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hi, My Name is Jonathan, i love my music more than your mom likes coffee.
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Location: City of Angels
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Age: 16
AIM: Th3skyisfall1ng
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I have a darkend circular patch of dry skin right next to the right side of my vagina. I think its like the crotch area. I have no clue what it is or how to get rid of it, and I cant tell my parents because it would be too embarrasing, unless this is a very serious problem. My question is, what is this and how do i get rid of it myself? By the way im 13 if it helps (link)
well to be quite honest, everyone has darker skin down there. tell your parents you arent feeling well, and have them set up an appointment with your doctor.[without telling exactly why] Then consult your doctor, because stuff like that is kept confidentially. so have no fear =D



i am doing a documentary in this program and i am asking you all for your feedback on this topic. our topic is willie lynch in 2006 and how this slave owner affects us today. i am asking you all to look up the willie lynch letter and tell me how you feel about it and how you feel it affects us(esp. black american teens, no offense to whites. your feed back is appreciated too!)Thanks! (link)
it seems like he tried to organize a plan to keep slavery going for as long as possible.


Right now I write lyrics and that's about it. But someday I want to be able to at least perform in a talent show. The problem is, I can't play guitar and I'm not a very good singer. Are there any tips you can give me? Where can I find a good but cheap guitar? What's the easiest way to learn guitar? Is there any way I can teach myself to sing, since finding a vocal teacher is sort of out of the question... we live in a VERY rural area... and we're broke. (link)
just sing songs you know, get lyrics to the songs you like. [thats what i do...i'm in choir]

guitarwise there's ebay and there's the guitar center

don't let financial difficulties stop you from doing what you hope to do


This is a tad embarrassing (for the boyfriend, that is) see, we just started having sex like a week ago or so, and it's great and all, but sometimes he has trouble getting it up. Like we'll try, but nothing happes, so we'll put our clothes back on and then an hour later he has an erection out of nowhere, which is a nice surprise and all but, well, I need some suugestions. What can I (or we or even just he) do to get it up? Any suggestions are welcome.
We're both seventeen by the way. And just to be reassuring, we are both being very careful about this. (link)
haha its a two rating?

well think about it... if he's watching porn then he's wanting all those things that are in what he watches.

hahaha you're not a dude otherwise you wouldnt be asking.

he may just not be physically ready too


13/f i met this guy at this place i went to and he seemed nice and gret and everything. he liked me and i liked him. we would talk online and text and we will see eachother in a few weeks, but he hasn't answered my im's or texts in 2days and i don't know if he's busy or what. I do like him, but i don't know if i should keep going after him ( if yes, what should i say or should i go to his game ?)or wait for him to do something or just see what it is like when i see him again? please help (link)
wait for him to do something, he's not worth your time if he wont give you time


i have been with my boyfriend for a year in 4months and it seems like were falling out of love what can i do? (link)
try to do new things, try and go to new places.

tell secrets


OKay well im 14/f... lemme give you some backround... my dad has cancer and he gets chemo every other week.... its realli stressful... i have a nice house and a loveing family... but for a while now i have been a cutter... yes i know it pathetic... but i havent done it to often anymore... ive been thinking of suicide alot.like how i would do it... is this normal?? ive gotten to the point in my life were im not afriad to do it anymore.. like before i would have never gone through with it cause i was to scared.. i dont wanna get profeccional help.. i cant let my family know whats going on.. im just realli confused and i dont know what to do anymore..please help (link)
Think of your dad, how rough he has it as it is.. think of your mom on how she's stuck by his side and got through it... and how she has her husband that has cancer on her mind..now think of them loosing their daughter. That alone would deeply affect your dad.

i've been there myself.. my gf cheated on me once with my best friend so i've felt bad too.

http://www.dbsalliance.org/info/suicide.html?gclid=CKTIreL6_ocCFRU9YQodmngSHg

go there and think about everything..there are other ways out; you dont have to just quit on your life and on yourself. you can easily get through it all if you just learn to believe in yourself.

please dont hurt yourself.

sincerly, j

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Ive kissed a girl, but never "made out" with one.... is all you do is move your tongue in the other persons mouth? and if thats not the way can anyone tell me how to thank you. (link)
http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm

check there bro. do what comes naturally though

dont let too much saliva out, and dont let it seem as if your tongue is asleep


I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want to have sex with him but then i dont because i feel like i'll be betraying my mother and disrespecting her house i know im only 17 soon to be 18 in just 11 months.but i really love him and we want to but im scared i don't know what to do. So could someone out there please help me? (link)
if you're in doubt. thats you're conscience telling you not to do so. you have to think of all the little things of what could go wrong, over just a few minutes of pleasure between you and your bf. this guy may not be the guy you married, so save yourself for the guy you do.

-j


Well, my two best friends & I went & got our cartlidges pierced two weeks ago. Today I chanqed mine, I cleaned it & put a different one in. Then I felt a bump on the back of it. I`m wondering is it a assist ? my step mom had hers pierced & said that the second week hers hurt alot [mine doesnt] but there was a bump on the back & it was a assist & she had to let it close up. im scared it is, can you tell me if it is or what it could be ? (link)
seeing a doctor might help, no one has the experience & knowledge of a physian on advicenators


OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help
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DO NOT CONSIDER ABORTION. it affects you, and will affect you're conscience. have the baby, and leave it at a drop off center such as a fire station. or a hosptial.


okay well you see, me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about a year and a half now. but the thing is, yes we go to the same school even though we're in different grades but we get 10 minute break and lunch together, plus he has to walk by my locker to get to some of his classes. and he hasn't talked to me in about a week and a half now. he just walks right by me and pretends he doesn't see me. then when our two grades have an assembly or something, and we have to sit on different sides of the room, he'll be looking at me throughout the whole thing with sad face on. after about a week of not talking, i finally got fed up and called him ( which suprised me, and prolly him, too becuase he knows how nervous i get to be the first to call or something) so. i told him that I IIIIIIIIIIII was sorry for not talking to him lately, when really it was both of us and he said it was fine and not to worry about it. and he said he loved me when we were about to hang up so i dont know. this has never happpened before so i dont know what to do. i get really nervous if i try to go up and talk to him. he wasn't in school today so idk. i wanna talk to him , but i want HIM to come to ME ( or my locker... when i'm there, or lunch or SOMETHING...ANYTHING) and just talk to me. please, give me some advice on what i should do. you can also IM me on my screen name for myspace, xanga, and advicenators. it is....



stars wish on us


thanksss (link)
he could be trying to get your attention. he could also be soo sad that its hard to face you. it all depends; judging from what you said. i think you should talk to him about it or even bring it up the next time he talks to you. dont jump into it but yeah, if the times right.

this guy will always like you, being an ex-he'll always have feelings for you. i've been in the same situation myself heh =]


-J


Problem: I want to approach someone and perhaps become friends, but I have no excuse.

Story: I recently started sitting by myself somewhere, and I saw this guy sitting by himself as well. We've made plenty of eye contact, and today, he moved from his last spot to somewhere across from me. I want to talk to him because he looks interesting, and our eye contact is intriguiging. Heres the problem though: I'm shy, and it's not like I have any reason to talk to him. If he were in my class, it would be a different story, but he's not. We just happen to look at each other and sit by each other.
Suggestions? (link)
=].

perhaps you can just say hi, and start off with some small talk. Anything from music to school would be fine. after about two minutes or so pass introduce yourself =D


then on you can kinda ask for his number or whatever


We have this p.e. teacher and he is hot, sweet, funny, and did I mention hot? I think he noticed me like how I noticed him. We made eye contact at least 3times, and he held open the door. Not to mention he was showing off his bball skills. But say he didnt notice me how can I make sure he will? And how can I loose some weight in about a week thatll make my legs look.. well.. less big, and my arms stronger? Maybe not in one week but soon!! The real p.e. work starts next week. If you don't know how to help me on the guy problem help me loss some of this weight!! (link)
lol... he could get fired if your considering anything. he must obviously be older, and so what if he held the door for you? that doesnt mean he likes you that just shows he's mannerly


if i were in your position i would look for someone my age.


i was wondering what are some good songs that i can put on my ipod.. i listen to everything, so it doesnt really matter to me what times i just need suggestions, thanks. (link)
jack johnson
bob marley
rage against the machine
pearl jam
foo fighters
audioslave


i'm having a party, like a bat mitzvah party (i'm sure you've all been to those.

you know the crap they hand out on the dancefloor, like hats and stuff? i need something for the little kids that is good for them but nt totally out of my theme (shopping).

thanks! (link)
search for oriental trading, they have all these cool stuff and its cheap =)


do guys like shy girls? guys opinions would be helpful. thankss :] (link)
depends on the person, but i personally find shy girls to be cute.


hey man,
what's your theory on love, my girlfriend's always bugging me about not telling her i love her so i need someones opinion on what they think love is (link)
heh intresting. love is something you share between one person and another. it is a burning feeling inside that you feel for another person.. the way you would die for your lover with no questions asked. something that is never taken for granted, that should always be cherished


you cant tell her you love her if she asks you to, tell her you just dont feel that way...because if you really loved her you wouldnt be asking this question.


love is natural.love cannot be made, it is born.


Im 5'0 about 140 ilbs. What are some good outfitts that might look good on me? White skin, Aurburn hair, Hazel eyes 14. (in style clothes) (link)
casual, nothing fancy but something nice =)


i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
be confident. dont not swim at your friends going away party, you're going to go for your friend.. you shouldnt worry about how you look because the only person who it'll truly matter most that your there.would of course be the girl




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