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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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13/f
i get this goey stuff in my undies all the time and its nothing to do with my period because i havnt had it yet and this has been happening for a while...so i was wondering...can anyone tell me why this is happening and if something is wrong with me...thanks alot
What you're seeing in your underwear is discharge. its usually a sign that you're about to start your period in the next few months or so. you don't need to worry, i know it's gross but it's just your bodys way of cleaning itself "down there." it's completely normal, every girl has it. if you think it will ruin your underwear you can by panty liners at CVS and they will protect your underwear. no need to worry, its 100% normal.
hope i helped =)
Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers
yeah of course you can. one of my exes is my best friend and the rest i still keep in touch and hang out. as long as you didnt end your relationship with them with fighting, it wouldnt be awkward and theres no reason why you couldnt be friends.
i just made a question and now i get that girls can ask guys out but now how do we ask them out in a cute way i guess? specific kinda please? 13/f and ill see him again friday
theres no really "cute" way to do it but i can give you some different ways to asking out a boy.
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1. you could go over to him and just randomly say "will you go out with me?" and smile.
2. you could slip him a note in his locker or books to meet you somewhere after school and ask him out then.
3. or my favorite way to ask a boy out is to ask them to hang out and go to the movies (just as a friendly and casual thing) and while you're there ask him out
4. something sweet would be to bake him a cake and write on the cake "will you go out with me" it would be so cute lol
if you want your friends to ask him out for you,they could do it, or you could do it over the phone or online, but its not special if you dont do it in person. it will mean so much more to him if you ask yourself.
if your scared and shy just take a deep breath and ask. get it over with because once you ask you will feel so much better and the pressure will be gone. asking a boy out is easier then it sounds. i remember i spent 1 day in the mirror practicing what i would say to ask out the boy i liked and i was sweating my heart was pounding so fast i thought i was going to go blank, i was sooooo scared. but once i did it, i felt so much better. nothing is as bad as it seems.
good luck and i hope he says yes!!!
Ok i just want peoples own view on this. Is it regular for girls ages 14-16 to masturbate. Like is it regular like how guys do it. Even if they seem prude or somthing. Thanks i apprecaite all answers
EVERYONE masturbates in their life. if they say they dont, they are lying. its 100% completely normal.
Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥
everyone has different definitions of "hooking up" so i dont really know what you mean. if you mean just kissing, yeah thats totally okay. but if you mean further then that, i say thats unacceptable.
well im almost 14 and i just started masterbating a little. it feels good but i feel like i shouldn't be doing it.
i was with my friends and they were talking about it and saying how gross it was. i was just like playing along and agreeing even though i do it.
am i too young?.. is there anyone my age that does it too?
thanks in advanced
lol, its completely normal. everyone has different views on it, i know people that cant go 3 days without masturbating and i know people who think its the most gross thing they ever saw.. its really your opinion, if you like it go ahead do it. its your body and it can do no harm and its actually healthy. as long as its not getting into school work or your social life, then your fine. your friends sound a little immature because most 13/14 year olds do masturbate. well where i live they do.
much love and respect
why haven't i gotten my period yet?
you cant be serious about this question.
you'll get it when you get it, just wait. everyone gets it at different times.
seriously didnt you learn that stuff in health?
Lately I've been feeling really insecure about myself, because my boyfriend seems to be talking more and more to this girl. She goes to a different school, but they still talk often. I've asked him about it, and he's said they're just friends.
This is her - http://i12.tinypic.com/2jb0gbb.jpg
This is me - http://i12.tinypic.com/2ezikwm.jpg
Can you guys please give me an HONEST opinion of who you think is better looking? I really need to know if I should be worried or not that he is talking to her, like is she prettier than me? Thanks.
i'm going to be honest since you told me too and heres the truth. you are soo much prettier than her. no im not just saying that so you will give me a high rating. i truly mean it, you're really pretty and if that boy would pick her over you than he has some problems. that girl is so ugly when i saw the pictures i was like "ew who the hell is that?!" you dont need to worry at all.
much love...
This one guy I know from work, walked past me the other day & rubbed my arm? Does this mean he likes me?
theres two possible reasons why he touched your arm... either he was flirting with you, or it was just completely on accident. you really cant find out for sure. just flirt with him and if he flirts back, maybe he likes you.
good luck
ok tomorrow night is my 7th grade dance. its with the 8th grade too. anyway, me and some friends are going and i want to make a good impression on the 8th graders. i would normally wear my straightened and down, but i want it to look different, but cute. my hair is red, down to my boobs, and i have bangs at a little longer than my chin. does anyone have any cute, flirty hair styles that i could do in no longer than a half hour? thanks in advance.
haha i have a dance too tommorow!!! with the 7th and 8th graders. how cool. do you live in RI? lol.
okay back to the questions...
you should scrunch your hair it would look cute. or you could curl it with a curling iron. if you want it up you could put it in a messy ponytail/bun. just experiment with things and see what you think looks good.
have fun at the dance (im gonna have fun at mine)
I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help
the only way you can find out is to ask him yourself. asking your friend probably wont do any good because she doesnt know how he really felt to begin with. just dial his number and talk, it doesnt take a rocket scientist. im sure if he really didnt like you he wouldnt have skipped class to talk to you. if he didnt like you to begin with, he wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. maybe hes just been busy lately and hasnt had time to call you or maybe hes got a girlfriend. so just ask him its the only way you will ever know.
Is it true that dance dance revolution will make you lose weight?
yeah its true because you burn calories as you play it. there was a think on the news a couple of years ago when a boy lost 30 pounds playing ddr. you just have to play it ALOT.
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I like this guy and i sent him a not asking if he likes me and he said yes and i no he does because his friend says he talks about me alot and really wants to go out with me. I really want to go out with him but i don't want to ask him and he's not very confident so i think he's afraid to ask me. Should I ask him and ever since he told me he's kinda of ignored me. Also we are 13 too.
if hes a shy guy, chances are he cant just walk up to you and ask you out. he probably wants to, but he just can't.
one of you has to eventually do the asking. if he likes you theres no reason he would say no, so just get it over with and ask him out now so now you wont have to worry about asking anymore.
if you both keep being shy you will never go out if you're too shy to ask.
its not as bad as it seems, i've only asked out one boy in my life because usually i let them ask me, and i thought i was gunna sweat and be nervous and say the wrong thing or go blank, but i was being too negative. its really not that bad, trust me. anyone can do it, its just that most people dont try and it seems worse than the real thing.
much love and respect.
14/F.
I'm confused, does he like me or not?
Please, be completely honest. I want to know if I should continue to like him, or move on.
*Whenever I would see him, he'd give me these huge smiles & stare at me.
* I think he would take pictures of my ass? well, atleast, when he was walking behind me with his cell phone, I heard somrthing clicking. Like the sound that a camera phone makes.
*He'd show me how strong he is, or how tall he is.
*He'd take a bunch of random pictures of me.
*He'd lay on my bed & just smile and stare at me.. aha?
*He'd throw rubberbands at me.
& a bunch of other stuff.
[By the way, that was all in ONE night. Except for the first one.. he always does that]
So, what do you think? Is that the signs of a boy liking you? I'd tell him, but I have NO clue when I'll see him again, we don't go to the same schools. [I go to catholic, he goes to public] What do I do? He lives close to me...
Majorrrr thanks, in adavance.
aww he really does like you.
if you like him too, make your move before he moves on.
tell him you like him too!
Isn't annoying when people type in run-on sentences and don't punctuate? It makes the question/statement difficult to understand and read. I can understand when people sometimes misspell words; but I hate when people don't even attempt at making themselves seem somewhat intelligent. It is bothersome when people type a response or question like its a text message. No, I'm not an English teacher if you're wondering. I am a sixteen year old female that is in high school.
Yeah, I deffinitely agree. When I ask questions and people give me answers I never know when to stop and it's so freaking confusing!!! Amen.
its all the guys are into in 7th grade. I am at 13 year old female size 34 A. I am very slender and tall (5'4) or so. I want bigger boobs. How can I get them without pills or anything.
*I dont need advice on all that self consicous crud.k?
*And I dont want to have to stuff my bra.
Is there any special food that helps or something.
no foods or excersize can make your boobs bigger.
breasts are just fat so if you gained weight your boobs will grow, but its not worth gaining weight for, right?
the only thing you can do is wear padded and push up bras.
your only 13 your boobs wont stop growing till your 16-20 does that make you feel any better? so stop rushing, it will happen on its own. your young
and if your that concerned with the amount of fat on your chest you must not have a lot of self esteem or you have a major problem. sorry if i offended you but i speak my mind, nothing personal.
much love and respect.
Alright so, I went to a halloween party friday night at my friend's house. Her mom is cool, and let the guys who came stay the night. (which was only like 4 guys that could because of their own parents) And we were like messing around, dancing, singing and all that fun stuff.. then we were watching movies. And this kid who i thought that was one of my guy friends, but like never thought of anything more was watching the movie Rachel. and you know the reclining part of the couches? like on each side? So she was on one of those, and then i was laying with my feet over her and then the kid i was telling you about earlier who i thought was just my friend came, and was like oohhh Sam scoot over. So i was like sure. so i scooted to the inside of the couch and he was on the outer part. and like i get scared easily.. so like when we watched the movie I'd jump, and grab his hand. and then like he put his arm around me at one point and then i was holding his other hand while i had my head on his chest while we watched the rest of the movie and stuff. And like i eventually fell asleep on him for like 20 minutes like that then woke up. and then like i dunno. i kind of felt something, and then like whenever somebody saw us when we were watching the movie they'd be like "awwww you two are so cute! Are you going outtt?" and then we'd just be like "nopeee." But like I don't know like if i have feelings for him, or if i just liked having somebody to hold me like he diddd. How would i know thattt? Like how do you know if you like like somebody.? Thanks!!
Oh and I'm almost 15, and i'm a girl =]
i really think you guys like eachother!! give him a try, go on a date and you will know how you really feel.he seems like a good guy, deff. keep talking to him. =)
I have this guy friend named Alex. We flirt a lot, so I've gotten to really like him, because he's funny and charming and all that. We're the same religion and age and our parents know each other and stuff like that so there really wouldn't be any problem with us getting together. The problem is he flirts with everything that moves, so I don't know if he really likes me or if I'm just something that moves. Our girl's choice dance is in about 2 weeks, and I want to ask him, but I guess I'm a little chicken. Should I ask him, and if so, how?
female/16
just ask him because if you dont you might regret it. it sounds like hes into you so hopefully the results will be good. dont be scared, hes just a boy.
I'm only 13 but I want to have sex really bad, is that normal?
yeah its completely normal but your way too young to do it so try to control yourself. kaaaay
my boyfriend wants me to give him head, but i've never done it before. i'm comfortable with it and all, and i want to do it, but how do you give someone head?
if i answer this question, i will be kicked off advicenators. if you really want to know how about you try google???
www.google.com
its known to be a miracle worker.