out running. thanks!
Maybe your legs are dry. Do you run outside? The cold air drys skin and then it can get itchy. For that, try lotion, after you shower/bath, before you sleep, anuytime. Or it can be the material. If you run is a certian kind of pants or shorts that irritate your skin, try some new running gear. Hope this helped
hey katie.
how do you get rid of love handles
like FAST
please and thank you :)
You cant just target something you dont like on your body and get rid of it. You have to eat healthy and exercise. Basically, you burn off fat/calories when you do cardio (running, biking riding, swimming, jump rope, whatever will get your heart rate up). Then, when you burn more calories then you eat, you will loose weight. I think its simple really. But if you want to loose weight its a lot of mental strength. So.. for some starts, no pop/candy/junk food/fast food/fating things (mayo, dressing). Get physical activity atleast 5 days a week for maybe 30-60 minutes, alternate things you do. Hope this helped. I.m me for any more help
im 16 been with my gf for about 5 months and i like her a lot and i thought she liked me bu when she saw my penis she laughed and said its too small im not sure if i want to be with her now even though i like her do you think i should break it off? do girls really care about size?
Some girls might, some girls might not. Theres no for sure answer. From what you told me, i would think that since you' ve been going out for 5 months that your open and close to each other, that maybe she was just joking around or thought it wouldnt affect you. Buttttt, obviously it did. Though, I think if your going out for 5 months you really like each other and she probably doesn't care that much about size. I don't think you should make any desicioins yet. Hope this helped
okay so my gf recently broke up with me about a month ago and now we are back together. this past week we havent rly been talkin that much as usual and i'm gettin kinda worried. and when i see her at school she kinda just says hi to me and then doesn't rly say anything else or rly look at me and then just walks away. i dont know what to do. and then for some reason it feels like its hard to carry on a conversation with her. i just dont really know what to say to her. i really like her. i'm just kind of out of things to talk about or say.
thanks in advance
Maybe your spark is just down. I mean, sometimes when something akward or weird happens, in your case a breakup, things can become akward or weird. It might be like that between you too. From past experiances it sounds familar to something ive had happen, and that is what it was too. Maybe hang out with a group of people or get together and do something exciting that you knopw you'll hav osmething to say to her about . Maybe go see a good movie that you can talk about. If something exciting doesnt get things back on track then nothing might. But hey its just my opinion and you never know. Hope this helped
Katie=]