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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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which is the best way to have sex? i am only asking because me and my bf are planing on doing it and we are so confused. and i was wondering if you could give directions as well. none of the sites i checked out don't really get to the point. and most wont let a 15 year old in. or you could give me some sites. i would really appreciate it. and my bf does too.

in my opinion to get the best plesure for you and him you sittin gon top is amazing you get what you want and the angle is good and he gets more rubbed that way he laysdown and helps put it in and you sit on top of him stradaled and then just kinda rock and push till it feels good and stuff

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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?


14/f.

your horny hun and like a guy girls jakc off 2 so ya

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i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please.

if she is whore or something tell her she should get off the dick guy or girl doens't matter . or she needs to get some and relax back the f off of you. maby she only pics on you cus she has a huge lesbian crush on you. just take anger adn put in words about things like that take something about your friend and throw it back at her. or be like i dont' care what you say im a betterperson than you so im not gona mess with you. and stuch

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Okay so on Friday I gave head to a guy for the first time and I didn't really know him (I know it wasn't thebe st idea but please don't judge) so I don't know who he's been with. Then on Saturday, I started to get a bad sore throat which I still have today. Is it just a coincidence that I'm sick or did my throat just geg mildly irritated from giving oral, or something else?

your could have mono or just so infection. u might wana go to the doctore if its mono it will only get worse i just got over the symptems of it

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14/f
when your "cherry pops" do you bleed?& if you do r you supposed to bleed?

Thanx in advance

yes you do when it happend to me it wasn't that bad i barly bled at all but some people bleed alot

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16/f
i dont kno if im ready for the next step (fingering etc.) i kno im ready for him to touch me but i dont kno about me touching him
i feel like i could do it but then i feel like im not ready
i hav no clue what to do becaus i think it would feel good and make all the other stuf we do better but i seriously dont kno

if you tell him and you really wana start doing that kind of stuff then ask him to help you just alittle like lead your hands and stuff. and after a while its ok you will start wanting it more.

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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong?

no lol im the same way i love my bf 2 we have only been together 6 months 7 on the first. but still i love him with all my heart but getting looked at by other guys is still nice it can never hurt to look good and have people think so 2. i know the feeling. :D

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its me shannon AGAIN lol.
the other day i was planning on making out with my boyfriend and i thought about it.
idk how to makeout.
and i feel really weird for asking this
so dont give me crap pleaseee

its cool no im not gona pic no ya . you know how every one sais it comes naturaly really it does, ok you know how to just kiss well you kiss for like a long period and then open your mouth alittle and repeat that over and over again just like open close open close you can add tounge if you wish a little at first depending on how much your bf likes

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NEED HELP ASAP!
I am going over my boyfriends house tomorrow and he wants me to give him a handjob. I want to, but i've never really given one before. I've given one once but it was on a dare and..well it's complicated..anyway...i'm not exactly sure how to do it. and for how long? I want help from guys and girls on this one. Thanks soo much!
=D

you go from the base to the tip like kinds of massage with your hand titer at the bottom and the loser kinda on the way up and just alternate massage all areas and go up and down. u can try little new things 2 just improvise

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ok i have only stuck my pointer finger in my vagina and i use super plus tampons and i was wondering, is my cherry popped? it was a long time ago so i dont remember if i bled or not. my finger is about 3 to 3 1/2 inches long.

thanks.

no hunny its not. your still a virgin

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i'm 15/f and a virgin. before i had a boyfriend i just used to shave off all of the hairs on my vagina, but now that i think im ready to have sex i dont know how to cut it anymore. should i just leave it all off, or should i try to do one of those styles you see porn models with?? can someone please direct me to a site...thanXx in advance!! =]

shave it all. but make sure he likes that. if your really gona do tat for his plesure.

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what jobs can a 15 year old get in Illinois?

try a walmart or tartget or some where of that sort kroger and sutch .

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i had to get my head shaved bc my barber messed up. is there any ways i can make my hair grow faster without buying any fancy hair growth products?

when you wash your hair scrub your scalp relaly good to stimulate hair growth my mom used to tell me that.. it works .

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My thighs are HUGE! I'm a size 0 at abercrombie & fitch/ hollister in pants and jeans, but i really wanna get smaller thighs.

how can i do so?

hunny our legs are supost to be big. plus some guys like it even if they are teasing us they know they like it truts me. but running i guess or swimming .

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hi, i am 14 and haven't started my period is this a problem and i want to start it all my friends have except me

i was the last of my friends 2 . i started at the end of my year when i was 14. its not unhealthy there are some people who haven't started and there 18 or 19 . if you do much of a sport like gymnastics especialy then it may postpone it .

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hi i'm 14 want my breasts to grow im a size 34A oh and for all the guys is that big? how do i make them bigger without padded or water bras or implants thanks (haven't started my period)

hye hun ok well i started my period at your age and my bobos didn't grow tilll this year but then again my hormones and stuff didn't start till the end of this year eather. it just kind of depends on your body get shirts that are kinda tite ti goes with your curves and don't worrythey will grow i promise ;) and if you think of it this way this is one time in my life and u will look back on it when you have 32C's and say see i was ok then :D hope i helped .

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does anyone know any diet pills that are effective and that 14 year olds can buy? and that are also not too too expensive? i need to lose some weight and what i'm doing is not working out.
and i'm probably ruining my body but i don;t care anymore. 121 pounds is too much for me.

anyone who can offer any advice thank you very much :]

hunny i way almost the exact same weight. im sure your so pritty. y are u doing this to your self and if you have to lose wait do a sport im getting in to swimming next year it helps shame your body alot another sport is gymnastics tthey are hard gbut they do help alot i promise. diet pills are neer forsure to work and can realy harm yo. u may not care. but i proomise other people do. ..:\

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my headline area on myspace is all stretched out.
and runs into my about me?
can someone help me?

and no. i dont an image making it bigger;

get a new laiyout or make one and make the font on your title smaller it may be to big.or shorten your title and put it as the side thing next to your pics

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ok i'm 13/f (recently turned 13) ok i havn't gotten my period yet, but i have everything like pucic hair, under arm hair, and a little developement of boobs. well lately my voice has been acting weird like when i'm talking to my friends or family my voice is fine but when i talkin front of teachers or in front of class, then my voice goes weird like a need to clear it. also since i live with my dad i dont shave anywhere, and all my other friends do- and they even ask me why i dont shave, and it puts me in a bad position. cause its really weird to talk to him about AND I CAN'T TALK TO ANYONE ELSE! and i need details about period things, any web sites or links will be great as well but please tell me as much as possible. please a.s.a.p. thank u

well i dont' know aobut links or sites but you can im me at Goldenpup363 so i could give you advice on anything you wanted to know any questins bu i mean you dont have to i was just offering

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evanescence's song tourniquet explains me right now. the first line i tried to kill the pain but only brought more. yea i cut im fed up with my life. im cutting dieing screaming praying bleeding crying pretty much going crazy at the moment. i need help from anyone and everyone. just help me give me advice pleeaaaaaaaase soon befor its too late for me. i regret it. its deep

hun how bad are you bleeding? take a towl and some ice aply presure to the cut, i need to know how bad to tell you the extent ou neeed to do,if its to bad you need ot tell some one and go to the hospital so you don't bleed to death

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