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i have been with my boyfriend for a year in 4months and it seems like were falling out of love what can i do?
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Ive Also Been With My Bopyfriend For 4 Months And I Am Totally In Love Wit Him...Ive Never Been So Close To Some One In My Life..But Yea Ive Been Through The Same Thing..But We're Better Than Ever Now It Helps To Talk About The Future And How Much You Love Each Other It'll Bring Yuns Closer Together Cus You Both Will Relize How Much Yuns Care And Cant Imagine Life Without Each Other...Well If Its Really Love You Guys Can Work It Out..Its Perfectly Normal For Relationships To Die That Just Means Yuns Are Used To Each Other...
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After awhile, the romance in relationships will die down. That doesn't mean that you don't love each other just as much. You've just gotten used to each other and aren't quite as infatuated. This is going to happen in any relationship you are in. You can try to bring some of the romance back, or you can sit back and enjoy the next chapter. I think a little romance every once in awhile is a positive thing. Try going back in time. Relive your first date, bring your boyfriend, blindfolded, to a place that's special to you, make him something, the list goes on. Don't do anything drastic just because your feelings for each other are maturing. Take it one step at a time. Think about whether this guy is someone that is worth going through more time with. Did you love him just for the romance, or is there something else there? Good luck. :)
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You might be right or you may just need a break! Tell him you'd like to spend a few extra days with your friends, but don't break up. See if you two miss each other or are glad for the separation.
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Talk. Ask him if he feels the same. Ask if he wants it to work out. Then talk about how to fix it.
I know it is kind of scary to do but you need very good communication between you if you want it to work.
Best of Luck! :)
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