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second thoughts on my girlfriend
hi, 17/m. Ive been going out with this girl for about 2 months now. We really liked each other in the begining. She's on holiday, and is coming back next week (she will have been away for a month). I'm not sure if its because i havn't seen her or anything, but im starting to have second thoughts. I know she really likes me, but i dont know if i like her as much as i used to.
Im not sure what the reason for this change in thought is. One of my female friends told me that if i dont like her, i should end the relationship, because its not nice to lead her on, and the longer i stay in the relationship, the harder its going to be to end it. But she also said, that if i was unsure, i should stick with it, because i may regret it if i ended it.
Any help people? im rather confused. Cheers
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you need to wait till she comes back from vacation and then decide from there. Im surprise you dont miss her, maybe this time apart seriously think about ya.
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Don't end it right when she comes back. Go on a date with her or something, and see if you're still feeling how you feel now. If you don't, then things should be fine.
If you do feel the same, talk to her about it. She might feel the same way. If it gets to a point where all you think about when it comes to her is whether or not you should end it, you should end it.
--Jack
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Yeah man i had this loads of times with a few girls, they go away for some reason for a short amount of time and i feel i'v gone off of them. then they come back and its even better. dont do anything rash just yet give it time and im sure you will re-persue your feelings for her :)
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I think you should wait for her to come home. take her to a movie go to the park see how things go the night. if you still feel the same way then end it.
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Well, the friend that gave you advice is right but she didn't quietly explain her advice..
Well if you don't have feelings for this girl, end it now better than later. But if your unsure, stay so you can think about it and than take you discussion, but you can only do that when your in love, not little feelings like the once you have, they aren't as big as love.
You might regret it later if you end it now but you also might not.
But think about it this way, isn't it unfair for your partner to like you a lot and you don't like her as much? It's not fair..
Or, you can take a break from the relationship and be honest with her about your feelings and tell her it might be distance.. ! Because some people with distance, they like each other more and miss each other. But others, the feelings fade, and I always say 'Distance helps you move on'
Think carefully and make you discussion wisely.
Good Luck =]=]
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