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how do I let him know I like him more than a friend?
I've have a really close guy friend who I just found out is moving to another province.. We've been friends for almost 3 years and I know that he cares a lot about me. I'm 27 and feel that he may be the love of my life.
I'll be seeing him next week before he leaves, he's giving me his computer so we can still email each other.
What would be a good way to let him know that I am interested in him as more than a friend? I don't want to get too emotional or freak him out. But I feel like I am in love with him.
He's moving becuase he got a job in the Alberta Oil rigs and the money is too good to pass up.
Does anyone have any ideas?
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if he is going to such great lenghts as to give you his comp to stay in contact then he probley feels the same way you do. i would plan a special "friend" evening before he goes and tell him just what you said, that you are in love with him and you will really miss him. then you can find out where the both of you stand. good luck.
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You have to tell him, or you may never have the chance. You just have to take the risk and go for it.
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No matter what you always say what your feeling its something i learned a long time ago. It will be too late when he moves away so tell him before he goes. tell him you think you love him and want more then a friendship say that although you hate long distance relationships youd like to try dating once in awhile to see if it can work and if it does well then you will take that turn when it comes up. You can always change living arangments, maybe rent a place down there if you think its getting serious.
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If you really want to let him know you need to sit him down, just you two with no distractions, and talk to him. Just dropping hints or not being direct may not make him pick up the signals. Being emotional will not freak him out, especially if he really cares about you. You may not want to come right out and say you love him, but you may want to tell him that you care for him more than a friend. Just do what your heart tells you to say.
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Well if ya don't wanna freak him out i don't think you should jsut say i love you or i really like you alot. but maybe ya never know lol i think you two should go to a movie or dinner at the dinner ask for some of his food play footies with him hold his hand at the movie if he has a jacket ask him for and act cold and cuddle up to him once again try to hold his hand. Be flirty but not too too flirty like a teen flirty be an adult flirty. When he leaves give him a big hug and even a lil kiss tell him you'll miss him a whole lot. But this is a really hard situation i'm not totally sure what else ya could do. If your really brave just tell him you really like him and hope to become more than friends and maybe he'll "accept" this and your relation ship will go farther who knows but I HOPED I HELPED and i hope your situation will work out the way you want it. <3333
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