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I jammed my middle finger on my left hand and it kills! :-( so I need to know how to fix if before the morning cuz i have basketball!
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This happens to me a lot when i play basketball...
The best you can do it ice it all night and keep moving it, it might hurt but this will keep it from getting too stiff (it will still be stiff in the morning). In the morning you can try taping it to your ring finger but i usually just play with it jammed..keep taking care of it and it should be better soon!
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There is this boy and he sits behind me in home and careers, reading and writing and he sits across from me in math and social studies.
He annoys me so much and I'm not allowd to change seats.
What should I do??
He curses me out all the time I just want to strangle him or my self. (link)
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Politely ask him to stop or why he does it. Then if things get worse or contine, then talk to a teacher about it. you may feel childish but you dont want to spend the whole year sitting by him.
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okay well i was wondering how much does it cost to permanently straighten your hair by a professional hairstylist. i have really curly hair and i want it straight. and do you have any suggestions on what to ask for to get it straight by the hairstylist.. like the Japanese thing or what ever it is.. thanks
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confused
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You are thinking of the Japeneese way that can take anywhere from 5-8 hours and costs about $350+ depending on the length of your hair. Yes this does seem over the top, but if you get it done right, it will look beautiful.
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okay this might sound dumb to some of you, but i have a friend named well lets say kristen well shes the type that if you like the guy she likes shes alright with it intil you start to go out with this guy then she like hates you and thinks your trying to ruin her life so shes pretty emo, well the other day she told me that this guy that is really hott that ive been watching named josh that he liked me, well she thinks i like this other guy but actually i like josh, i dont know if i should start talking to him and go out with him since we like each other or should i back off since kristen likes him?
please help. it might be dumb but plz
no mean answers
btw: 15.f
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Trust me when i say this...most girls are like that. If you really like this guy then you should go for him, but not before you talk to your friend about this. Ask her if she is ok with it. If she says yes, try to make her agree to stay cool and support you through the relationship. If she says no, then ask her why and then talk to the guy about it, and as a last resort, talk all together if you can.
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i heard that cracking your fingers releases stress. is that true? becuase it is a natural habit for me and i can tell you... i am under a ton of stress! (link)
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If you are under a ton of stress cracking your fingers may relieve stress for you, but there are ways that are better for your body:
1. Close your eyes and count your breaths focus on it so your mind leaves your poroblems.
2. Breath through your nose and visualize your breath as the ocean; seeing the ocean will make your problems seem smaller relaxing your body.
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Hi. I'm not on a diet, but whenever I talk to friends who follow a 'healthier diet' than myself, they always, always mention fruit smoothies as a great big help. And they mean it as in home made smoothies. They mention something about a blender fruits, milk and no sugar but I have nooo idea how to make them. Does anyone know how to? And are you supposed to add sugar?
And the evil question: does chocolate cause facial skin irritation? (link)
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When making a smoothie you can take just about any fruit you like throw it in the blender with some milk and ice. There isn't really a right way to make them, just keep trying different things until you find one you like.
And no chocolate doesn't cause facial skin irritation unless you are allergic to it.
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How do i make a guy like me?? they guy i like told my friend "idk maybe" when she was seeing if he would ever go out with me. what does idk maybe mean? if im not quite there, HOW DO I GET THERE?? Ill rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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First you have to understand that you can't MAKE a guy like you, but you can try to encourage it. You could try to get to know him better or ask him to hang out with you sometime (probably best with a large group so it isn't akward).
The "i don't know maybe" could mean several things:
1. He likes someone else more or likes other people.
2. He was just trying to not hurt your feelings.
3. He likes you but is shy to admit it.
If you really want to know how he feels just get him alone and talk to him. If he isn't a close friend then there is no loss in approaching him and telling that you like him then asking how he feels about you.
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I've have a really close guy friend who I just found out is moving to another province.. We've been friends for almost 3 years and I know that he cares a lot about me. I'm 27 and feel that he may be the love of my life.
I'll be seeing him next week before he leaves, he's giving me his computer so we can still email each other.
What would be a good way to let him know that I am interested in him as more than a friend? I don't want to get too emotional or freak him out. But I feel like I am in love with him.
He's moving becuase he got a job in the Alberta Oil rigs and the money is too good to pass up.
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If you really want to let him know you need to sit him down, just you two with no distractions, and talk to him. Just dropping hints or not being direct may not make him pick up the signals. Being emotional will not freak him out, especially if he really cares about you. You may not want to come right out and say you love him, but you may want to tell him that you care for him more than a friend. Just do what your heart tells you to say.
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JON JON JON JON JON JON JON!
I can't get him out of my head!
I'm going to ask him out online.
But I dont know when to like do it.
Like the second I IM him I know Im not going to say,
"will you go out with me??"
So how deep into the convo should I get to ask
him out? or I'll ask a friend for me too do it?
should I ask for him?
or should a friend ask for me?
and do guys like it when friends ask for you?
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First, no guys do not like it when friends ask. If you can't go up to him and ask him now then how will you guys talk in a relationship? Second, you shouldn't do it online. He might take it the wrong way, seeing it as a joke or something. Also, it is not personal enough. Trust me...if you ask him face to face it will go a lot better.
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On Friday (16th) I'm going to visit my aunt in Florida. I live in NJ, so I'm taking a plane down with my dad to see her. The thing is, ever since 9\11 I have been PETRIFIED to fly. I've gone on vacation a few times after that and I cried pretty much the entire way to our vacation spot I was so scared. I'm really trying to get over this, or at the very least figure out a way to calm myself down. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Bring some music or a book that relaxes you. Something you would listen to in your room, where you feel safe. Also, try to sleep on the plane, it will make time go by faster and you won't worry so much. Last, just try not to focus on the thought that you are flying.
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ok so im going out with this kid and and i have braces and so does he if like we make out or kiss will we get stuck together im jyss nervous lol ill rate 5's for none fagg answers (link)
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No, you will not get stuck. I plenty of friends that are going out that both have braces and they have never "gotten stuck".
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i can't seem to find a deoderant that keeps me dry enough i know this is disgusting but can anyone help me??? (link)
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I have this same problem. To make me sweat less, i use a men's unscented anti-perspirant such as Right Guard Sport, but give it a better smell with a regular deoderant after applying the men's stuff.
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I like american eagle favorite v-neck tee's. The only problem is, now that school is back in session, they're a little low for school. I trie wearing one of the those spagetti-strap tops, but it added extra bulkage and made me look fat (im not ruler thin). What do I wear under this that won't add extra bulk, but will add some coverage? (link)
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Sports bra's will actually make cleavage look smaller so i recomend hollister. if you look around carefully they usually have cute tanks you can wear under clothes that are very thin and have double layers at the top adding some more cleavage.
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There's this one guy that I like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. One of my friends told him today that she thought me and him would make a cute couple. He said 'sweet.' Then she asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said 'probably.' And so asks if he likes me and he said 'not really but as a friend I do.' Then 'But it's kinda hard to like someone else when you have a g/f.' And to me it seems like he doesn't even like his current g/f, even though they've only been dating like 4? days. And it's a long distance relationship. I even give him a hug when I seem him at school. And he hugs me back. And I'm right there and his g/fs not. So I was just wondering what you guys thought about this? And if you think he likes me?
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It sounds like he doesn't quite no what he wants. If you like him a lot then you should talk to him, but in NO WAY pressure him into leaving his current girlfriend, that is a choice he needs to make on his own.
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When you are in a relationship and you decide to take a break, what does that mean? (link)
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Well usually it depends on who decided to take the break. Since you aren't quiet sure what it means, i am guessing your other proposed this idea. There are several things that this could mean:
1. They are getting bored (harsh but true) but you can try to fix this. Try livening up the relationship more or by trying new things.
2. Something else is wrong. If they are extremely busy or have other personal problems, they may just need a break from any drama that has/could happen. You can politely ask if everything is ok but don't puch it.
3. A lame way to say its over. If this person tends to be shy with emotions or isn't always straight-forward, this may be a way to say it's over.
I am not saying all or even any of this is true, they are just possibilities. If you are unsure of the "rules" you have when you are on a break (dating others, flirting, ect...) then talk to this person that way there is not misunderstanding in the future.
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Ok me and my friend recently went to the movies and we missed our show so we were jsut hanging out and talkting to this really hot guy.So we told him we would come back next friday ( because he works there) and so I asked my mom and she said she wanted to go but she would just see another movie.I really dont want her to go so how should I say that without hurting her feelings??Should I say just goo shopping or something?!?! (link)
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I remember running into this problem....
Ask your mom what movie it is that she is wanting to see, when she responds tell her you wanted to see that too. Then recommend that you see this movie with your friend, then promise her you will see her movie with her another day. It usually works just fine.
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how can i over come my fear of thunder storms? im in 7th grade and i think its babyish to freak out and like scare REALLY loud.
so how can i over come it? (link)
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I think that you need to realize that there is nothing in a thunderstorm that can hurt you. I used to freak out about them too, but then i just sat at my window and watched the rain fall. If you really think about it, it is just water falling from the sky and it can be extremely fun. Fear is just a mental thing that you can talk yourself out of.
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If you've never really talked to a guy but maybe twice, how do you know of he likes you or not? Can you tell? Just as a close guy friend.
Thanks
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If you have only talked to him twice, you won't exactly know if he likes you or not...depending on the conversation. If it was just like a casual "hey how you doing?" conversation the only way to tell is by his body language. If he is standing close or looking at you right in the eye like he wants to know you better, then you may have something.
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arlight so i like this person and ive went out with him b4 we lasted a little over 3 months which was good and i liked it.. but towards the end he started acting like ajerk and a showoff and stuff .. so it got me mad.. and when he was with his friend and i was there too and he was like getting all werid with me and stuff he'd get mad at me so id like fight back and hed get mad at me and leave.. so i broke up with him and its been a little over 3 weeks since we broke up but im starting to like him again.. but i dont wana be hurt... so i dont know if i should ask him back out or just stay friends ?? i hope someone can help me ??
signed
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Ok so first i would consider several things that you need to realize:
1. Guys act like jerks and showoffs to impress YOU or their friends. So if this bugs you sit him down and tell him that he doesn'e need to show off to get your attention.
2. Guys act different around their friends. Although they may not always act like it, they care about their image just as much as girls do. They don't want to be the same sweet person they are alone with you with their friends.
3. What do you mean by being wierd? If it is something that makes you uncomfortable then you need to talk to him. If he doesn't stop, then you need to leave him. But the poin is talk to him first.
4. If you don't want to get hurt consider these things, and if you are willing to accept them then talk to him about your fear of getting hurt before you decide to be with him again.
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well,this guy at school i have known him since 6 grade. first i tought he liked me but he said he did not like me.hes always notocing everything about me li today i got my eyebrows waxed and he said it was sexy.i got my hair done and he said it looked prety.hes always bothering me and talking to me about anithing looks at me and he even sometimes says bad things to me and then says hes sorry.today he was nice and cute .WHAT SHOULD I DO? DO YOU THINK HES LIKES ME?TELL ME WHAT TO TELL ME OR DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO IM DESEPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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A lot of guys are just like that. So talk to him and see how he feels about you. If he doesn't like you like that then stay friends. If he does then go for it.
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