i just want to keep myself annonymous to any one who might know my regular user name (which is my nickname) but a little about me is i love to play my guitar alot, skateboarding, snowboarding and trying to help people even though i suck at putting the words in the right order to make it say what i'm thinking -_-
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I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done? (link)
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iv got to say you dont type like a 14 year old due to vocabulary and such but oh well.
If you pretended not to notice im sure that would have been ok, in that situation you cant really do anything these things happen and the come and go its just a part of growing up.. think of it as his body taking it out for a test drive haha
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14/F
Okay. Like, really, I am about ready to just give up on guys. Ugh. So this guy I like right now (well not really anymore) is a complete ahole, I don't even know why I like him. But he really only just wants to feel me up. Everytime I text him or call him, he says he's busy and that he'll text/call me when he's done... he NEVER does. But of course, whenever he calls/texts I should just be ready to talk to him. I don't know... He's sweet, but, what the hell?
Then there was the last guy I liked. I really, really, really, liked him for like two years, but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I can get because, yeah, I'm young and stuff so I thought we'd just wait till like highschool or something. Yeah well, he moved away. F my life.
And it kind of sucks because my three bestfriends are all insanely pretty, and I mean, I know I'm pretty too, but they're gorgeous. It sucks so bad that whenever we go out, the boys all flirt with them and then they turn to me like a sloppy second. Plus all of the guys at school like me, but they made this like "Top Five Hot Girls" and I wasn't on it. I know its stupid and dumb and immature and I should waste my time worrying about it, but it hurts you know? I love my friends, and they're the best but it's so hard hanging out with them, because all I can do is compare myself and it's all because I have sucky self esteem.
Then there's this other guy that I kind of like right now. But because I'm an idiot, I like threw myself at him. Like I tried to talk to him 24/7 so I looked like a creepy obsessed girl... and well I think I blew it with him which really stinks cuz I think it could have worked. And that whole ordeal really hasn't helped my confidence much at all.
So at the moment, I'm kind of just ready to give up. I think about all of that stuff I just wrote and, God, I feel so pathetic. I feel ugly and gross and unwanted and stupid. What the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with myself? Why do these dumb boys' opinions matter to me so much? (link)
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hey, ill just start by saying that the "Dumb boy's" comment isnt very fair. but that boat has sailed now i guess, anyway.
You will find some one soon enough, your only going to turn yourself desperate and needy if you keep this way. im a guy (18) and a couple of years ago i went the same way you did and to be honest giving up on looking for some one has made me happier. but i have alot of things to do in the meantime like go out skating with mates or work in the shop longer. It would be nice to have some one right? but you dont need them to live your own life. have your life to yourself for your i guess your "childhood" years before you start telling yourself that your ready to share that with some one.
Ease up on it, theres plenty of guys out there and at one point they'll like you enough to give you a chance.
I'v been single for 6 years and as pathetic as it sounds, i actually kinda like being alone at the moment. i do get to the point every now and then when i really want a GF but they soon pass because theres really nothing to worry about. iv had girlfriends before and i can have one again if i tried.
good luck, hopefully you see what i meant :)
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hi, 17/m. Ive been going out with this girl for about 2 months now. We really liked each other in the begining. She's on holiday, and is coming back next week (she will have been away for a month). I'm not sure if its because i havn't seen her or anything, but im starting to have second thoughts. I know she really likes me, but i dont know if i like her as much as i used to.
Im not sure what the reason for this change in thought is. One of my female friends told me that if i dont like her, i should end the relationship, because its not nice to lead her on, and the longer i stay in the relationship, the harder its going to be to end it. But she also said, that if i was unsure, i should stick with it, because i may regret it if i ended it.
Any help people? im rather confused. Cheers (link)
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Yeah man i had this loads of times with a few girls, they go away for some reason for a short amount of time and i feel i'v gone off of them. then they come back and its even better. dont do anything rash just yet give it time and im sure you will re-persue your feelings for her :)
#~m~#
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i've always had a problem with my memory. i'm constantly forgetting things. if someone ask me to do something most likely i won't do it. not because i'm lazy but because i don't remember you asked me. or i will tell the same stories over and over to the same people and cant remember ever telling them. it's gotten really bad. it's always been bad, but lately i just cant seem to remember anything. my family thinks it's because i'm not listening or i'm lazy. but i know i'm not lazy and i know i listen to people. i'm worried about this because it's straining my parents' and i's relationship. also i've been diagnosed with ADD. does that have anything to do with it? what are my possible diagnosis? anyone else have the same problem? and what do you do to help it? (link)
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Hey i clicked your question because i have the same problem and iv noticed it myself in the last couple of weeks. i made a few tests to see if i could remind myself to do things, i made a sticky note and stuck it on somthing that i would walk past (but it allways came off or somthing) or put a note on my phone so that the next day when i turn it on (hopefully> i will look at it and be reminded.
and this is really stupid but i did actually have somthing else to say but iv forgotten it... i think it was somthing like change somthing in your natural environment to remind you that you needed to do somthing today (like turn a picture on its side or somthing)
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I'm obsessed with Twilight! Of all the things I never thought a book/movie could change my lifestyle SO much. I so want to find an Edward of my own and if he looks like Rob Pattinson- BINGO!! UGH!! I just need to come back to reality. But its just so difficult. I refuse to meet guys now because at my last date all I was thinking was how much the guy looked like Taylor Laurent!! Please tell me how do I get over this stupid obsession before I lose my sanity!! (link)
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lol i had something like that but with Jack Johnson. its ok just obbsess the crap out of it till you feel like your going off of it :)
oh and dont start playing World of Warcraft because i got obbsessd with it and still am 2 years on
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Hey,
I was just wondering;
what does it mean if myboyfriend calls other girls (like sisters and friends, ect) my name accidentally?
He loves me a lot, and i find it cute but why does he do that accidentally?
:) Thanks (link)
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lol its just an accident, its like when you call your teacher mum or dad lol.
your just in his train of thought most of the time. think of it as a compliment, you managed to make such an impact on some one that he calls people your name by accident.
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Okay, well I wasn't really sure where to put this but uh here goes. So I'm 13/F and he was 14/M. He is an awesome friend but he's always been a perv. Anyway, he took it too far this time and I flipped out. We were walking in a group and some other guys that we were with were making fun of him about how he "can't get a girl" and he says "I can get any girl I want!" so he grabs me, pins me against a wall, and sticks his hand down my pants. I freaked and kicked him in the balls... He looked like he was in severe pain. I almost felt bad but not really cuz what did he expect? But now he's super pissed at me. I don't think he has a right! Does anyone else think I was out of line? (link)
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that is quite a nutty story by the way you explained it, DONT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM (im 18/m btw) you didnt want him there so you did what they teach all women in self defencee classes. aim below the belt. as it turns out your aim was swift and worked am i right?? haha
yeah, he's being the little crying whin'o about it let him be like that you have all the rights NOT HIM
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16/female
So i'll be a senior in the fall and i've never been kissed nor have i been in a relationship. I've only "talked" to boys a few times throughout HS. It's so embarrassing. I think you have to ACTUALLY be in my position to know how pitiful this is. So I like this boy and he likes me and we randomly started talking about sucking dick and eating out girls. I'm not a fan of either and so he just started to judge me. He told me I was crazy for not wanting a guy to eat me out. People judge me all the time, and I hate the feeling of being judged. Sometimes, I think I would've been better off giving my all to the first boy I talked too. Because I can't take this anymore. All I want is one nice boy..is that asking for too much? My standards aren't high. I'm outgoing, friendly, and fun. Please don't respond with "you'll find one someday, just wait, or be true to yourself B.S." Cause, that just makes me feel worse inside. What do you think with all of this? Should I see how things go with him? Should I be carefree?
thanks. (link)
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hey my names matt and im 18 and I!... am in your position... you need to think in a different frame of mind, make your self believe that a boyfriend would be nice >but< you dont need one to live your life to the fullest, am i right? i guess my situations a little different because i have had one gf but that was more that 7 years ago so i dont really count it because we were just kids. Its not pitiful that you havent kissed a guy, i havent kissed a girl not even with my first GF (we didnt go out long enough i guess to get to that point, didnt help we were both were way too shy either) and even though you told me not to say, my god im'a say it anyway you WILL find some one, some day... in this world buldging with over a billion people at least one of them will want to stay and cherish you for who you are right? im still waiting for mine to come along but now that i finnaly turned 18 i can get out and do more. Enjoy your teenage years either depressing over the boyfriend you havent got or just living it up till you get the freedom to travel and make choices for yourself.
BUT, this guy that liks you? do you like him back? is he your type? dont just go out with him because you "need" a BF, that way you will end with loads of ex's and no current boyfriends... if you get what i mean? heh
hopefully you can piece together a bit more of were i'm coming from with your own imagination, if it's not clear now then time will give you the answer. if some one had taken the time to explain what im getting at now it would have saved me alot of lonley-ness and heartache.
#~Matt~#
[My E buttons breaking, sorry if some of the words dont make sense i have gon back through it and checked]
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im 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. he has beaten me up in the past and even broken my thumb before. i know abuse is a cycle and it has to be broken but i of course thought things might work out and i stayed because i have nowhere else to go either and no one else in my life to help me right now. he knows he has total control because i dont work right now so he controls everything in my whole life. if things dont go his way then he just hits me. i do want to leave but i have no one and no im not going to a shelter and he knows that so he just keeps doing what he wants to. the point is what can i do to get out of this besides going to a shelter. if i leave and go to a shelter then i need to leave my dog behind and i dont even know if he will care for her or not when i leave and like i said i have no one to help me and im starting to think he likes it that way. what should i do?????????... (link)
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I hate it whn people are given the opportunity to love and all they do is abuse it... leave him he obviosuly doesnt deserve you and it enrages me that a man would even do that to his girlfreind/wife live wit your parents find a job rent a seperate flat do anything to get away from him! you deserve better than that and him
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So, I'm a 15 year old girl, i've recently started daiting a new boy. We get along great and he always complements me, he comes over alot(5/6 days weve been together) But almost everytime he comes over, things get a little, intence. i started my period a few days ago, so thats kinda saved me. i'm usually not sexually active much at all. but i really like this guy alot.
1. does that kinda sound like hes just sexually into me?
2. if not, what would indecate that he was? (link)
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He might calm down a bit over time so you could try waiting a week or more, this could be the way that he thinks is best to express his love of you. incase it is not love and thats all he wants to do with you then it would be best to test him or somthing (without him knowing) by saying your not in the mood but dont make it out that your not into him anymore cuz he may get the wrong idea, ask him with a cute smile if he wants to go out some were and just relax or somthin. (go to the beach a nice field with a bench or somthing) i dunno get creative :)
hopefully i helped a little bit
Matt
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What's the easiest way to record songs and put them on myspace? And what equiptment would I need? (link)
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i made a youtube video about recording.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XotoEym9JGA&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Eyoutube%2Ecom%2Fuser%2Fdobby240&feature=player_profilepage
its just for guitar though, if you have any more questions just comment the video. ill get an email and i can explain anything you want in more detail if needs be. (Depending on what it is)
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What are your top 5 favorite songs? I'm looking for new music to try :) (link)
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i cant give a top list of 5 songs because its just not possible with the 90 gigs of music i have xD (mostly bought or shared with freinds)
so ill say top 5 artists.
Evil Nine
Turbnonegro (old school punk rock skaterish band)
ZZtop
Foo Fighters
and Blue Scholars (Blue Scholars are underground rap artists. but non the less amazing.
one last one xD
Jurrasic 5 okay ill stop now :)
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i need some good rap with a lot of bass , and of course a good beat to dance to . thanks in advance (link)
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i got a few artists that have a decent dancable tune.
Firstly! old school but still kinda mainstream
Jurrasic 5 - a day at the races
or anything by "J5"
Aesop Rock, alot of people like him but he's very unferground and not mainstream at all.
AWOL one & daddy kev - Rythem
its slow to start but its great when it gets going
nice light hearted piano ridden tune.
anything by "Blacklicious" i suggest the song "make you feel that way"
"Blackstreet - No Diggity" havent heard any others except for that one
All of the following artists you can find on youtube, they are all pretty much underground. many of them dont have rap in them because they are by people who make rap beats. but every so often you find an amazing piece of lyrical amazment by some one you'v never heard of so give it a go! you wont be dissapointed (That if its the style your after ;D)
Nujabes
Blue Scholars
Arts the Beat doctor
Nomak
The Dining room (may be hard to find type in "Exit a new york" after wards if nothing coms up)
Evil nine isnt really rap, its a styled version of drum and bass i think. but they did a great song with "aesop rock" if you wanna try it type in "Evilnine Crooked ft. Aesop Rock" it should be a cartoony video. its kinda spacey and ambient i love it.
good luck, dont forget to check the related videos as well for other things there's some great stuff out there, just gotta know were to look ;)
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My gifriend and i are thinking about having sex
were both virgins both 16 and im worried because ive got a small penis and im a bit worried that i wont be any good or satisfy her can you please a girl with a small penis? (link)
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I know its not a very macho image to have a small penis but you are how you are not because you want to be, because you are how you are. nothing can change that and its unfair if any one tells you other wise. dont worry about it, iv not got the largest boat in the marina but that doesnt mean you'v got a dinggy. boats are still fun no matter what way they'r ridden.
and thats probably the best inuendo i'v ever thought of lol
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My girlfriend is self contions about her boobs so is a size 34c a good size for a 13 year old girl (link)
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i do not want to sound pervy because im 17, but i find C size a perfect size :)
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okay, im 16/f and ive never had a serious relationship. everyguy ive ever liked has 1. been older than me, and 2. have liked me for a little then just left me. all my friends say to just be patient because everyguy ive ever had a thing with are jerks. i believe them. but not everyone of them are jerks. i want to feel wanted and valued and it doesnt help that all four of my bestfriends have serious boyfriends. they talk about cute things they do and i just want to cry. ive never had that feeling to where i want to be with someone so badly because no guy had ever tried to stick around with me for so long.
so i guess i dont have a specific question, just that i need some advice :/.
thank you.
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hey im 17/m i asked a question similar to this last night. i feel the same way you do im the only guy in a class of 8 girls who all have boyfriends all they do is talk about stuff they love about them blah blah blah and im sat on the end listning to my mp3 trying to blot them out... iv been alone for 5 yearsor more now and iv started up alot of hobbies. iv found that if i keep myself busy with hobbies youll get 2 things out of it. 1) the time passes and you wont feel as lonley (i play Guitar, drums i skateboard and snowboard i also love art and photography) and my second point is kind of a link to the second 2) when you do finnaly find some one you'll get to know them alot better by asking questions about thier hobbies and then you can talk about yours! iv been a bit of a hermit though... i feel sorry for myself with out actually doing anything about it ubt i guess its the shyness i have to actually go up and talk to a girl :( but im working on it ;D
so yeah in short: Take up a fun activity (if you havent allready) and remember you can make many more than 1 hobby, iv found that if you have somthing creative to concentrate on you can vent that anger/love/sadness into somthing positive. life doesnt have to be boring just because your alone. and like the other answer says, "Your life has only just begun" i figured that out a long time ago and i guess that's why im sorta happy being alone for so long. not that a girl friend would be awesome too but i can wait... if you ush these things youll only have a ton of ex boyfriends, love isnt somthing you can rush.
Matt.
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What is it about stevie wonder that catches so many peoples hearts and minds for so many years I have been listening since the 60s and never ever get tired of hearing him and when you hear that he is gonna be playing get excited what is that not much excites me? (link)
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Yo! i just started listening to him again :D
I think its his funky voice and amazing piano skill's
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Hello, my name is Deena...and you answered my question about music. Remember?...I was wondering if you had a Myspace? (link)
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No i dont Deena sorry but i do have a youtube page that i add songs and stuff to every now and then :) http://www.youtube.com/user/dobby240
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I absoloutly LOVE music more than anything! Piano is my favorite hobbie, but I seem to have got caught up with other things and I worry way too much and music is what I depend on...but everyday I listen to it. but I want to PLAY it. Is there anyway I can focus on ONLY my music? (link)
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Just beacause you want to play your music and cant psyically do it while being away doing somthing your supposed to do doesnt mean you cant still be creative with it.
i say this because i'v been playing guitar for well over 8 years and im 17 (18 next month) and iv had a few off times where i dont get to play for long amounts of time. what i started doing during those times was thinking about playing my guitar and the different techniques while anylysing my playing style, say i do alot of palm mutes in my playing or somthing then i try to tihnk of an original tune in my head that involves that aspct of playing then i record my thoughts on paper with maybe a tab if its really clear, if not then i just sing the tune in to my mp3 player. remember, to get better at what you love doesnt allways mean practice of the practicall kind but of the analytical and thoughtfull type. what can you do? dreamy sounding chords? scales? it all depends on what you think your able to acheive.
a couple of weeks ago i was in school doing what i do best and laying back with a ton of work i needed to get done by the next day day dreaming about guitars and stuff when a couple of people were next to me talking about somthing or other one of them made a funny sound as the other poked them to wake them up, some how it reminded me a chord i could play so i wrote it down and now im in the process of finishing one of the best tunes i'v ever composed. listening to music is a great way to get inspired but try and step out of the normall stuf and listen to things you wouldnt normall listen to, maybe an underground artist who hasnt been massivaly noticed by the public.
i would start on youtube there allways alot of videos there, i have a video i found by accident one night thats a great song. it has a simple piano part but its very... effective and breath taking at the same time
ill include the link below hopefully iv been of some help to you! keep playing but dont go nuts!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jH35CR4k3fE
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Does anybody out there know where a person can buy a Kazoo?? I'm not sure if walmart carries them...but just a normal department store??....a Canadian department store?? (link)
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haha i have one of thoose!! :D they stupidly fun to play lol, i got mine from a music store for about 90p
i would go there, if not then buy one on the net NOT SECOND HAND! xD
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