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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.
You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.
Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.
-Volleyball2150
BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway
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Recently, I became good friends with this girl. She's fun and really awesome to hang out with and usually it's hard for me to get along with girls (all the drama, etc). The big problem is, I met her boyfriend who she's been with for many years, and he's perfect. He's all the qualities I want in a guy and he knocks me off my feet. I never fall easily for guys, so when I do, it's serious. He'll flirt with me constantly and one time while we were alone he kind of hinted that he was tired of the relationship. I don't know what to do and how to act around him now. If my new friend found out, it'd be a disaster since we have a whole group of mutual friends now and she'd definitely kill me! What do I do? I'm infatuated with him, but she's been really nice to me. (19/F)
i've been taught that friendships may last forever, but there will always be a relationship that can't go on any longer. you have to pick what's more important to you. I, or anybody else in the world, cant tell you what to do. only you know what to do. but you have to choose which means more to you- love? or friendship?
If you choose love- you're risking your friendship with this girl. think about the consequences. she could be one of those girls who go chaotic when their friend steals their boyfriend, always wanting revenge and doing whatever it takes to hurt you. and also note that you said its hard for you to make girl friends.... if you lose this friend, imagine how hard it is going to be to earn another friend. do you want to risk that? but then again, you could think that your friend will get over it sooner or later and that she will be alright with this.
if you choose friendship- you're risking a guy who could be the one. are you willing to let this guy pass you by, and wonder everyday if he was the one? are you willing to risk love, for a possible lifelong friendship? Remember, there's always plenty of fish in the sea. It just takes patience and time.
here's my advice for you- I'd think about this for a few more days/weeks. no more than a month. think what means more to you, love or friendship? which one are you willing to risk for your own happiness? dont choose something that wont make you happy. do it for you and only you. not for anybody else.
then after you have thought about it, talk to your friend. the number 1 important thing about any relationship (if its friendship, love, family etc.) is communication. if you can't communicate well with your peers, there's no way its going to work out. take this opportunity to test your friendship with her. if she takes it horribly, i don't blame her. but if she takes it good- it could be a sign of a great friendship. so talk it over with her and come up with a possible solution. ask her if its alright. if you were to just say "i like your boyfriend, i'm going to date him without your consent" thats just really mean and rude. you need to ask her if its alright to date him. its respectful and shows character. also, its good for your reputation. if she says no- you should respect her decision and not go behind her back. also, dont completely shut this guy out of your life. keep in touch with him but don't be too flirty and whatnot.
i hope i helped and good luck!!
I want to take a picture, put transparent text onto it, and then sort of cut around the text so that you have the picture as the background of the text. I can't really explain it.
I don't have photoshop or anything fancy like that. How would I do this? Here are some examples. Thanks in advance!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/andjessicablewyourmind/3650533061/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/andjessicablewyourmind/3651335324/in/photostream/
I dont think you can do this without adobe photoshop. so you should get that. here's a video tutorial on how to do it with photoshop.
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/357995/fill_text_with_image/
there's also another program called corelDRAW and here's the tutorial on how to do it there
http://graphicssoft.about.com/cs/coreldrawtutorials/ht/cdrpatterntext.htm
hope i helped!
I met this girl and I really like her but just wanna start out slow. I'm out of work and have little to no money and we are going to be hanging out this weekend. So what would be some good, but inexpensive ideas that would be fun.
my bff recently went on a 6 hour date with this guy and she said they didn't spend too much money. she said that he blindfolded her and took her to this place as a surprise. it was an art museum and they looked around for a while. then he took her to a park and they had a picnic. after that they walked around downtown and stopped at a dessert place. then they went to the lake to play beach volleyball and just tanned for a while, watched the sunset. then they went home to watch a movie, then a bonfire with some friends. and then he took her alone and they stargazed.
so the only thing that would actually cost money in that situation is the art musuem, and dessert.
in substitute for those.. you could make paintings of your own instead of paying money to see others. and you could also make your own dessert instead of paying to eat someone elses.
hope i helped!
so i have dark blonde hair and i was thinking about dying my hair brown but i want to see how it looks first so i was wondering if theres any websites that will make it look like a have brown hair? thank youu.
www.thehairstyler.com
www.stellure.com
if you have adobe photoshop, you can do it on there (i dont have it so i dont know how to use that) but if you search on google or youtube, they have some tutorials on how to do it.
www.picnik.com --- there's a geek option and its called color retouch or something like that and you just follow the instructions.
hope i helped!
I have a back strain from cheer, and its been hurting for about 9 days now. It hurts to sit, and sometimes walk or sit. I cant do any exercising, because simply walking causes pain.
I have been trying to get in shape, but it's hard when i cant work out, even easy stuff! I used to go to the gym a lot or play wii fit every day after school, but I don't know what to do now! Any suggestions how to work on loosing weight when I can't even move much? It's very frustrating! Thanks!
you should really consider going to a chiropractor... they specialize in muscle/bone activity. It may be costly but if you're really worried about this, then its worth your money and time. Also, talk to a chiropractor about physical therapy classes. FYI- this wont go away after a few days. It takes a while to get your strength back.
Talk to your chiropractor and start working out after he/she tells you its ok. start off easy and slowly, no rush. then gradually increase.
until he/she says its ok to start working out, you can lose weight by eating healthier. watch your diet and choose wisely. Try going to a local gym and using athletic equipment that are specialized for one or two things. such as the leg press, it works your quads without working out anything else (no back movements)
Also, you can try using Icy Hot which will help soothe the pain, take some pain-killers if its necessary, you could even go to a masseuse and get a back massage. Heat and Ice for 20 minutes each with a 20 minute interval inbetween. (heat 20 min, rest 20 min, ice 20 min, rest 20 min etc.)
hope you feel better :)
Ok this might be long but last year i liked this guy and he had gf but i couldnt help myself.So when he found i liked him he started flirting with me and i was head over heels for him and when his gf found outi liked him she freaked out and started talking behind my back and all her friends hated me too but in front of my friends she was all nice and polite.And then like 2 weeks after he had to leave to go to another school he said i was acting like his girlfriend and i wouldnt leave him alone.So now 11 months later im here and i cant let him go .next year i have to go to the same school he went to and then i have to see him everyday.ive tried everything to let him go but i cant. plz help me
It depends on how you were flirting with him. If you were talking to him everyday, calling him cute names like baby, sweetie, hun etc., or even kissing him and hooking up.... then i would agree with him when he says you're acting too much like his girlfriend. HOWEVER, if you're flirting but not too much, like saying flirty things like "I miss seeing you in the hallways" or "We should get together sometime" and occasionally talk to him once in a while, then I think he's overreacting when he says you're acting like his girlfriend. So it all depends on how you were flirting with him.
As for your advice, I think you need to get over him. This happened 11 months ago and you really need to start over a new leaf. IGNORE his girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend?) and apologize. (i know, i know, you might say 'WHAT?!? why would i say sorry?' but its mature and if you don't do it, it just causes more drama and harder to get over it.) When you go to his school, just be totally casual. Don't think about what happened in the past. If you and him talk and he mentions something about what happened, just pretend that you have no clue what he's talking about.
As for getting over him, try getting interested in other guys. It will A- take your mind off of him and B- get him jealous which might make him more attracted to you. (BE CAREFUL NOT TO USE GUYS TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS!!!!!!!!! this is very wrong. there is a BIG difference in getting interested in other guys and making him jealous to allure him to you, and using guys to make him jealous to allure him to you. got it??) So yea, try to get interested in other guys. Or it could even be girls, try to make new friends, hang out with them more which will take your mind off of him. Also, you can take up a hobby. Something that will consume your leisure time. Such as- music, writing, sports, volunteer, extra-curricular activities. (notice- this does not include watching tv, computer, eating, homework etc.)
So thats all i have to say.... GOOD LUCK!!! =D
ps: inbox me for more advice!!
Well i am 15 years old, my boyfriends 15 years old. We both go to the same school. Started going out about 7 months ago + have been since then. We have one of the best fricken relationships i have ever witnessed in my life. I do NOT know what i would be like without him in my life. I love him with all my heart, so much that no one can understand that except me + him. But i have been grounded and havent gotten to see him on the weekends at all for about 3 months now. (Except i see him at school, but still) And usually if that happened with someone else, they would have broken up with me cause they cant wait for me to be ungrounded. But him, no, he has been with me through this all and has stuck with me through it, and still loves me and acts like he always does. And it just makes me so fricken happy that hes like that. Cause of him, i am able to trust people more, and i dont know..i just get this wierd feeling thinking about him all the time..but a good wierd ;) And it feels SO good to know that he loves me and that i have nothing to worry about with him, cause i havent been with him on the weekends cause i usually always am. But in the past, my ex-boyfriends have cheated on me, lied to me, and almost every bad thing you could think of. And thats where i got my trust to dwindle down to almost nothing. So when i met him, (Dominick) I thought this would all happen again and i didnt trust him AT ALL. But once a week or so into our relationship, i got a big wake up call; I realized that he was the only one i could trust and that he was just the right one for me. It was so wierd though, cause i just got this really good feeling and i just realized all this. It was actually kind of cool if you ask me. Like i realized that he was the one i want to spend the rest of my life with + i just love him SO MUCH! But yeah, my real question is..would you call this love? I KNOW im in love but i just wanted some opinoins out there.
Thanks for taking your time to read this + sorry for the length. But thanks ahead of time!
That was such a cute story! no, seriously, i was reading that and i could picture 2 people falling in love and just having a great time together.
You're 15. A teenager. Do you know how many teenagers there are in the world? A LOT. If you take a survey of every teenager in the world and ask them if they think they are in love- about 40% would say Yes they are in Love. But here's the catch.... no teenager actually falls in love. You gave a very detailed description of how you feel about Dominick. If you were to ask a couple (about 22-35 years old) how they feel about each other, they'd come up with maybe 3 sentences. Maximum- 5 sentences. This is because true love cannot be described. You could say things like- I feel happy around them, I can trust them, Weak-in-the-knees etc. etc. etc. But still- thats not love. Do you get my point?
This is what I think, I think you're head-over-heels about Dominick. It could be lust, or love. I've heard a lot of stories about high school relationships lasting until marriage. So who knows, this could be the guy for you.
If you ask me what the best thing about love is, i'd say its unknown and mysterious. You never know what's going to happen next. Its full of surprises. He could break up with you, He could propose to you, He could get you pregnant, He could abuse you, He could give you everything you wanted.
I gave you my opinion on love and here's what i think you should do next. If you honestly care about him, stick with him. Don't do anything stupid and let him know how you feel about him. Also, don't try to plan things and move quickly. Dont start thinking about the future and how you 2 might get married and spend the rest of your lives together. Live in the present time. focus on whats happening right now. Because when you think about the future, everything moves so fast that you won't be able to remember what happened. And you dont want that because memories define life.
Take things slow and easy, and live your life in the present.
I wish you 2 luck!! =)
ps: inbox me for more advice!
To apply for any job do they all require for you to have a social security number. How do I get one do I need to be a u.s. citizen to get it. Cause I really need to find a job.
most job applications ask for your birthdate and social security number. but you don't have to provide them. In fact, its recommended that you don't provide it because its confidential information. They would only need it to run background checks on you, but they'd need your permission for that.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070218101029AAU1RDX
someone asked a very similar question on yahoo answers. scroll down to view their answers.
you DONT need to be a US Citizen to get one because I am not a US citizen and I have one.
I dont know the procedure to get a social security number but i googled it for you and here are some sites to visit that will help.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4582837_social-security-number.html
http://www.ssa.gov/ssnumber/
GOOD LUCK!
hi guyz
1stly i am 16/f
basically i`m confused..i know this guy who i really like & he has not actually said he likes me, even though we have kissed quite a few times ! he was alwayz texting me asking how i am, saying im beautiful, funny ETC and can`t wait until he sees me again & now he doesn`t text me as much. he has still text me but he doesn`t seem as interested in me. does he like me ?? my friend thinks he might want me to make the effort idk i wondered wat you guyz thought
thanx
He likes you that's for sure... But what are you saying back to him?? Are you accepting his compliments? Are you being flirty back to him?
He may have lost interest in you because you're high-maintance. Which means it's too difficult for him to get to know you. So try being flirty back to him. Try sending occasional flirty random texts like- what are you up to cutie?
Play hard-to-get. But not too hard because then he will find it impossible to go out with you. But don't be too aggressive because then it comes off as being slutty/desperate.
I hear it in songs, poems, and in everyday conversations among friends.
What does it mean to "wear your heart on your sleeve?"
I feel dumb for asking.. but anything would be good.
Thanks.
2 definitions-
1- someone who expresses their heart and emotions openly and freely without hiding anything
2- someone who becomes devoted to something too easily or gives their heart away too quickly. They can sometimes be easily upsetted.
I think it's the first one. Just go on www.urbandictionary.com and type it in
There's a guy I have my eye on in one of my classes in college. I don't know if he sees me that way, but I have exactly one class period (which unfortunately will consist of taking a final, so there's no chance for conversation) left to get him to ask me out on a date (not pursuing a relationship here, just a chance to get to know him better). We spoke briefly a few times, and he's always really friendly. I sit behind him, so its difficult to talk to him, especially since my friend sits right next to me and he always wants to talk through all of our breaks.
Long story short, I was thinking of writing down my phone number with my name and giving it to him either before the final (but then he might read it, and I kind of don't want to be there when he does, its pretty embarrassing), or dropping it on his desk as I leave (but problem with that is he might be finished with the final before me, and I don't want to risk getting him in trouble if the teacher thinks its for cheating).
I don't know if I should do it though. When I hear of other people doing that the first word that comes to mind is desperate, which is honestly what I'm feeling at this moment. I just want him to know that I am interested and available, and he can either take advantage of it or not. I think what keeps him from pursuing me is 1) He thinks I like my friend and 2) I'm not sure how old he is, but he looks way older (23-30?), and if he really is that old he may think I don't want to pursue anything with an old fart like him (I do!, he's the kind of guy that I would hate for me to pass up, he looks like he would be a keeper for sure), I don't know if he is single, but he isn't married: there's no ring.
Anyways, should I do it? (Drop a note on his desk with my name and phone number). And if I should, then before or after the final (remember the pros and cons!)? And what are your opinions of girls that do this? If someone were to do that, would you call them or ignore the note because you thought they were desperate?
Background info:
I haven't done a good job of flirting with him (I have complained during the conversation, and looked down a lot, although I did smile at him a lot, and he smiles back).
I am 18/F
I am pretty and really friendly, so I don't think I've done anything wrong to make a bad impression except for the few complaints about homework).
Thanks so much for reading all this, I will rate accordingly, the more detailed you are, the better =)
I think you should do it. What I was also thinking was if he has a folder or binder or planner that he brings with him, you could tape the note on there when he's not looking and hopefully you won't get caught and he will find it later. If he doesn't have that, then wait until after the test. If you finish before him, casually wait until he is finished and just give it to him at the very end (right when you are about to leave). If he finishes before you- wait until you're done and it's the end of the class and give it to him when you are about to leave.
GOOD LUCK!!!
Ps: you could maybe even write a note so that way it's less embarassing. Ask him out to dinner and discuss the test or something. The worst that can happen is that you get rejected. That's life and you just have to face it. I say go for it- no regrets
HELP! I'm totally bored. There is absolutely nothing to do! Nothing exciting happening in my life! I can't go out with friends cos I'm grounded, long story, don't bother asking. I can't watch TV, go online, or anything fun. (I'm online right now cos they think I'm doing homework)
I've run out of books to read, I don't feel like writing. I have nothing to do!
Try new things. Like painting... That could be your hidden dream. Or cook. Don't even need a recipe, just make things together and see what you come up with (don't forget to write down what you did- that way you can do it again) or you can look through family pictures and make a life collage of you when you were a baby and growing up. Try looking through magazines and make some art. Grab a camera and go outside on a walk and snap some photos of nature or yourself. Grab a camcorder and make a movie and script. Documentary, or any kind of movie you want. You be the director and actor. Find old clothes that you don't wear anymore and transform them into something new by cutting/sewing. Clean the house to gain your parents trust back. Bike around your neighborhood. Go to the local gym and work out, swim etc. Go to a cafe shop and just chillax. Take a nap. Rent movies and have a movie marathon. MAKE A FORT IN YOUR ROOM with sheets and blankets. ( I love to do that ) go outside at night and lay under the stars and look at the moon or through a telescope if you have one. Make a garden. Play with kids if you have them nearby. Play night games. Make some music with pots and pans and other things in your house.
Use your imagination.
okay ive been peeing really pale yellow pee. like so pale its almost completely clear. And it doesnt do it all the time, like it will do it then it wont for like the next few times i pee and then it will. Im not dehydrated. Is there something wrong with me? I really dont want to go to the doctors.
clear pee means you ARE hydrated
How do I delete history on my computer, thanks!
depends on your computer... mac or pc?
mac- safari- click on history -> clear history (on the bottom)
pc- windows explorer- settings -> clear history
16/f, sorry if this is a bit long, I appreciate those who take the time to read this and help me :]
So, there is this guy, and he told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, but then a couple days after that he got with his ex girlfriend who basically was just dumped by her boyfriend. the guy and i havent talked for 4 or 5 weeks. [since that happened] he is in one of my classes. math. and i hate that class already.
well on friday, i had to collect homework. and no one was passing it up, so i kind of went down his row [which is right next to mine, and im in the way front, he is like 2 seats behind me in the next row, so awkward. he moved there when we got our seats changed.] but before i got to him, they started passing it up, so then all of the sudden the guy ... we'll call him bob.. leans on his desk and says something like, "[my name] would you mind taking this--" or "[my name] will you do me a favor and--" i've been wanting him to talk to me, but i felt like he was being an asshole so i cut him off and snatched it out of his hand. [with attitude i guess] and then bob was like "thank you" [i think kind of sarcastically. or surprised.]
anyways, that happened and then i've been having wierd dreams involving him [nothing sexual, dont worry hahaha] just like dreams that I'm trying to get him to notice me. or talk to me. or break up with his girlfriend. who doesn't deserve him because she always told people ho annoying he was. and not that bob deserves anyone because i REALLY like/liked him.
sometimes i feel like he's looking at me in math. and when i talk to someone who sits behind him, i feel like he tries to make eye contact with me, and when we do make eye contact, i break away frist really quickly, or he does. and we were put in groups on friday [the day i snatched the paper from him] and he was right next to me [in his group] and i think he was listening to me talk to my group or trying to get my attention because whenever this guy in his group asked me a question, he would look at me and our eyes met and it was so intense. like. i don't even now how to explain it.
and ontop of that, i think i like this freshman now. but i still like bob. im so lost and confused and i can't get bob off of my mind. and sometimes the new guy i like comes into my mind. but not really. wow im so confused. what should i do? talk to bob? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I AM SO LOST. someone please help me :[ thank you.
wowwa weewa.... that was quite a story there haha
well it seems to me that bob wants to get your attention. Here's what i would do, try to act nicer to bob and see what his reactions are. if he becomes more flirtatious or interested- stick with him and get to know him more. If he starts to act like an asshole again- forget him. boys are werid. no girl in the world can interpret what guys are thinking, so dont feel alone.
as for the freshman kid, try to become his friend first than to just get into the relationship at once. then if he seems to respond in a well mannered tone- keep talking to him and occasionally send out flirtatious signals. but not too much. you want him to chase you. play a little hard to get but not too hard.
get it??
bob= be more nicer and analyze his reactions
freshman= friends with occasional flirts.
then after a while, you have to see which one is better for you. if none of them work, find another guy
i have a 85% in french. i want to get it up before the end of the marking period which ends in like two weeks! i need to get all A's because if i don't i don't get to go on the feild trip to an amusement park. its the only one all year! and i checked for extra credit and you can't do it in the last 2 weeks.
talk to your teacher. ask him/her what you can do. ask for tutors, ask for after/before school help. or you could even buy Rosetta Stone
http://www.rosettastone.com/
STUDY STUDY STUDY AND STUDAYYY!!! if there is a test coming up, you need to study as hard as possible. but you need to remember to study for your other classes too, because you dont want them to just drop.
ask your parents for help if they can.
something i WOULDNT suggest is a study group. they never work out. Everytime i organize a study group with my friends or even non-friends, we end up having fun and not studying. unless you have SUPER obedient friends, i wouldnt recommend it.
good luck!
so i love those kind of shirts that are like fitted around the waist and get a little looser towards the top, and then have the loose, flowy short sleeves. does anyone know what im talking about? i dont really know how else to describe it. anyone know of a specific store [not online] that sells them? and please dont say abercrombie hollister blah blah because they dont have them and if they did they'd probably be forty bucks! thanks.
i think i know what you mean... is it like when you stretch out your arms to the sides, the sleeves hang down and make like a triangle?? well if it is, then try going to Von Maur. I got a shirt that is red, and a little sparkely. its fitted around the waist and towards the top gets more loose and the sleeves are very loose. and it wasn't that much money either because it was on sale. so try going there
-volleyball2150
My mom doesnt trust me at all im 17 years old im in high school last year in high school; i have good grades i went to boces for certified nursing assistant i feel like im doing everything im suppose too .my sister got pregnant when she was 16 years old i was 13 years old at the time my mom was dissapointed and upset .ever since then my life has been a living hell im not allowed to go anywhere but school im not allowed to have friends i cant communicate with no one if shes going out she takes the house phone with her i dont have a cell. and if i do go out for a walk she locks me outside (i live in long island NY and its freezing)she get so mad and says shes done with me that she doesnt care about me a bunch of stuff.im going to college soon and im going to need her to sign some papers for me she said that shes not going to.i have a boyfriend its been hard on him and me his great he treats me right and he makes me very happy i'm afraid that im going to have to end it because im not allowed to go anywhere.
wow thats harsh. I can see why she's treating you like this though. even though she says she doesnt care about you, she really does. she doesnt want the same thing that happened to your sister to happen to you. which is why she is keeping you from talking to anyone and having a life. Its a good thing that she cares about you and doesnt want anything bad to happen to you, but the method she is using is very wrong. what you need to do is talk to her and ask her why she is treating you like this. you need to explain to her that you have learned your lesson by observing what your sister has done and that you are not going to turn out like her. She may not know it, but locking you up from having a life is actually making things worse. because how does she expect you to grow up if you cant handle things on your own. She is going to let you grow up eventually and by keeping you like this, its just going to be a very bad experience. you need to tell her that you should be out in the world, getting prepared for the future and experimenting new things. because otherwise how do you expect to grow up and be an adult in the future???
if all else fails, talk to your sister about it and maybe she can help.
-volleyball2150
My best friend has been dating "THE prize catch" guy from her university and she was really happy about it when she got him. She still talks about how all the girls wanted him and such. Problem is, he's the biggest jerk I have met in a long time. He treats her like dirt and me too for that matter. If my younger brother (17, I'm 20) is there, the boyfriend talks asks him for my opinion on things. I've tried talking to her but I just get the 8 girls wanted him story. What can I do to help her? I'm worried that comming out and saying it will make her think I'm jealous.
sugarhigh is correct. after you see that something has happened, ask her if you can talk to her in private. then explain to her your feelings. if she thinks that you are jealous or crazy, then say "did you not just see what happened now? he said/did ____" and then explaint to her what he did or said that was wrong. you need to talk to her and tell her your feelings. and if she still does not listen to you, then dont be around them because later on you will get dragged into this mess and then your friend will be begging you to help and you will have to say "i told you so". if she is a true friend, she will listen to you and understand what you are saying.
i hope i helped!
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I started dating my boyfriend almost 3 months ago, We've had sex only 6 times. I have a high sex drive and too me 6 times in 3 months is not good. I spoke to my boyfriend about how it bothers me that we lack sexual contact. He told me that he doesn't like sex and that he's not like other guys who like to have sex almost every night. Also, No matter how much I tease him it doesn't seem to work... He told me that he wants to try male enchantments or viagra but he's only 23 years old. :( Is there anything I could do? or Does anyone know what or why he might be saying this or feeling this way?
not every guy out there is in love with sex. if you love him as much as you say you do.. you should be respectful of him and his decisions. dont pressure him into doing something that he doesnt want to do. would you like it if someone was pressuring you to do something that you felt uncomfortable doing???
if you feel that you dont love him because he wont have sex with you, then you have a problem because that is just wrong. you should love him for other reasons then just sex. and if he says hes not ready, wait until he is ready. but dont pressure him into doing something he doesnt want to. thats torturing him.