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15 yr old in need of advice!
Well i am 15 years old, my boyfriends 15 years old. We both go to the same school. Started going out about 7 months ago + have been since then. We have one of the best fricken relationships i have ever witnessed in my life. I do NOT know what i would be like without him in my life. I love him with all my heart, so much that no one can understand that except me + him. But i have been grounded and havent gotten to see him on the weekends at all for about 3 months now. (Except i see him at school, but still) And usually if that happened with someone else, they would have broken up with me cause they cant wait for me to be ungrounded. But him, no, he has been with me through this all and has stuck with me through it, and still loves me and acts like he always does. And it just makes me so fricken happy that hes like that. Cause of him, i am able to trust people more, and i dont know..i just get this wierd feeling thinking about him all the time..but a good wierd ;) And it feels SO good to know that he loves me and that i have nothing to worry about with him, cause i havent been with him on the weekends cause i usually always am. But in the past, my ex-boyfriends have cheated on me, lied to me, and almost every bad thing you could think of. And thats where i got my trust to dwindle down to almost nothing. So when i met him, (Dominick) I thought this would all happen again and i didnt trust him AT ALL. But once a week or so into our relationship, i got a big wake up call; I realized that he was the only one i could trust and that he was just the right one for me. It was so wierd though, cause i just got this really good feeling and i just realized all this. It was actually kind of cool if you ask me. Like i realized that he was the one i want to spend the rest of my life with + i just love him SO MUCH! But yeah, my real question is..would you call this love? I KNOW im in love but i just wanted some opinoins out there.
Thanks for taking your time to read this + sorry for the length. But thanks ahead of time!
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That was such a cute story! no, seriously, i was reading that and i could picture 2 people falling in love and just having a great time together.
You're 15. A teenager. Do you know how many teenagers there are in the world? A LOT. If you take a survey of every teenager in the world and ask them if they think they are in love- about 40% would say Yes they are in Love. But here's the catch.... no teenager actually falls in love. You gave a very detailed description of how you feel about Dominick. If you were to ask a couple (about 22-35 years old) how they feel about each other, they'd come up with maybe 3 sentences. Maximum- 5 sentences. This is because true love cannot be described. You could say things like- I feel happy around them, I can trust them, Weak-in-the-knees etc. etc. etc. But still- thats not love. Do you get my point?
This is what I think, I think you're head-over-heels about Dominick. It could be lust, or love. I've heard a lot of stories about high school relationships lasting until marriage. So who knows, this could be the guy for you.
If you ask me what the best thing about love is, i'd say its unknown and mysterious. You never know what's going to happen next. Its full of surprises. He could break up with you, He could propose to you, He could get you pregnant, He could abuse you, He could give you everything you wanted.
I gave you my opinion on love and here's what i think you should do next. If you honestly care about him, stick with him. Don't do anything stupid and let him know how you feel about him. Also, don't try to plan things and move quickly. Dont start thinking about the future and how you 2 might get married and spend the rest of your lives together. Live in the present time. focus on whats happening right now. Because when you think about the future, everything moves so fast that you won't be able to remember what happened. And you dont want that because memories define life.
Take things slow and easy, and live your life in the present.
I wish you 2 luck!! =)
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