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getting it up
This is a tad embarrassing (for the boyfriend, that is) see, we just started having sex like a week ago or so, and it's great and all, but sometimes he has trouble getting it up. Like we'll try, but nothing happes, so we'll put our clothes back on and then an hour later he has an erection out of nowhere, which is a nice surprise and all but, well, I need some suugestions. What can I (or we or even just he) do to get it up? Any suggestions are welcome.
We're both seventeen by the way. And just to be reassuring, we are both being very careful about this.
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He could have a bit of performance anxiety. I think the best thing to do is just let it happen...like it did out of nowhere before. :)
Just be spontaneous and don't get undressed and just go for it. That may be causing him stress even if he isn't aware of it.
Some diseases...diabetes is one, can cause erectile dysfunction. Doesn't really sound as if that is the problem though, he does eventually come around.
Just let it happen. If for some reason it doesnt every time you see each other, let him know that it is OK. :)
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Don't listen to the idiot below. They don't have damn a clue.
It's not unusual. How long do you 'try' to get him up? It could be that there isn't enough build-up before hand. Not enough preforeplay, if you will. Perhaps a more gradual approach will get a rise out of him.
If not, he might want to consider at least some form of medical consultation, whether it be a webpage like webMD or a doctor. 17 tends to be a potent age.
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haha its a two rating?
well think about it... if he's watching porn then he's wanting all those things that are in what he watches.
hahaha you're not a dude otherwise you wouldnt be asking.
he may just not be physically ready too
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