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arlight so i like this person and ive went out with him b4 we lasted a little over 3 months which was good and i liked it.. but towards the end he started acting like ajerk and a showoff and stuff .. so it got me mad.. and when he was with his friend and i was there too and he was like getting all werid with me and stuff he'd get mad at me so id like fight back and hed get mad at me and leave.. so i broke up with him and its been a little over 3 weeks since we broke up but im starting to like him again.. but i dont wana be hurt... so i dont know if i should ask him back out or just stay friends ?? i hope someone can help me ??
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Confused
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alright i know how you feel. well i had this guy i like blah blah blah. he hurt me and everything. as much as i liked him i let him go because i didn't want to get hurt. i still like him, but just not enough to like "date him". just either let him go or actually sit down and really talk about it with him. just make sure you put yourself first in the relationship.
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i think you jsut miss him and you need to cut lose with him.try as much as you can to forget him,.i also thnk you are lonely and thinbk about him alot.so stop that and forget him.his a jerk.
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Ok so first i would consider several things that you need to realize:
1. Guys act like jerks and showoffs to impress YOU or their friends. So if this bugs you sit him down and tell him that he doesn'e need to show off to get your attention.
2. Guys act different around their friends. Although they may not always act like it, they care about their image just as much as girls do. They don't want to be the same sweet person they are alone with you with their friends.
3. What do you mean by being wierd? If it is something that makes you uncomfortable then you need to talk to him. If he doesn't stop, then you need to leave him. But the poin is talk to him first.
4. If you don't want to get hurt consider these things, and if you are willing to accept them then talk to him about your fear of getting hurt before you decide to be with him again.
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