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my cat has this bump under her left eye and it is losing hair and it has some red spots on it. Does anyone know what this is or have any ideas? Please help me!
I think its some kind of infection but you should defently see a vet it cuould kill her/him! So dont worry vets make things better :D.
I need help i have these very nice pink pants that i want to wear tomorrow to school...i'm going to match them with my white/pink phat farms i have...but the thing is that i dont know what color shirt to wear can you please help? would white be a good color? and if so would a gray/pink jacket go with it? thanks!!! respone ASAP! thanks agaiN!
Ya that will work the jacket and shirt. Thats a awesome outfite (not spelled right lol). U got a good sence of style.
Alright, I'm a little confused here...I want to tone my body, but I keep hearing that weights and squats and stuff will simply increase the size of my thighs and butt by adding more muscle...is running a good way to make them slimmer...some help here please!
Eat healthier and do a sport and you will lose that fat. Good luck with it. And sports really help i did soccer and at healther and i lost alot of weight.
hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high.
Hey stop smoking. And talk to your family tell them whats up call ur dad talk to your friends and stuff. Defently dont smoke its so bad for u. Try to quit pleez! Good luck and im sorry.
theres this new guy on skool and shes really HOT! hes on the other team so i havent talkd to him yet. i wanna talk to him because mayb we can get 2gether :-). I am a shy person when it comes to talkin to new people. Any ideas or tricks on ways to talk to him?
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Defently talk to him for starters maybe get his S/N so u can talk to him alot. And ask one of his friends to talk to him for you. Be his friend it always helps. Good luck!
i think my best friend doesnt like me anymore its just somtimes well ok alot of times recently she seems really pissed at me and it seems like she trys to avoid me but i ono please help me out
Well i think you should talk to her when she doesnt try to avoide you and ask her whats up? and maybe you should have some girl time and sometimes friendships just dont work out and I'm sorry if this is the case. And dont worry maybe she is jelous or is going thru a hard time good luck!
I'm in a bit of a dilemma. See, all my friends have boyfriends and it feels like I'm the only one. I really want to be in a relationship. Well, sort of. I'm afraid of getting hurt and I'm afraid of breaking someones heart especially since it might end friendships. I've already lost enough friends because of other reasons. What should I do? I feel like there will never be someone that's right for me. I know I want someone that's into the same stuff I am and someone I can talk to that makes me laugh but is a real sweetheart at the same time. But who?
Dont worry let him come to you dont try to find him. I know that you will find this guy sooner or later. I still havnt found my perfect guy well i think i did but i dont know this isnt my problem lol. Ok well defently dont be jelous of your friends. they love ya to death and Im sure they dont mean to make u jelous. Follow your heart and dont worry your price charming will come remember love will come and go but friend ships are 4 eva!
my friends and i might be going to the movies and i want to sit next to my crush but i'm scared what should i do? how should i plan this?
well just sit by him. Talk to your friends and see if they will let you sit next to him best of luck to ya hun!
how do i help my bf be more confident about making a sports team?
Tell him that he is great and that he should go for the team. Maybe you can video tape him playing the sport so he will see how good of a player he is. Good luck with that and ur BF.
O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~
Hey talk to your friend as stupid as this sound go to friend theripy maybe. Anyway go shopping do somthing she loves maybe it will make her feel better and take her mind off of killing herself. Dont let this get serious talk to somone about it ur mom or someone who will help and dont let her kill her self shes young and she should have a great life. And she already has a great friend you. Good luck.
my crush said he was near my house yesterday and he texted me but i never i got the text and i heard from one o his friends he wants but his chool work comes first! and everytime i am flirting with some other guy he gets jealous! and we (me and him) flirt like crazy people say we should get married! we talk more and he touches me a lot. what should i do? any suggestions?
I think you should go out together you sound like u guys were ment to be. Good luck and follow ur heart.
i have a tooth in my mouth that is loose and when i wiggle it and smell my finger, it stinks. kinda embarrassing. IS THIS NORMAL?
It could be a rotten tooth. My friend had one of those once. Maybe its that sorry. You should probley see a dentist and brush it alot. Good luck wit dat.
Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning?
It could be a problem. My friend had a problem when she would always be tierd and she had to see a doctor and they found out what the problem was. Maybe you should see a doctor i know this isnt the best advice but i hope i helped.
i have a mini dachshund he is 2 yrs old,he was born with what appeared to be a scratch on his eyeball,as he grew so did the scratch,it now take up half his eye and it has a foggy color to it,and what we believed that was a scratch looks as if it was actually hair,there are a few pieces of hair growing ,it is embedded inti his eye.is this possible?
You defently need to take him to a vet. It could be a sign of blindness. Im sorry about your doggie. Hope he gets better soon!
does yoga help you lose weight?
Ya it does and there is a sort of yoga called palaties or watever and its extream yoga and it helps alot. Good luck!
my boyfriends ex IMed me the other day and we started talking...shes really nice and stuff but i know she still likes my boyfriend...she says she doesnt but i know she does...and like she said he broke her heart and she just wants to be friends now and so she asked me to talk to him and just say that she sayd hi and i did and like they made up now...my boyfriend is over her and stuff but she flirts with him now...(she lives 45 minutes away now so she cant see him in person) but like on his myspace she is like hey ur sooooo hott and all this stuff and always putting little hearts on it and then she puts "j/k" but shes not!! i know it!! its pissing me off too...and she like always tells me "about the sweet things he did for her when they were togther"....what can i do about this??
Talk to your boyfriend and make sure that he doesnt like her or is cheating on u just incase. Ignore her and tell her when she tells u about all the sweet things he did 4 her tell her what the good things he did for you to and say like ya he is a good guy. And stuff good luck and dont listen to her listen to your heart.
Okay..well theres a guy im going out with and its been a month and a half and well, i need to know a way i can break up with him, and well ive seen many questions like this asked before, plz dont tell me to tell him the truth..becuz everyone is saying that, all i need is to know what i should say to him but in a way where he wont hate me because we go back..we are good friends and im afraid if i break up with him it wont be the same :( but ill rate high!
Plzz just gie me some ideas.
Signed, confused4life
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confused4life,
Tell him like o my mom doesnt like the idea of me dating right now or i love you alot but i cant have a relationship right how. Or somthin like that good luck!
My boyfriend and i were together for almost 4 months.. and i fell in love with him.. we never really got to see each other.. and we both cheated on each other. But we were in love, so it didnt really matter. He broke up with me a few days ago.. i begged and pleaded and tried everything to get him back. I just want it all to be ok. I cried for 2 days.. and I wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings and how much fun I had with him. The letter made me feel a little better.. but I just need a way to get him off my mind.. its horrible..
please help me! i rate 5s
Hang out with your friends go shopping that always makes me feel better. Im sorry about everything. Talk to sombody about it and it helps trust me ur best friend will be the best to talk to. Best of luck to ya!
I had a dream that I was dating my best guy friend and now I like him. I'm afraid that he won't like me back, what should I do?
xxx Keely
Well first of all dont let a dream interfear with your life its just a part of your imagionation. If you love him figure out if he loves you to. talk to his friends and stuff. Dont worry it will work out. If he is your friend just ask him about it he'll understand hes your friend! Best of luck to you.
hey. i hope that you can help me. one of my best friends and i have been in an on-going fight for more than 2 weeks. ive been apologizing, and it doesnt seem to be changing anything. she always finds a reason to be mad at me. idk whats going on. shes been spreading rumors about me, too. and threatened to have people jump me! weve been best friends for almost 9 years. should i just forget that she ever existed, or should i keep begging for her forgiveness?
*Katie
Hey I'm so sorry! This has happend to me before but I think that you should not forget about her but give her some space if shes not ready to apoligize and be friends again thats her fault. I think you should just let her mello out and cool down and I know if you guys have been friends for that long then I know you will make up you guys should be friends not rivals. Good luck to you hun!