My sister always takes clothes from my room, and it bothers me ALOT. I always flip out on her when she does, and I tell her not to do it again, but she keeps doing it. And she doesnt care, I said what part of stay out of my room dont you understand? Then she acts smartass and says "All of it." One time I threatened her that if she did it 1 more time I'd tell mom she had sex with this guy. (She told me she did) Well, she took something after that, and I flipped out and said I'm telling mom, and she says whatever, she won't believe you. My mom will probably believe it, but I don't know if I should tell or not, because my sister will probably still take things from my room anyways. Should I tell or not? And how do I keep her out?
comedy46 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:05 am: Yes! She should not have done such a thing! I hate it when my clothes are missing! Well simply get a bolt lock for your door! [ comedy46's advice column | Ask comedy46 A Question ]
twistedteen25 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 2:30 am: If you want to be closer and more open with your sister you shouldn't tell until she thinks the time is right. About the stealing thing, ask your mom if you can get a lock for your room.
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goodiez531 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 1:09 am: first off, if you want to be closer with your sister dont tell your mom, thats childish. i think that you should respect your sister and her privacy. if she didnt trust you then she wouldnt tell you that she hasd sex in the first place. i think that maybe your sister is trying to find a way to be closer to you, so dont mind her. but if you really dont want her to take your clothes, you should 'invest' on a lock for your door or closet? thats probably the best way :)
Shortie8959 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 12:33 am: Hey! Don't tell your mom. Because your sister will get really mad, and just take more things to get back at you, or even tell your mom something about YOU. So, just tell your mom that she won't stop going into your room and taking your clothes. And see if she can do anything about it. Also, ask if you can get a new door knob that can only be opened with a key. My brother went in my room all the time, and so I got one of those, and now he can't go in! And if you're not allowed to do that, then just hide your clothes where she won't look, like in the back of your parents' closet or anywhere else you think she won't look. Well, good luck! Hope I helped! ♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 12:27 am: well think about this..lets say you tell but someday she catches you doing something..it could be anything like getting walked in on, smelling alcohol or weed on your breath., sneaking out, lying, anything..your sister would rat you out in a second..so just think about this..this could come back to get you bad.
to keep her out
-talk to your mom..set a video camera up to get proof or w/e if you need it
-hide in your room when she thinks your our and when she comes in get her with a watergun..it sounds fun but you would need to be bored
-maybe install a key and lock so you can lock your door? i dont know..
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