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John


Question Posted Monday September 26 2005, 9:22 pm

There is this boy and he sits behind me in home and careers, reading and writing and he sits across from me in math and social studies.

He annoys me so much and I'm not allowd to change seats.

What should I do??

He curses me out all the time I just want to strangle him or my self.


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dreamist16 answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 5:57 pm:
i suggest to the teacher that he is really bugging you and ask if you can change seats again!
if that doesnt work ask your mom or dad to talk to the teacher and let your parent take it from there!

hope i helped
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froggy1983 answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 1:01 pm:
why aren't you allowed to change seats? have you talked to your teachers? If not I think that is probably the best thing to do. Make sure you explain to them what he does that annoys you and how he curses you out all the time and make sure you tell them that he is affecting your ability to learn. If they fully understand what you are going through they are likely to change your seat or his or at least discipline him to make him stop. hope everything works out. good luck

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sillyrob answered Monday September 26 2005, 10:28 pm:
There's this thing called a "teacher" and they are the reining authority over the class, I suggest you talk to them.

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GDROB answered Monday September 26 2005, 10:26 pm:
He may have more social, mental, physical or emotional pain and issues than you would ever know. Try to be nice to him even when he is not to you. That may be the problem he could have a syndrome where saying abusive things every few minutes without knowing it and making uncontrollable noises is the norm. The teacher will know. Talk to them in private over what happens and the fact you would like your seat changed.

You may learn a lot more than sheds light on what is happening and how everyone can get along and be happy. Nobody said you had to like this boy but at least be civil. It may be all that is needed--an understanding and being civil when he is not. Sometimes you might just have to cuk it up not to offend and look the other way on someone's issues.

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naimee answered Monday September 26 2005, 10:19 pm:
Your teacher HAS to move you, there's absolutely no way she can't move you. Have your mom/dad write her a letter explaining why you need to move because it's disrupting your classwork & you get annoyed by him annoying you. She WILL move you & if she doesn't then refuse to do any work & explain that there's no point you attempting to listen over the boy sitting next to you. She'll have no choice but to move you.

With the boy, just tell him to shut up & he's just stupid. Boys are ridiculous especially when they only do it for attention. He might have a crush on you ;) eww.

Anyways, if this continues just go to your school counselor & explain what's going on. =D

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aHhmUncHkiN answered Monday September 26 2005, 9:48 pm:
Ask the teacher if she can make him stop and tell her that he is disrupting your learning time. hah it will work. trust me

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TexasChick1104 answered Monday September 26 2005, 9:46 pm:
Politely ask him to stop or why he does it. Then if things get worse or contine, then talk to a teacher about it. you may feel childish but you dont want to spend the whole year sitting by him.

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