i recently asked a question about my gift...and more than one person told me i should get a card also for my bf for christmas.
should i?
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Yea cards are great ! They express more than a gift I wouldn't mind getting a card I'd rather receive that than something bought and turning out not being what I wanted ya know? I'd get the funny ones though =)
Hope I helped
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There is this guy who goes to my school and weve been talking online and he wants to hangout over winter break. He even asked me for my number and he seemed excited about it.
Today I went out for lunch with my friend and he ended up being at the same place we went to. We've never talked in person so its kind of awkward. I passed him and said hey and he said hey kind of quietly and like smiled a little. I just felt like he didn't want to talk to me.
He is NOT a shy person. But maybe he is with me just because we havn't talked. Or maybe he doesn't like me. I don't know... Any opinions?
If you say he's not the shyest person then I think you could right ....he could just be shy around since you've both never talked in person before ...my advice is just to simply continue talking to him in person and on the phone try to get him to feel comfortable in both situations..start by small talking with him for example "hey how you been?" or "hey what's new?" get him involved in the small talking.
Good luck =)
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Im really starting to like this kid, Mike..hes HOT, funny, soo nice and just ah perfect...except for the fact that i dont even know him that well (were still at that flirting kinda stage) and i talk to him on the phone a lot. but sometimes he'll say wicked gross things like "I just farted" or "I have to poop Ill call youu back" and it creeps me out...what do i say?? I like him, but everytime he acts like that it makes me not like him. I know I sound shallow, but itd be different if he was my boyfriend..its just weird when I dont know him that well..
It could either be two things
1. He's just comfortable around you and he probably feels like he can say anything weird disgusting outrageous around you without being embarrassed about it which is a good thing because it means one step closer to a relationship on the way
Or
2.he's probably trying really hard to be funny and make you laugh .
You could try talking to him about how you feel when he acts that way and how you think he doesn't have to act like that to make you laugh or you could just blow it off and sortve laugh with him . Don't take it personally though ! He's just trying to impress you !
Hope I helped =)
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Just call me confused! I'm having a problem—I have a boyfriend and he lives halfway across the state, but this other kid likes me here, where I live. It's so tempting to go ahead and be with this guy that likes me, but I don't want to be dishonest to my boyfriend. I really love my boyfriend but it's hard with him being so far. What should I do?
You have to make a decision here hunn, either stay with your boyfriend whom you say you love and continue working things out with him and be happy or start new with a boy who lives right here and whom you'll be able to have a stable relationship with . The thing that sucks is you can't have it both ways or else you'd basiclly be considered "cheating" and the last thing you'd wanna do is hurt you boyfriend make a wise decision .
Goodluck!
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Say you started dating someone on September 26 and you wanted to know how long you've been dating.
Would you:
(A) Just use the day "26" of each month as another month even though it doesnt actually add up to one month.
or
(B) Get a calander and count 7 days after September 26th, use that as one week then Actually count 4 weeks out each time and not have it land on a day "26"?
If anyone understands what i'm asking I would really appreciate an answer.
Thanks =)
You've been dating for two months ....you make a month every 26 of a month example: oct 26 =1 month ....Nov 26=2 months.....Dec 26= 3 months and so on then (if you do) sep 26 2008 will be a year of dating .
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ok today this girl today asked me out and i like her and i said yes and she just texted me and said were goin to makeout with me tommorowi need some tips im really neverous
There is no advice on how to make out it just comes naturally don't try to hard to make it perfect just go with the flow.
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in fifth grade there is this guy at school i like and he usto like me but now now he likes this neww girl what should i do?
Move on don't sitt around waiting for this one boy when there are plenty of them out there have you ever tried telling him how you felt? You can't expect him to know if you haven't.
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one of my best friends is turning 15 tomorrow, and i already got her a gift. she invited me to her party as well (sunday). when should I give her the gift? on her birthday or her party? :)
I'd say on her party because you don't want to walk in empty handed ! But on her birthday would be ok also. But yeaaa give it to her on the partyy
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what are some good songs to play at a runway fashion show
I'd go with a lot of techno ! Just because its loud and its moving ! Or you go stick with old school hip hop beats but yeaa deff gO with techno! Just download anything under techno
Best Of luck !
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Ok I seriously LOVED the crush calculator, Me and my friends played pranks on a lot of people with it in like middle school... I tried to go on the website again, and all I get is this page cannot be displayed.. so i'm assuming it has been closed down... does anyone know a similar website? ?? PLEASE!!! PLEASE HELP! THANK YOU sooooo MUCH!
Try
www.lovecalculator.com
Best of luck!
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you answer all my questions thanks so much! well um how shouldi go about aking my dad if i can get my bellybutton pierced?
Hey ! No prob !
about the whole belly button issue
I'd try convincing for example , I'd try saying something like "getting a new piercing means being responsible for cleaning it and making sure it doesn't get infected if you'd let me get a new piercing I'd have to take responsibility for it and being responsible means taking full responsibility for my own stuff" and then I'd list reasons as to why he should give you permission to get one. Once you have him convinced then tell him its your belly button you want done. Let him know your responsible and that your mature enough to handle getting a piercing there.
Best of luck !
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okay 14/f
I just turned fourteen this month, and I still have never had an actual boyfriend. I havn't really kissed a boy either. I mean not to brag or anything but people tell me I'm really pretty. But I sort of feel lonely because it seems that everyone already has someone, and don't. I'm not one of those people who just go out with people for the heck of it. I just need someone who will make me feel good, because I'm sick of having no one. Please help me! =)
Having a boyfriend isn't everything you know. And your first kiss should be with some one special. Your still young you have plenty of time to even worry about this don't waste your teenage years trying to get a boyfriend...relax that day will come and it'll be worth all the wait. But for now try concentrating on living up your teenage years rather than trying to get a kiss or boyfriend.
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me and my bf have been going out for like 6 months and i brokeup with him the other day and i found out that he has been calling and looking up things about suicide and idk what to do bc i dont like him anymore but i do love him and i dont want him to hurt himself
How do you know this isn't just his way of getting attention ? Or getting you back? But just to be on the safe side I'd tell his parents his thought of suicide just so they could keep an eye on him or even try talking to him you could also try talking to him if he's thinking about suicide over the breakup he'll deff listen to you
Best of luck !
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Sometimes i get so mad i want to crush something, curse, cry. How do i control all those things?
Ive tried everything:
Deep breaths
screaming into my pillow
Nothing seems to satisfy me more than like destroying something etcc...
-try getting a stress ball you could plush everytime you need to let out some steam.
-grab a pencil and paper and write down everything that makes you mad and after ripp it up .
-go for a walk
-listen to music
-even try crying that helps sometimes
-take a nap.
-talk to someone about why your so angry
-count back from 10 slowly..
-take a breath and drink some water .
Hope I helped.
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My neice is mentally retarded. We just found out. My sister was hysterical. My mom was crying. My dad was very mad/sad. I felt nothing. Is this wrong? I love my neice and care about her, but i don't care if shes retarded. I'll still love her the same. I feel bad for the troubles she will have to go through but i'm not really sad. Also i am kinda pissed about how everyone else is so pissed off. Is this good or bad and why am i feeling this way?
Everyone has a diffrent way of dealing with their emotions. Your mom deals with her emotions by crying your just the opposite of what she does . Personally when I'm really sad/upset I clean I KNOW REALLY WEIRDD but that's just how I handle my emotions not everyone is the same. But not crying or getting upset mad and pist off doesn't mean you don't care because I'm sure you do , it just means that that's the way you deal with your emotions which is completely normal.
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so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that??
Well by telling him you don't like him you'd be breaking up with him first of all don't do it over the phone or through texting because seriously , that's not the way to break up with someone. Try doing it the next time you see him and don't come off being rude just simply say "hey we need to talk ...." and say what you have to say next then end it with ...."I think we're better off seeing other people" I'm sure he'll understand. Anyways I hope I helped !
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I have always been one to over think things, but lately, it's been ten times worse. Im in a new school and things aren't exactly going great. I dread waking up, walking to the bus stop, and It even worries me about getting on the bus. It's like a feeling of panic. When I get to school it's okay, but some situations make me feel sick. It's not so bad, but when I get home, worry overwhelms me. I involuntarily replay the events of the day in my head- going over embarrasing moments or bad parts. I build up so much unessacary worry for the next day. My stomach hurts, my heart pounds, sometimes it's hard to catch my breath. Sometimes I just break down. I know this is not normal, I should not worry so much, but I just cannot help it. I'm trapped in my own emotions. What's wrong with me? How can I stop this? I just can't handle it anymore.
Let me just say I'm going through the same stress as you. My mom transfered me out of my highschool where I actually had friends and no problems or drama and put me in a new highschool where I was forced to make new friends and start new. I stress about school everyday I wake up in the morning and everyday just before I go to sleep. It sucks waking up stressing about going to school I hate it. I take a school bus also and I have small panic attacks about getting on it and even bigger ones when I get off of it. I constantly worry about what people might be saying about me everytime I talk to them or walk by them. I've been backstabbed more than once and I'm tramatized by it all. And to just think this all started when I moved from my old highschool.......listen I know your probably thinking "wth?? This isn't advice" but I just wanted to let you know that I know exactly how you feel and that your not the only one who is stressing about this school. If you ever need to talk to someone leave one in my inbox or add me on msn x_tu_y_yo@hotmail.com
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my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her?
Considering the fact that she was drunk I'd say No. What she did was wrong but then again she was drunk and at that moment didn't recall exactly what she was doing or with who she was messing around with. I'd say give her a second chance WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES although you didn't really go into detail about their relationship it looks like this is the first time she's done something like this to him but then again I can't be saying this without proof. Not everyone deserves a second chance but this one does because it was a mistake. The situation does look bad on account that she went without him but if you look at it the other way its much worse. Hope I helped =)
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okay my bff forever just stopped talking to me and i had already asked her to go to a concert with me. i mean i want her to go, but i did nothing wrong to her and she just completely ignores me. i dont want to go to the concert with her if she is gunna be like this. i mean what do i do to make things better and what do i do if nothing works?
thanks in advance =]
Your friend might just want some space away from everyone including you its nothing you did or might of done but its just that sometimes she might feel like everyone is always breathing over her shoulder. Give her some space as in a week and then try talking to her, ask her if anything has been bothering her lately or if she's going through a few things in life that she might need someone to talk to. If she's a good friend then I don't think she'd "throw away" your friendship. If you've done nothing to upset her I don't think there's anything to worry about. Don't stress it hope everything works out =)
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me
There is nothing wrong about thinking this way it just means you are mature and understand what happens out there in the real life. In my opinion 14 is a young age to date and think about boys and sex etc. But there are other girls out there who don't think the same way you do about this and that's normal. Just because your bff thinks that boy is hot doesn't mean you have to force yourself to think the same way (not saying you are its just an example) you do what you think is right and ok for you don't get under the influence of others.
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