16/f
i dont kno if im ready for the next step (fingering etc.) i kno im ready for him to touch me but i dont kno about me touching him
i feel like i could do it but then i feel like im not ready
i hav no clue what to do becaus i think it would feel good and make all the other stuf we do better but i seriously dont kno
TillToniteDoUsPart answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 8:48 pm: It all depends on how long you've been seeing this guy. It's funny because I'm the opposite, I'm totally okay with touching guys but I don't like it when they touch me. I don't know. Hahaa. I get kind of self conscious.
Anyyywayyys:
If you haven't been seeing this guy for too long then maybe it wouldn't be a good idea to move too fast because it's complicated... I mean, you'll just want to go further. Like once you know what's out there, and you like it, you're going to want more and more.
I know. Hahaha.
But, if you two have been going out for a while (2+months) then, I think that it's okay... Just let him have his hands wander.
If he wants you to touch him just let him know you're not ready. He'll understand, I hope. :] [ TillToniteDoUsPart's advice column | Ask TillToniteDoUsPart A Question ]
Stephi-Giles answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 8:45 pm: Okay I don't understand what you mean ? you're not sure if you're ready or you don't know how ? cuz I've been there and I can help with either tell me in my inbox [ Stephi-Giles's advice column | Ask Stephi-Giles A Question ]
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