my ex and i broke up a couple weeks ago. almost a month soon. but i want to be with him because i know we should be. his bday is coming up to, his 21st. he wants us to date other ppl and see where it leads us but i dont want to date anyone else because it doesnt seem right and he told me not to wait for him but i am. i guess i am just waiting because every other guy i see doesnt seem that great to be with. im picky! but i want him back and in a way win him over. i know it sounds dumb but i do. so any ideas? of maybe what i can do for his bday without being there or for him to keep showing him i am waiting for him and i care. he lives outta state but will be back next week and back in june for good. i already went down to where he lived and had dinner with him all dressed up and he loved it but still nothing was different. and i am willing to give him time because he does need it.
wicked1472 answered Thursday May 14 2009, 5:11 pm: You can't get him back unless he WANTS to get back together. It's silly to try to win him over if he doesn't want to be won over. There are many other guys who are awesome and really nice, you should follow HIS advice and date other people. I'm sure you'll find someone who will love you guys will be happy together. Don't dwell in the past and move on with your life. Don't wait for him, cos if he doesn't want to be with you, it's probably not worth it. [ wicked1472's advice column | Ask wicked1472 A Question ]
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