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okay so there's this guy, and i'm kinda in love with him. but we broke up like before the summer even started. and everywhere i see him, he's with a different girl. he's like a man-whore or sumthin lol. but i'm still soo in love with him. and i've told his best friend that and stuff. i need him so bad right now but he's so outta my league now. what can i do??
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try to stay away from him as much as possible. the more you see him it will just make you miss him more. maby you should just use your friends as a support system, so you can talk about it to them. do somne things to get your mind off him. pick up a new hobby like drawing or photography. get some type of job. go out with other guys just for fun. but just remember that you need to get over him. life is to short to waste on some guy, even if you do love him. hope i helped
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Sweetheart, think.
are you in LOVE or LUST?
because.. alot of girls claim to be in love with a guy.
Especially if hes like your first boyfriend, your always going to have feelings for him, because he was your first.
If you see him all the time with OTHER girls, why waste your feelings for him?
I really think you dont need him, your probably lonley, so you feel like you really want him.
You know?
but it will all work out sooner or later,,
maybe another guy will come aloongg?
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Thats too bad that things didn't work out. But, you are taking this really maturily, because I noticed that you weren't asking how to get this guy back, you have realized that you can't have him anymore, and thats just about the first step to getting over a crush or a break up, accepting the fact that you aren't going to be with him. As sad as that is, you'll be able to move on and find someone else. I know you feel like you really need him, but, you have to think about who he is now. Basically, you need to get on the track of your life, picking up from there and just going through your life, just live it. One thing that will keep you really busy is to try to set high goals for school. When you sit alone at home, or just don't do anything, you start thinking of your misery, but if you start getting busy, you won't have time to stop and think about other things but what you're busy with. If you have a close friend, confide in her, and talk about the guy until you run out of things to say, but you have to set a rule when it comes to that. Tell your friend not to try to talk to the guy, or hook you back up, or put ideas in your head about hooking back up. But, basically, you have to pick up with your own life, even when its rough, just keep going.
-TheTeenGirl
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