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Can you be arroused and not attracted?


Question Posted Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:56 am

Can a person be sexually attracted to someone, except not emotionally attracted to them? Like, a guy who loves gay porn, except doesn't find males attractive?

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XtineMaximus answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 2:58 pm:
Sure, why not. Maybe they are aroused by the idea of sex, but not really the people that are having it. I think alot of people are like this because alot of porn stars are butt ugly. I mean, finding someone who is handsome/gorgeous AND willing to demean themselves is such a pipe dream. Yet so many people are aroused by porno. If you were locked in a room with two fat ugly pimply people fucking, wouldn't you be at least a little bit aroused? I KNOW I WOULD BE! Well, underneath all the disgust.

But if someone ONLY likes gay porno, but isn't attracted to men at all, maybe they have some gayman fetish or is just in denial.

And now I think I should really answer the original question. Yes, you can be sexually attracted but not emotionally. It is called lust.

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