Question Posted Wednesday September 14 2005, 9:17 pm
There's this one guy that I like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. One of my friends told him today that she thought me and him would make a cute couple. He said 'sweet.' Then she asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said 'probably.' And so asks if he likes me and he said 'not really but as a friend I do.' Then 'But it's kinda hard to like someone else when you have a g/f.' And to me it seems like he doesn't even like his current g/f, even though they've only been dating like 4? days. And it's a long distance relationship. I even give him a hug when I seem him at school. And he hugs me back. And I'm right there and his g/fs not. So I was just wondering what you guys thought about this? And if you think he likes me?
ps. 13/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Loz4Dan4Eva answered Saturday September 17 2005, 3:09 pm: i have been in a similar problem before, it sounds to me like he does like you, but he also likes his current gf aswell, just give him a bit of time and when he brakes up with his current gf, ask him on a date. you have nothing to lose and if he's already said that he likes you then your nearly all the way there aren't you? It worked out for me when I had this problem, so I really hope it works fr you too, but im sure it shud do
angelmcclain answered Friday September 16 2005, 6:03 pm: well is he 13 also, if so he is probley going to like any girl willing to give him a hug. i would worry so much if he likes you or not, or if he is your boyfriend, just hang out and have fun you have tons of time to worry about boys, there not always all there cracked up to be...lol. [ angelmcclain's advice column | Ask angelmcclain A Question ]
shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday September 15 2005, 8:04 am: well it seems like he likes you. but since he has a g/f theres not much you can do at the momemnt.but long distance relationships dont usually last very long exspecially since your rite there for him.they will probably brake up soon and then you should definetly ask this guy out! it seems to me like he really like syou but doesnt want his g/f to know about it.
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 10:46 pm: He probably does like you, but you need to think about what you'd do if you were in his girlfriend's shoes. What if you had a girl flirting and liking your boyfriend? And worst of all, what if you didn't know about it? You have to consider other's feelings, if he likes you, he'll break up with her and go for you, but don't push it.
TexasChick1104 answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 9:38 pm: It sounds like he doesn't quite no what he wants. If you like him a lot then you should talk to him, but in NO WAY pressure him into leaving his current girlfriend, that is a choice he needs to make on his own. [ TexasChick1104's advice column | Ask TexasChick1104 A Question ]
oxshortstufffxo answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 9:36 pm: It sounds like he likes you but he is afraid to because of his girlfriend. You should just just wait for them to break up, it sounds like it will be very soon. Trying to make them break up will only cause problems. So if you be his friend for now and flirt a little, he'll realize he wants to be with you, not his current g/f then ask you out.
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