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I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks.
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You NEED to tell someone..and soon. You could put yourself in serious danger is you don't tell anyone. You can't "overexagerate" being raped, you just can't. If they raped, you, they raped you. This is really serious, and you have to tell your mom, and stay away from your boyfriend, break up with him, because he is serious trouble.
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Well I think you should break up with your boyfriend. And you should tell your mom or an officer, and they will believe you.
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sweetie, i know what you're going through and i'm sorry that you're going through all of this. i was sexually assulted by a guy who i thought was my friend and was the boyfriend of my boyfriend's co-worker/friend.
the best thing to do in this situation is to tell your mother so she can call the police to investigate and dump your boyfriend's ass. you need people supporting you through this and not people that do no believe you.
you should tell your parents so that they can tell the authorities so that they can either get in trouble or know that what they did was wrong. just imagion what would happen if you don't tell someone? they would think that they can get away with it and will put some other innocent girl through what you're going through. let them be punished.
sweetie, if you need a friend through all of this, don't hesitate to IM me at xAskkMechaBeccax on AIM or message me on myspace at www.myspace.com/mecha_becca_tm. you are a brave girl for even telling us this much. hope i helped.
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A good boyfriend would believe something that incredibly serious. As everyone else said, break up with him immediately. I know you don't want to, but you NEED to tell your mother or someone else you're close to. Tell the police and get a doctor's examination. You DEFINITELY need to give the police names. No women deserves to go through something that terrible. Get a lawyer as well. I'm so sorry something that terrible happened to you, you poor thing! Those boys deserve to rot in jail.
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That's just terrible and cruel.
Your boyfriend's a fucking dick for thinking that you are over-exaggerating something as serious as rape. People don't JOKE about that. Anyone would know that. I don't know if it was planned or if your boyfriend just doesn't want to deal with the fact that his friends raped you, but dump your boyfriend immediatley. As soon as you get the chance, because that isn't very boyfriend-like. Hell, that isn't even FRIEND-LIKE. You should tell your mom as soon as possible too, so you can get checked out by the doctor for anything. And get a lawyer and sue the boys who did that to you. They don't deserve to get away with something like that. No one should get away with that. Don't be afraid or nervous to tell your mother, it could've happened to anyone. But it's worse to keep it in, and it's better to do the doctor examinations immediatley, I heard there's more proof for the case, the earlier you get checked too?
But yeah, good luck with everything.
Sorry that had to happen to you. =/
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Aw. Dump the guy and stay away from him and his friends. If he doesn't believe you about something like that then he doesn't care for you and trust you like he should. Tell your mom. And if she doesn't believe you ask her why you would make something up like that. If your mother doesn't believe you, tell the police yourself. Definately report it. These boys shouldn't be able to get away with a thing like that. And for the anxiety and depression youre feeling, after you tell your mom what happened ask her if you can see a therapist or psychologist to talk with you. I'm so sorry and I hope you feel better soon. Good luck.
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I can't believe that! What a complete jerk. The first thing you should do is dump the boyfriend, if he doesn't believe you about a thing like this then ... omfg. that's just terrible. You need to go to someone. Your mom might get mad ... I don't know but she cares for your safety a lot more. You need to tell her so she can help you. You should not see this guy or his friends again. If they did it this time, how do you know they're not going to take advantage of you again?
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