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what are good ways to start foreplay???....and what to do once its been started...a lot of hints plz and directions if you can...need help quick...easy 5 (link)
watch tv


Hey...I have this problem...I like to make up screennames and use my creativity to annoy the hell out of strangers with my best friend Katie. Is this good? -david walker/AKA george christ (link)
sounds good to me


I'm 16/f and i recently found out that im pregnant by my bf whos 17. I know i cant tell my mom anything until im sure what i'm going to do. I really want to tell my bf, but he would probably freak. and yes i was taking birth control. but should i tell my bf who would most likely insist that i keep it, or just go get an abortion n not ever mention it to him. or u can add ur own options (link)
Part of life is living with your own mistakes, u got pregnant, so theres one, but you'll be making another mistake if you abort it. You should tell your boyfriend and your parents, yes they will be mad, but they will get over it and support you because this is a time when you need people to be there for you. He most likely will freak out, but he should deal with the consequences of having sex, especially at this young of an age.


Ever since I got back to school (middle school now) I have changed. I mean by my attitude. My mom has threatend beatin the shit out of me if I don't stop being a smartass. I didn't even know I was one. Am I gonna stay like this or am I gonna change back to my old self. :( (link)
Im the same way..big smartass with an attitude problem, people change when they are around people that make you have a negative look on life and you tend to say rude things and smart comments. You will only stay like this if you want to, next time you feel like saying something smart or rude, just bite your tounge lol But it is hard to respect others, but then again it is hard for others to respect you when you act in this way.


is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? (link)
I would have to say no..it is so common for girls to date older guys than it is for guys to date older girls..because guys always got SEX on their mind 24/7 and they always go for the easiest fastest way for a peice of ass..which is probably why it is so common for them to be flocking towards younger girls because they think its "cool" to be with an older guy whose experienced and they usually get used and their hearts broken..


Theres this guy that i like alot and i think i love him, and he is 19, im 15 and i dont understand wut is wrong wit the age if my mother says its alright, and he asked her if he could ask me out and she said yes but than he never asked me out, and last night i went 2 the roller rink and he wuz all ova this otha girl and makin out wit her, my friend went up 2 him and asked him wut wuz wrong wit him, he said he had a problem wit the age diffrence between us, than y would he let it get that serious i mean me were practually like goin out but he just never asked me, he would come pick me up every night, he would give me a kiss good-bye and everything. Please some1 help me
Tell me wut 2 do
Tell me wut went wrong.
PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP.. (link)
I know exactly how you feel. I dated a guy who was 19 when i was 15, and i knew my mom would have hated the age difference..so we would see each other in secret and it was hard considering i wasnt able to drive yet. I fell so fast in love with him, and all of a sudden he wanted to make sure my mom was okay with us dating because he said it was bothering him. I told her because i didnt want to lose him and she decided to at least meet him. The day he was sopose to meet her, he stood me up and i called him and he gave the phone to this girl who told me he didnt want to be with me anymore and the words that i remember hurt me the most was when she said, "your just a lil f**cking kid"
Older guys are not worth it and he probably thinks its too complicating to be with you because you are a younger girl and most guys that age dont want to mess with the whole parent complicating crap..even if she agrees or not.
You need to move on and forget about him, because he isnt worth your time
Go hang out wit ur girls and chill at the movies or sumthing, go pimp out at the mall, anything to get your mind off this guy because he is trouble and you can't spend your time thinking over and over what went wrong and why did he do this to you...there are so many questions unanswered and wont be answered because noone knows exactly whats going through his mind and how he feels


Hey guys. I lost the key to my 1980 pontiac. I've called around and the cheapest locksmith that I can find is $100. Does anyone know any cheaper alternatives to locksmiths? Also, the door key and ignition key are the same, is there a chance that it's cheaper to get a door key?

Thanks! (link)
damn..if u lived anywhere near me i could help you out for free, i know a good locksmith thats could fix that problem


I hate being shy... How can i overcome this?? I mean i just started HS and i dont want people to think of me as the "shy" one.... HOW do you Become NOT shy! if you help automatic 5 (link)
well im pretty bold with alcohol in my system..but i guess thats just me..i suggest being yourself..the key to making friends is showing them that you are out there, fun, crazy and an outgoing person that they are going to want to get to know...just talk to whoever sits by you, say "hey im a newbie..wats your name?"
DO SOMETHING lol i always feel so bad for the new people at my school because they always look so uncomfortable and anti-social..you need to be exactly the opposite


Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.

We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?. (link)
trust me..its not a good idea..you dont want to end up doing something you'll regret,unprotected sex is immature and irresponsible. you dont want to end up being a father at as young as this age..you need to tell her that you dont think it is very wise to have unprotected sex and that you rather use protection


hey there's this guy that's new and he goes to my middle school now. he's really cute and nice and funny and talented, and i really like him. a lot of other people in my grade like him too, but i've never talked to him before because i have no classes with him, and during lunch he usually goes to a club. i want to get to know him more, and i want to be able to talk to him. my x wanted to know who i liked, and i told him, and he said he would hook me up with him for me, but i told him not to. the next day my x told me he asked the guy that i like if he likes me, and he said no. i was really sad about that. is there anything i can do so that he'll start to like me? and is there anything i can say to him if i ever have the chance to see him? im really shy, and i'm not so good at talking to people that i like and i've never even talked to before.
please help!!!!! i rate high for good answers!! (link)
first of all..exes are NEVER good..i woudnt even belive him..if i were you..if you get really bold you can ask him yourself..it would be intresting if he really did like you, and your ex lied because he doesnt want you getting with him..but even if he doesnt like you..it really doesnt matter..you'll move on..it sounds like a big crush that'll fade in a while thats all..just remember you can't make someone like you, just be yourself and if someone doesnt like you, than they arent worth getting to know


OK...so I have this guy,lets call him guy #1 that I went out with like 8 months ago and I've always wished we'd go back out and always have had this thing for him...then I started liking other guys after we broke up throughout the school year(last year) and then this summer I started liking this guy,lets call him guy #2 and I really like him and I think he likes me too.Hes a grade older than me and Im not sure if he wants to go out with me or not.Well now guy #1 likes me again but Im not sure if I like him too cuz I think I might still have feelings for guy #2 please help me out! (link)
you think this is bad now..just wait til guys #3 and #4 come into the picture


im getting my eyebrows done for the first time and im really scared that its going to hurt. what should i do to prevent pain.. beside putting milk on afterward?? please hurry (link)
might wanna take some tylenol or excedrin...or a higher dose of some pain reliever because this will be EXCRUCIATING PAIN...im just kidding..your always gonna have to go through pain in your life both mentally and physically so you basically have to deal..no pain, no gain..for example..shots, wisdom teeth pulled, giving birth, getting parts pierced, getting tats..theres alot worse then getting your eyebrows done. look on the bright side..you wont look like brooke sheilds


is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
i rate high on good advice (link)
sex is a great theraputical thing to do that relaxes you and is an awesome workout also...some people love it and some people dont...if you get curious..please be safe...i know you want babies..i know you want alot..but babies come from sex..no sex,no babies..but you want to adopt..so i guess you can be a lifetime virgin so no worries! have someone do the work for ya and then you can take their babies


sorry if this is kinda gross but when you have a tampon in when you go to the bathroom do you hold the string or let it hang?

once again sorry if that's kinda gross (link)
well...this should be in the health section where all the gross questions usually are found..but most girls i guess just pee and dont touch it, watever you do...please wash your hands
rate me high :)


me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last night he pulled out and came.. but he had it all over the head of it and didnt wipe it off. could i have got pregnant from this? or does semen die outside the body??? (link)
It does not die outside of the body..since you say this is last night, i suggest you get the morning after pill as soon as possible theres a very high chance that you could get pregnant from this. Unprotected sex is never good, even if you pull out, you can still get pregnant because it still cums a little before he fully does. So I suggest that you go to Planned Parenthood or another Teen Clinic Organization to get a morning afterpill. As far as I know they cost around 40 dollars and if you go to a teen pregnancy center it is confidential so your parents don't have to find out. I seriously suggest you also consider getting birth control from there as well and also stocking up on condoms... they will give them for free or sell them for 25 cents


Ok heres the question it sounds stupid but its true, I feel scared to kiss!!! ok some time this week i am going to meeting up with a friend who i have not seen for 4 years because he left school when i was 13. ok so when i was 13 i like loved him, we was going out! ok so he texts me asking me when i meet him he wants a birthday kiss what does that mean??? He wants to kiss me? ok im 2 scared i always freak out incase i don't kiss right! what if he kisses me? wouldn't it be forward of him. 4 years is along time. im 17/f thanx (link)
This is nothing to get stressed out over, i suggest no makeouts cuz i dunno wat kind of experience you have with your tongue, hopefully you know how to peck someone on the lips or kiss his cheek...or if thats more difficult, kiss his hand


Ok so i want to lose weight, but i am afraid that if i start losing weight my Boobs will start getting smaller. I mean my boobs are like a size 36D at the moment and ive got used to them as they are now. I know i will feel bad if they srink! would mean new underwear.....is there anyway i can make my belly smaller without losing weight on the boobs? thanx
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its better to be skinny with small boobs then to be fat with big ones


My Mom Has done drugs 4 a long time.........and now she is bak in my life and wants to see me i dont know what to to cause i am afraid as once i start trusting her again im afriad that she is just gunna leave.......what should I do??

Signed:Hurt --Inside (link)
You cant use what she did against her, people make mistakes and do things that they wish they never did. If she's better and sober and has changed, then she'll want to see you and apologize for everything.


does anyone know how to make a myspace layout? or have a code that i can just change...like a website or something?
thanks (link)
go to www.freecodesource.com

and look for website codes for myspace


ILL RATE 5'S NO MATTER WHAT!


I met this guy last week who was really interested in me but I wasn’t as interested in him(I was “talking” to one of his friends). Well we hooked up that weekend and told me he likes me. He called me everyday this week and I started to realize I liked him too and he asked me out on Thursday. Well we hung out this weekend and I started to REALLY like him but he didn’t treat me like a girlfriend at all. When we were with his friends he showed no affection whatsoever but when we were alone he would hug me and hold my hand and stuff. I talked to one of his best friends about it and he told me he would talk to him. On Saturday night my boyfriend called me and told me we should go back to just “talking” because he felt we were moving too fast and that going out with someone is a big step to him. I talked to his best friend and his best friend told me that he was the kind of guy who only showed affection when him and his gf are alone. He told me that my bf still really likes me but wants to slow things down. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday even though we aren’t goin out(he said we are still going to talk and hang out) but he called me and pretended like we never made plans of hanging out. I don’t know what I should do because I really like him (I’ve dated many guys this summer/school year but I’ve liked him the most and I think it’s because I feel like we actually connect).. should I go after him even though he could be leading me on? Or should I just forgot about him even though maybe we can make things work out?
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Its rare for a guy to want to take things slow..maybe hes scared and insecure..maybe it would be a good idea to talk about it to him more often instead of through his friend, when sumthing bugs you, dont pretend it doesnt let him know




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