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15 yr old in need of advice!
Alright, ill just cut this short and get to the point:
Well i am 15 years old, my boyfriends 15 years old. We both go to the same school. Started going out about 7 months ago + have been since then. We have one of the best fricken relationships i have ever witnessed in my life. I do NOT know what i would be like without him in my life. I love him with all my heart, so much that no one can understand that except me + him. But i have been grounded and havent gotten to see him on the weekends at all for about 3 months now. (Except i see him at school, but still) And usually if that happened with someone else, they would have broken up with me cause they cant wait for me to be ungrounded. But him, no, he has been with me through this all and has stuck with me through it, and still loves me and acts like he always does. And it just makes me so fricken happy that hes like that. Cause of him, i am able to trust people more, and i dont know..i just get this wierd feeling thinking about him all the time..but a good wierd ;) And it feels SO good to know that he loves me and that i have nothing to worry about with him, cause i havent been with him on the weekends cause i usually always am. But in the past, my ex-boyfriends have cheated on me, lied to me, and almost every bad thing you could think of. And thats where i got my trust to dwindle down to almost nothing. So when i met him, (Dominick) I thought this would all happen again and i didnt trust him AT ALL. But once a week or so into our relationship, i got a big wake up call; I realized that he was the only one i could trust and that he was just the right one for me. It was so wierd though, cause i just got this really good feeling and i just realized all this. It was actually kind of cool if you ask me. Like i realized that he was the one i want to spend the rest of my life with + i just love him SO MUCH! But yeah, my real question is..would you call this love? I KNOW im in love but i just wanted some opinoins out there.
Thanks for taking your time to read this + sorry for the length. But thanks ahead of time!
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I don't think you're in LOVE (strongs feelings,though)
But I do think you feel so much for him because for once, he has treated you better than any other guys have.
I just think you're overwhelmed at the fact, he's pretty decent compared to all the other guys out there.
It does seem you guys have a healthy relationship, which is the perfect foundation for when you do eventually realise what truly love is with him.
Good Luck
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No.
Him not dumping you just because he can't see you on weekdays isn't gentlemanly, it just shows you've been dating your fair share of assholes.
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You sound like you're in love based on the tone you used to describe him.
I think there are many ways to define love. Some people say it's a feeling and you just "know"; others say it's an action.
I personally think love is when you know all of the person's flaws but want to be with them anyway, and when you find yourself thinking not of yourself but of that other person.
I also like the bible definition from 1 Corinthians 13:4-8:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Have fun!
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Hey huni, Hell yeah i'd call this love some would say that ur 2 young but tbh I think and I am sure that you'd agree that love is ageless. So good luck and I hope that you 2 last. I am glad that you have been lucky enough 2 find someone that can make you trust again!!! That is very rare!!
I luvd your story btw, good luck and I hope that you guys last forever and ever!!
Dxxxxx
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