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at school there's a 70's spirit day. i don't know what to wear.. i wanna find something at a regular store and not the internet and i rate 5's

13/f
Thanks!

Here's something I found that you can get at Wet Seal:

http://www.wetseal.com/shop/detail.asp?styleid=35023289&colorid=10&cat_id=8&sub_id=0

Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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Hey I was wondering...
I have an xanga & how do I get a song to play on it? Like not a music video..just when you go to y xanga I want a song playing. How Do I do that?
Thanks!

Ok, you need a website that gives the url to the song you want.

http://www.cdzinc.com is a good site.

Find the song you want and right-click the link that says play. Then highlight and copy the url (it's at the bottom)and paste it into the music section of your look & feel. Hope I helped!

♥ Erin

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ok i'm going to be in 10th grade this year. i started to wear a bra in about 5th grade but in 6th grade i discovered bras to be rather uncomforable so i started wearing camis all the time and i havent worn a bra since. do u think its weird...or do u kno of any bras that can be comfortable

No, I don't think it's weird. I wear camis a lot, too. It's definitely not weird. I know lots of people who do the same thing. As for bras that are comfortable, I really couldn't say, because I don't know your size and every person is different. Try going shopping and just try on a lot of different bras and see if you like any. Good luck and hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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last year. i had like a big group of friends. and now this year. it feels likes they dont think about me as much. like im just sorta there then like theyre best friend or just friend. my best guys friends are all of a sudden BEST friends with my BEST girlfriends and its like okayy what about me. every1 has a bst friend now and its like i dont. i dont want to be the center of theyre world but i mean i dont want to be invisable either

The same thing happened to me in 7th grade. You just have to forget about them, because they're not being your friends. I know exactly how that feels. I had these 4 friends back then; 2 of them were best friends and the other 2 were best friends, and they were all friends, and I was just a 5th wheel. Just make new friends, or start talking to the ones you don't normally talk to. That's what I did, and now I have lots of friends. Good luck, hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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what is a good cursor site?

Hey, try http://www.diamondrains.com! It has lots of cool cursors. Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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yah how do u get music on ur xanga and where can i get the music at? and whats a code for?

Go to your look and feel and there's a place where you put the url of the song you want. Just go to http://www.cdzinc.com and find the song you want, then right click the link where it says play and click on properties. At the bottom, you'll see the url, and just copy and paste that into your look and feel. If you want a whole playlist of songs, you'll need a code. If you have anymore questions, just leave one in the inbox. Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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Hey im making a cd for excersizing.. and i was wondering if anyone new some good songs fer like.. a dance type thingy.. ?
I have .. These Boots- Jess Simpson
Do Something- Brit Spears
Switch- Will Smith
Pon de replay- Rhianna
These Words- Natasha Bedingfeild..
I need LOTS more ! :-) please help!

Hey, try J-Kwon - Tipsy. I know, it's old, but it's a good dance song. Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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I want to add music to my xanga but i don't know what to type when it says "music" then u type a URL. I don't really care what song it is, I just want to see if it will work, so could someone give me an example of what to type because i just don't get it.

Ok, first go to http://www.cdzinc.com. Ok, then find the song you want and then right-click the link where it says "play". Then click properties. And you'll see the url at the bottom. Just copy and paste it, and that's the url. Then you just type the corresponding song name where it says in the code. If you're still confused, you can give me the songs you want, and I can do it all for you, and give you the code. Just email me, if you want. (salty227@comcast.net) Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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i want to find the music code for "collide" by howie day so i can put it up on myspace. does anyone know a site where i can find it?

www.myspace.com/you_and_ii_collide

Hey, here's the code!

http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/0/21861/28224_1_3_05.asf

I don't have a myspace, so I'm not sure where you put that. Hope I helped a little. ♥ Erin

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i think im under weight by a lot. Im 4"7 1/2 and im only 67 pounds!! Is this under weight? What it normal weight for me?
thankyou :)

Ok, go to this website and enter the info, and see what your bmi (body mass index) is and it will tell you if you are normal or not.

http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm

Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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cause shes bittersweet she knowcks me off my feet and I swear to myself I dont want anyone else...who sings this and whats it called/

Hey! That song is called "Just the Girl" by Click Five. Glad I could help! ♥ Erin

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its lasted like..about.. well, a long time. sooo, wut meds should i take? heh kinda stupid question and i cud ask like my parents or w/e but they're not really here for me to ask them right now. and uh.. well, heh cud it be cuz of the computer? cuz i seem to get it while i'm infront of a certain computer, or.. ehh, well anyway it hurts alot. so.. anything i could do about it other than taking meds?

Hi. I would suggest taking aspirin, tylenol, motion, or ibuprofen, whatever you have around the house. Then try and lay down and watch some tv or sleep. Good luck! I hope you feel better! ♥ Erin

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well i am 13 going on 14(in like 20 days) and i dont have cramps or anything, but i sometimes get a little white stuff, but not alot, and not that often. will i be expecting my first period soon?

Yeah, probably...a lot of white stuff, especially around your age means that you're getting your period soon. Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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ok...about how old do girls normally stop growing....im 13 and im 5 feet 1 inch and my boobs are really small!

People usually stop growing near the end of puberty, which is around your late teens. Although I'm 5'2 and have small boobs and I'm 16, so...I guess it's different for everyone, but chances are, you'll grow some more. Most people do. Just not me. :( Haha, oh-well. Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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This guy Devon he likes he and i like him.. but the only problem is that i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. and last night Devon and i were walking and holding hands then we kissed and my boyfriend Chase saw us and i dont know what to do!!!! can you please help me?? love Emily

P.S. can we talk personally?? heres my screen name Champy13@aol.com

I hope my advice was helpful. Keep in touch, so I know what happens! :)

♥ Erin

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Eveytime i run on the treadmill i always break them? How can i stop? Also

when i was dishes i always break a cup, Why is that? AND

im really fat but i cant help it what should i do?! OH PLEASE HELP ME!

I think you need to stop wasting people's time with your gay-ass questions.

Have a nice day.

♥ Erin

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My sister always takes clothes from my room, and it bothers me ALOT. I always flip out on her when she does, and I tell her not to do it again, but she keeps doing it. And she doesnt care, I said what part of stay out of my room dont you understand? Then she acts smartass and says "All of it." One time I threatened her that if she did it 1 more time I'd tell mom she had sex with this guy. (She told me she did) Well, she took something after that, and I flipped out and said I'm telling mom, and she says whatever, she won't believe you. My mom will probably believe it, but I don't know if I should tell or not, because my sister will probably still take things from my room anyways. Should I tell or not? And how do I keep her out?

Hey! Don't tell your mom. Because your sister will get really mad, and just take more things to get back at you, or even tell your mom something about YOU. So, just tell your mom that she won't stop going into your room and taking your clothes. And see if she can do anything about it. Also, ask if you can get a new door knob that can only be opened with a key. My brother went in my room all the time, and so I got one of those, and now he can't go in! And if you're not allowed to do that, then just hide your clothes where she won't look, like in the back of your parents' closet or anywhere else you think she won't look. Well, good luck! Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

Hey! Well, that's never happened to me, but there are some things that you can do to stay in touch. Sometime before he leaves, have a party with him and your friends, and have someone videotape the whole thing, and then later on, when you miss him, you can watch the tape. Oh, and if you don't already have xangas, you can get one and look at each others, so you know what's going on in his life and everything. And maybe once a week or so, watch a movie together over the phone. You can even send each other little gifts through the mail. And try to call as much as possible. And maybe once a month or something, if he's not TOO far away, maybe you can visit each other. Good luck! I hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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I work my abs a lot, and I definitely have a 6 pack underneath my stubborn belly fat. Im a normal weight for my age and height, Im 14/f/5'5" and 129 lbs. I'm a little chubby in my lower stomach and I dont know how do get rid of it and let my abs show. I can feel the muscles underneath but i cant see them. I'll rate high

Hey hun! I have the same problem. I'm 95 lbs (I know, it's not much), but I have like, this belly fat that I'm trying to lose, cuz I want abs, too. Just try doing a lot of crunches and sit-ups, and try running, too. Like, run around the block. Cut down on sodas, cuz they make you fat, and eat healthy foods, like fruits and veggies. Good luck! I hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol.

Yeah, I think it's fair. You shouldn't lose your temper even if you are *pissed off*. But try being nice and doing stuff around the house, and maybe they'll unground you. And I understand how you feel. Parents can suck...lol! Hope I helped! ♥ Erin

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