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Can a person be sexually attracted to someone, except not emotionally attracted to them? Like, a guy who loves gay porn, except doesn't find males attractive? (link)
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Sure, why not. Maybe they are aroused by the idea of sex, but not really the people that are having it. I think alot of people are like this because alot of porn stars are butt ugly. I mean, finding someone who is handsome/gorgeous AND willing to demean themselves is such a pipe dream. Yet so many people are aroused by porno. If you were locked in a room with two fat ugly pimply people fucking, wouldn't you be at least a little bit aroused? I KNOW I WOULD BE! Well, underneath all the disgust.
But if someone ONLY likes gay porno, but isn't attracted to men at all, maybe they have some gayman fetish or is just in denial.
And now I think I should really answer the original question. Yes, you can be sexually attracted but not emotionally. It is called lust.
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What's a good way to get rid of pimples? (link)
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Chicken grease. Rub it all over your pimply areas.
But why get RID of the P-I-M-P-les? Keep them and da bitches and da hoes will be all over you, you pimp.. ass.
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i'm going to be a freshman, and just got my braces off, and my teeth are kinda yellow. i heard that some of the teeth-whitening products don't really work & are too expensive. what should i do?! i can't go to highschool looking like this! please help! (link)
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People are often taken aback by my angelic-ly white teeth. They ask how they are so white. Then if they are worthy, I tell then the ancient ninja secret to white teeth; a toothbrush. No seriously, just brush your teeth at least two times a day.
Despite the words of all the cool kids that never wear helmets, put on seatbelts or brush thier teeth, having good oral hygiene is very cool indeed. In five years they will end up on the streets (smeared across the pavement like red paint, I mean) because they never wore them seatbelts. And when the forsenics dude has no other choice but to use thier teeths for proper identification, those cool kids will be out of luck since thier teeth would have rotted away by then from trying to be so cool.
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im in 8th grade and i havent got mi period yet. what time am i supposed to get it? (link)
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I would say around 8 o' clock.
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I'm sbout 5'2" and weigh about 90lbs (I have a REALLY fast metabolism). Is it possible to gain any weight on my arms without getting any on my stomach? That's where all my gained weight goes. Could I be able to beef up my arms a bit? (link)
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Dear dyke, the answer is simply plastic surgery. No I'm kidding, just eat lots of bull testes and lift lots of weights.
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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have??? (link)
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Being female and therefore knowing females, we can be very crafty bitches. She is testing you. She wants you to say yes so that she can pin the blame on YOU and guilt you into thinking that YOU wanted to have a threesome in the first place. In every disagreement, either it be about where to eat or what color socks to wear this lovely evening, she will somehow bring this up and guilt you into wearing the lavender socks after all.
Some girls are like me, and prefer NOT to sink down to this level but we all have the capability.
Besides, whether she is testing you or if she REALLY wants to bring another person into the relationship, it would just shatter whatever you have into a million pieces you will never be able to pick up no matter how hard you tried.
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I love my boyfriend very much, but I spend 90 percent of my time critiquing his driving skills when I am in the car with him. I don't do this with anyone else. When I drive, I would get horribly mad if he did this, but he is an angel. I do drive occasionally, and he really isn't that bad of a driver. So other than giving up my chauffeur, what else can I do to focus on something besides badgering him like a freak? (link)
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You can try to uh, STOP. You can choose not to be the nagging hag of double standards you know. Everyone hates a know-it-all CONSTANTLY telling them what to do, even if they are doing it wrong and they know it. He is just being very ver y tolerant. You canexpect the dam to break soon and your boyfriend to run off to someone who doesnt care about his driving.
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Holy fucking crap if that happened to me I would casterate him, de-ovary-ate his ex, beat them repeatedly with a board and nail, and lock them up bleeding in a cold dark basement. Together of course, so that they can ironically have the last moments of thier life together. How romantic.
If he needs to break up with you to try it again with his ex, he probably doesnt love you any more than he loves her.
The best advice for situations like this, dump the asshole, never take him back, and get revenge. If you decide to stay with him, still get revenge.He is probably jsut good with words. Stop being pushed around. Even reading this gets me so angry at him, for doing that, his ex for being a bitch and you for not doing anyhting.
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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.
I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
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It is your duty to save the innocent eyes of the innocent people, and tell her to wear bigger sizes or maternity clothing. Not tube tops, not microminis, not thongs. Nothing peeves me like seeing big people in small clothing. Although if she was a hobo that couldnt afford clothing her soul might be redeemed. But that also makes so sense becaue hobos would not be the size of a whale so just no. Just tell her to buy bigger clothes, the world will thank you.
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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks. (link)
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Have you ever seen austin powers? "You are hairy! LIKE ANIMAL!" So I would say yes, the spy types love hairy men.. and animals. Go to a spy meeting, take your shirt off and start twirling your chesthairs seductively. The women will be on you like flies. But be careful that they aren't into beastiality.
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can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?! (link)
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Simple. At the stroke of midnight on a full moon, light a bonfire. Sprinkle some hairs from the guy into it along with a dash of salt. Then, kill a goat and dedicate the sacrifice it to Akshamanakshi. Cut off the goat's the tail and tie a pink ribbon around it. Pink is the color of love you know. Tie this around your ankle for 25 days, never take it off, and soon enough, he will love you.
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i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl (link)
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Oh god. Caring about a person, friendship and lust is NOT LOVE. Simply missing a person isnt really love either, that is called codependency. Wait until you can understand love, then try going for it. Ever wonder why so many middle school romances are full of drama and never ever work out? It's because they dont know enough about thier feelings to distinguish between friendship and love.
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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
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Girls LOVE gamers. Maybe it's the way they push those buttons, those shiny, erotic buttons. Or maybe it's the fucking sexy way gamers tend to spend hours upon sensuous hours on a game, sometimes even all.night.long...
Girls also like the way computer techs can tweak them wires.
And you just KNOW it takes alot of testosterone to beat those big scary video games. Only a man could.
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I really need help... I started dating an ex of mine thursday night.. Well today we started fighting. My cousin told me that he was just using me for sex. and I guess I kinda believed it. but I've been acting kinda shady towards him and he asked why. So i kinda mentioned it to him. and now hes really pissed off.. he hates my cousin.. he doesnt want me around him when I'm with her. and I'm almost always with her. but then hes like I'm going to bed.. I was like dont be mad at me. and he got off.. didnt even tell me he loved me. I'm afraid I really ruined things with him. and I love him more then anything in the world. I dont/cant lose him.. HELP! I'm crying here.. I dont know what to do!! (link)
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He should learn to get along with your cousin because that my crying friend, is the first sign of OSSA. What is OSSA? It stands for over-sensitive spoiled asshole. If you let this OSSA get away with having these mood swings and not learning how to deal, then expect problems later on.
Act like him going to bed doesn't matter, because it really doesn't. He is going to bed, that is alright. If he's doing that to give you guys the cold shoulder, ignore it and all that stupid crap will go away. Ignore the OSSA's behavior and whatnot and he will stop moping and get on with life.
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okay well my bf has a bff they went out before me and im kool with her but it's like she spends more time with him then i do and then there is another boi that is also his bff and all 3 of them hang out im kool with all of them but they make me feel so left out and i guess my bf is trying to keep me in there group and i can talk to them but sometimes i feel like wut am i doing here or something and then when i hang out with my bff friends they r all hispanic and i am 2 but im more in the speaking english side and they treat me well.but my bfs friends dont really like them but they have no problem with my bf's friends and i guess im kinda in the middle but wut im asking 4 is should i just go away when all 3 of them r talking so i wont feel left out or hang out with my bff friends but half the things they say i barly understand but they treat me well its just where ever iam i am left out somehow....help me plzzzz (link)
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Noone loves you because you can't talk right.
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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
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Ok, you sound stupid and about 10 so I will let you in on a little secret. What you dont know about the world is that everyone in it is trying to manipulate you. They are all out to get you. You are being so clever by suspecting that your boyfriend wants to get you pregnant because thats what guys do, they want to get you pregnant. Why yo ask? Because they want to harvest your baby for the big sacrifice.
And another thing, you CAN get pregant without sperm. It's called magic, dumbass.
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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer. (link)
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I am sorry but yes, it DOES mean you're going to hell.
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