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Hello, My name is... Michelle!Ive been through a lot,so i know different stuff and could prolly give you some sort of advice.
Ive been through:eviction,my father leaving, 5 dads/wanna be dads,drugs,smoking,alcohol, best friends having babies,cheating,love triangles, sex buddies, family/friends deaths, abuse, stress, sicknesses, bi friends,miscarriage,etc. etc.
I love to laugh.Sometimes I cry, and I'm not always sure why. I love to have friends, but only few are real. I hate a lot of people, yet I'm nice to everyone. I try to figure things out, but yet I get nothing.I love being right. But always wrong. I love being close to people. but yet I'm so far.I tell myself things. and never do them. I know who I am. But not enough.
I lie to cover the pain. But it's revealed by honesty. I get away with too much. I'm always so messy.And my room is too.This is my life.
And I like this way.
Ask me anything because even if I'm not sure I'll try my best to help you and I'll let you know in my answer if I'm not sure!
I'm very wierd!or according to most people I am. I consider myself wierd too so its all good.
*Michelle*
advice
Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.
You might be striaght and gay,Bi. You might just be figuring it out. Either way your normal.
It sounds to me like you like this guy, but i may be wrong you may just be friends.
Here are some suggestions on what to take about: (these are random but you get to learn about the person)
*Do you like answering questions to kids?
*Can you tell me in a few seconds what is a brick useful for?
*Do you consider yourself a happy person because you’ve met me?
* How can you describe yourself in a sentence?
*What would you like to change about yourself or me?
*Who is your favorite storybook or movie character?
*Who is your hero?
*If, like milk or the newspaper, you could have anything of your choice delivered to your doorstep every morning, what particular item would you want it to be?
*What’s the absolute all-time worst/best movie you’ve ever seen?
*If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
If you want more questions to ask i can always think of more.
Hope I helped some.
If you got any other questions you wanna ask go ahead and ask away.
Well im bisexual.
I have a girlfriend.
I love her.
I cant stand not being able to tell people im bi. I want to get it off my shoulders. Ive been able to tell my two bestfriends, but thats it. None of this really matters.
Well the problem i cheated on my girlfriend iwhile back. we got over it and were better than ever right now. The thing is i want to tell her that im bi, but im afraid that if i do, shell think i cheated on her with a guy. Idk what to do.
help.
I think you should tell her.
Like the person before me said, if she really loves you then she wont care.
And i dont think shell care that much about if you cheated on her with her a guy or a girl, either way your with her now and you 2 love each other. and if she does ask about it just tell her the truth.
Hope I helped. And Good luck!
hi, i don't think i know you but i need some help and i'd figure you would. see i'm not that old but i fingure myself 2 or 3 times a day and i wonna know if that's healthy or freaky?
i honestly dont know.
sorry.
I had NO idea. Over the last few years, since my family moved to where we are now (it's been 5 years), my sister hasn't been making the greatest friends and gets in fights with them a lot, but I didn't know she was turning into such a bad kid. I'm 15 years old, I've never touched alcohol and neither have most of my friends, never even thought about smoking or drugs or anything.
My sister is 12. I know it's wrong to snoop but I looked at her journal thing cause she left it out and every single line is something bad she did. She drinks beer when no one is home or when she is with friends. She steals cigarettes from my mom, gives them to her friends, and she has tried one. Apparently she cut herself once.
What the hell do I do? I have never really had anything bad happen to me before and I feel like it's all my fault. I have tried to just not pay attention to her ever since she started annoying me a few years ago so we rarely talked. And now that I realize how much this has come to I'm shaking. I'm scared and confused and sad and guilty and just shocked at everything. How could she be this screwed up? I can't imagine ANYONE having that many problems and still no one would know for this long, let alone a TWELVE YEAR OLD. This is unbelievable and I don't know what to do. I will feel so weird going to my parents with this because all along they've been saying I need to be the one to straighten her out (just because her friends were mean, they have no idea about the rest), and I tend to push away problems and convince myself they aren't there, to let other people deal with them. So now it all boils down to me and I have no clue what I'm going to do. This is the most bizarre feeling I have ever had.
How could she? I don't even know how to phrase anything I want to break down and cry. Who corrupts their life like that at 12 years old? She's in SIXTH GRADE!
Please help me! I am so confused I don't know what to do!!!!
It's not your fault. Your not the one making her do those things.
Lots of kids I know do those same things Ive noticed these problems are starting at younger ages. Ive seen 5-8 year old kids cuss and fight.
And I think they are doing that because they are growing up to older people doing it, they are following what people have shown them examples of.
You should try talking to your sister.
Tell her that you read her journel. Tell her all of the things she is doing are wrong. Let her know that you are there for her. Maybe hang out with her, or let her hang out with you and your friends.
If she says something like I cant believe you read it and stuff like that tell her you care for her and you want to know whats going on in her life.Let her know if she doesnt try/or stops then youll tell your parents so they can try and help her.If she says shell try then help her, tell her she hang out with you and stuff.
And that if you catch anything of that sort then you will tell your parents.
If she says she wont at least try then you need to tell someone,most likely your parents.
(The things I suggested are things that I would do.)
I hope everything goes ok and that it gets better.
And I hope that I helped some.
(and if you dont mind id like to know how things go.please, you dont have to if you dont want to though.)
*~*Michelle*~*
my boyfriend used to be the one to care more and like me more and everything so he used to tell me to care more and now im the one who is overcaring and telling him i love him..he used to tell me he loves me and now doesnt anymore because he says i take it too seriously..how do i get him to do nice things for me again and show me again that he DOES care..please help me im so hurt. =[
I think you should tell him what you told us.
Tell him that you dont feel that he cares as much any more. Tell him you want it to go back to the way it used to be.If he really cares he will at least try.
(And in my opinion you should take love seriously.)
I hoped I helped at least some. Please let me know how things go!!
*~*Michelle*~*
Okay.. Well i am 14 years old. And my boyfriend oh 3 years just broke up with me. I have been so sad over all of this... and i dont know what to do. Some people have said he broke up with me because im not pretty enough. others say im sexie some say he broke up with me because i like to cuddle with him. But that made no sence to me. but i just need help. If any guy's read this and you think you can help please comment me i would love to talk to you. ang girl's please help. you know whta this is like
aw..im SO SORRY!!! me and my b/f have been going out for almost two years and im 14.if he were to break up with id be crushed.
im really really sorry!! (ill go beat him up for you if youd like..i probably couldnt take him but i could try. :) lol)
you need to talk to him. ask him why the hell he broke up with you!
everything that youve heard dont listen to it.
unless the words come from him straight to you.)
people just try to start drama as soon as something new happens.
hope i helped some!
my bf and i are 16 and we decided to start having sex we were both virgins and the 2 times we had sex he didnt last that long his penis went soft and he couldnt get another erection he is small
maybe it nerves im not sure is there something we can do to get him to last longer?
I'm not quite sure about this but im going to try to help. There is only two things i can think of.
If you have foreplay- and the two of you do that longer the easier/quicker it is for him to have an erection, so if you do have long foreplay shorten it up abit.
Or
Maybe (im not sure if this will work or not)
but maybe when he gets soft do something to make him hard again. like a lap dance, play with his penis (hand job, that kind of stuff) ask him what turns him on and try to do what he says if you want.
Maybe he could get a penis pump thing or something of that sort, to make his penis larger.
16/f
Boyfriend=18
Okay, well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 14 months. So by chirstmas it will be 15 months. I have no idea what to get him. I already got him a necklace for his birthday and a ring for our one year.
For christmas last year, I got him a hoodie, and a bunch of shirts. I made him a scrap book of our pictures and such. And I got him candy. I just seem to ran out of ideas!
I was thinking an x box 360 game, a build a bear, cloths. I have no idea what else.
Sooo guys, If you are/been in a long relationship like I am. What did you like when your girlfriends got you things? Also, hes a football player for college. If that helps any.
&& girls, any ideas?? Any cute little things to do?
THANKS A BUNCH TO ANYONE THAT ANSWERS!! =D
You should deffinately stick with the ideas you already have. (I think he'll like them).
Here are some other ideas:
*Specially ordered M&Ms and/or Hershey Chocolates. (These can get pricey.)
*A jersey of his favorite NFL player (or whatever sport he likes.)
*Tickets to see a game (of whatever sport he likes)
*An autographed object.(shirt, photo, etc.)
*A hat.
*If you & him have inside jokes get him something that reminds him of it.
*Buy his favorite movie (if he doesnt already have it)
*Gift card to favorite store.
*Make or buy his favorite cookies or desert
That's all I can think of right now. If you have any questions for me then message me or whatever.
Me and my boyfriend just had sex.. and I'm not supposed to get my period for like 2 or 3 weeks. How long do i have to wait to tell if I'm pregnant or not? ..
If you dont want to buy a pregnancy test wait until you miss a period. And you can go to this site and see if you have any symptoms:
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
or
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy_symptoms.htm
They are the same site but the second one is a chart of symptoms and around the time of weeks you should get the symptoms.
14/f. I've been single for nearly a year, which I don't have a problem with, but me and this guy have sort of started talking. I've never kissed anyone, though a guy came close to kissing me at homecoming, then the song ended and he walked away. I'm not very assertive, in the whole relationship field, so if me and the guy I'm talking to, or another one for that matter, in the future, started dating me, and we were going to kiss each other, how exactly do I kiss? And I don't want to make the first move for my first kiss, but later, if I did want to kiss someone, how would I make the first move on him? I'm sort of clueless and just trying to be prepared. My friends have already had their first kisses, so I'm the oddball, they say it comes naturally, but the guy that was gonna kiss me at homecoming was starting to lean in and I had no idea what to do! So, help is appreciated greatly :) Sorry for the length.
i agree with your friends it does come naturally. that guy who was going to kiss you obviously wasnt meant to kiss you. especially since it sounded like it was awkward. it should feel right when you kiss that some one, like when i kiss my boyfriend, who ive been dating for over a year, i still get tingles in my stomach, my breathing becomes uneven, and its hard to concentrate on anything but him. if you dont get any kind feelings about the guy your kissing then you probably shouldnt be together. Oh yea, being the oddball in the group makes you special, boys like it when you havent done stuff all the way some times, you could find a guy who hasnt had his first kiss yet too.
there is no right way to kiss. and everybody has certain ways they liked to be kissed. if you do kiss some one its probably best if you didnt shove your tongue into their mouths or down their throats though.
here is a site i found (and go to myself) there is a lot of stuff on it that was helpful to me. and it can tell you ways to kiss:
http://www.coolnurse.com/frenchkiss.htm
hope i helped. (& sorry this is so long)
17/f.
alright well i have this boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 1/2 months. we were good friends before we started dating and the first month and a half was good. we did everything together. but now he's an asshole. he texts other girls and flirts with them. he never wants to hang out with me. he wont even buy me something little like a pack of gum. the first month and a half he was the nicest guy and bought me anything and always wanted to be with me. well i started being mean to him to when he starts being an asshole. and when we are together he doesnt want to go out and do anything.
plus i started liking this other kid.. and i think he likes me too.
when me and my bf were friends, he was so nice. and hes like me for like a year now but he just changed when we started dating a little while.
he doesnt want me hangin out with any of my guy FRIEND.. there nothing more than that. ive known them before him. he gets mad when i party with out him but its alright for him to do it without me.
my friends want me to break up with him and so does my mom! i dont know.
what do you think i should do?
thanks in advance =]
dont listen to any one if they tell you to "break up with him" or "stay with him". you have to make this decision on your on.
this guy seems like a jerk/"playa" type.
if he is treating you like this now and then starts treating you nice (only to suck up so he wont lose you) think about it. you really shouldnt let him treat you this way.
You should try this if you can.when you are out doing something, maybe hanging with his friends flirt right in front of him. if he says something to you in front of them he is a jerk, if he pulls you aside or talks to you later then he does care (at least some.) tell him you only did it to show him what its like when he flirts with other girls. you also have to realize guys are flirts!! (i hate when guys flirt while they have a girl) and if your guy is "cool" or "popular" then girls will hit on him, in front of you and behind your back. either way you will have to trust him, unless he is proven guilty.
It is your decision but if i was you i would dump him, get out while you can, especially since you like this other guy. you seem like a really nice girl/lady and he shouldnt be treating you that way.
hope i helped!
I've answered alot of questions on love and relationships but for once, i don't know what to do.
I've been with this guy for a little over 9 months. We've known each other for a year and that whole time we've had our fights, our moments but always been inlove.
Now, it's changed. What happened was one weekend i wasn't able to see him or talk to him on the phone or computer at all because of my circumstances. After the weekend, i was able to see him again but something was different. I kept asking him what was wrong and he kept saying nothing but it was like he didn't care for me anymore. I asked him if he still loved me and he said he didn't know. It broke my heart.
This continued for about a week and i was bracing myself for the breakup. Then, i decided i couldn't take him anymore and told him it was over but i still wanted to stay friends. He called me the next day crying telling me he couldn't live without me and he loved me still and he was sorry and i was still soo inlove with him that i took him back (we have been through alot of stuff before so i thought it was just one of those days).
Anyways, after about 2 days he was still the same but it was like he was trying to care about me. I asked him what happened and he told me that he missed flirting and being single that he had met some girls the weekend i wasn't able to see him and that he was flirting with them and just wanted to be able to be single again. That totally tore my heart apart. Then he continued that he didn't get that same warm feeling inside that he used to get when he saw me or talked to me.
He said he wanted to be inlove with me again so we gave it a shot. After a week we started to go back to normal but everytime i thought about how he had felt before i could feel my heart breaking over and over again.
Now, he is sort of half how he used to me. He is like he used to be but he always goes out with his guy friends alot and tells me when a girl tries hitting on him and constantly asking me if im jealous like he WANTS me to get jealous but it just makes me soooo sad.
I know the obvious thing to do here is to break up because then i can heal and get better and he won't be hurting anymore but i just love him to much. I tell people all the time it will hurt but they will get better as i have had my heart broken before but this time it's different.
We WERE soul mates. We were different in our ways but we just seemed soo perfect for each other and i had never met anyone like him before.
I know im still young and if we do break up i'll find someone else and probably end up dating alot of guys before i find "the one" but i don't want anyone else.. i want him.
I really do not want to dump him but i have to. I need help. it's never ever been like this before i dont know if its normal for couples to go through this stage and if they get out of it or not im just so confused and hurt and betrayed.
I dont want people to say "u should dump him" or "u shouldnt" because i want to make that decision on my own. I need advice on how to deal if we do breakup and how other people have gotten over ex's they thought they were inlove with and how i can still be friends with him. And if any advice on people who have been through this and its worked out. Thankyou.
i kno almost exactly what your going through!! I really do, im going through like the same exact thing. Except my boyfreind and i have been going out for almost a year (9-21-06)..and i dont know how old your are but im almost 15. Anyways i get what you mean... my boyfriend was the "playa" type. And it has been SO hard to trust him.
And i know since your boyfriend told you about those girls and that weekend,well your probably mad and hurt (my boyfriend did it to me too) (in my relationship we have trust issues.) you might not trust him fully because of what he told you (though you should be glad that he did tell you and not some one else.)
But it would be WAY better for it not to have happened at all. And know that there are a lot of whores/sluts/whatever you want to call them, who will want him too, maybe not for the same reasons but if you love him enough you will fight for him, and at least try to trust him completely, if you dont already. He will be tempted but if he loves you he wont even look at them,and if he does hopefully he wont do anything more.
If it comes to the point people tell you things,ex. "...he touched me..." or something, dont always believe them!!! If you do hear anything like that make sure you talk to HIM first (if you talk to some one else first it can possably get a lot worse) I'd sugguest Telling the person who told you what happened that you will not believe anything until you get proof. Try to get the person who got touched or whatever to write a note to your b/f & get them to try to get your b/f to say something about it. The best way to handle it is to be mature about it, and not to confirm he is guilty unitl ,well, proven guilty.
And i know you said you dont want people to say "you should dump him" and stuff like that. And your right i know what that is like (most people dont really get it and stuff) I totally hate when people do it. and you should deff. make that decision yourself, you have the power to change your future.
You and your b/f need to talk about it and i know no matter how much it might hurt it something you probably need to do. you both have to be completely honest, talk about maybe taking a break or spending more time together, tell him how you feel and try to get him to tell you how he feels...Make it a open table-both players have their cards up to show each other.(tell him how all of it makes you feel.)
I think it is normal for any one to have this kind of stage for couples, but i dont think everyone goes through it.
And try to always brace yourself for if the moment might come and it could all over. For me it was like being in hell, sorry for the term but its how i feel.
(And so far my relationship is working out with him,it gets hard but i think he is worth it)
Thats all i can really say... Sorry this is soooo long! i really hope you the best, i kno how hard it can be. Please!!!, tell me how things work out!!!
if you have any ?'s im here.
Best of luck!! **Michelle
after me and my boyfriend have sex and i get an orgasm i like to go until the orgasm is completely gone. but once it's gone then i don't really feel like i need another one and i like to quit. he gets frustrated and so do i but after the orgasm i just don't care anymore. I try to for him but i can't. is that normal? can i fix it?
I'm pretty sure its normal for you to have an orgasm and want to quit after that, unless me and you are both weird.
To help him feel done or whatever, and you want him to help him, maybe try getting him really, really excited or something, rubbing his penis or give him "head" for a few minutes.
Maybe do something sexy for him (if you dont already) get some sexy Lingerie, make the room romantic, something like that.
I hope this helps!!im not absolutely positive about all of this but i think it might work.
Good luck. ; ]
im 15 and when i get an erection my penis is really bent or curved right over im worried is this normal? It wont matter to my gf will it?
Don't worry, UNLESS it is sharply bent. If its slightly bent or curved you should be just fine. From what I know a large divison of men are this way. And look at the brighter side, you can hit her g-spot if its bent properly.
I don't think she will care about it, especially if it can hit her g-spot. ; ]
hope i helped! if you have any other questions feel free to ask!
Okay well im a 13 years old girl im going into Jr.high and like all my friends are going to a different school. Accept for ONE, and she is nice when its just me and her but like she is two faced like alot when she's with me she talks shit about someone and then i'll ask her is there someting about me you dont like? and she say no and then from other people i hear she does talk shit about me and wont tell them what she has said about them. God i mean its horrible. can you answer how i should react to this? and one more question how can i be like top gog/ and or popular in 7th grade? like just popular. ya know
Thanks in advance! :D
ok, i dont have really have any tips on how to be popular or anything, but this is if you do get popular.
Dont be 2-faced. it gets you in to trouble, no point really. if u want to say something about some one either tell it to their face or you might not want to say it. Because you could tell your best friend it and you and her get into a fight, well she will probably tell that person what you said. (i know from experience)
Just a warning.
As for your friend with the 2-faced problem, the best advice i can give you is 1)not to tell her anything too personal,stuff you wouldnt want some one else to find out;2)if you do confront her she may deny it, (most people i know do), everyone talks about some one at one point, especially us girls,some may not do it as much as others but weve all at least commented on some ones outfit and shit like that.
Another thing dont be what other people want you to be, because you could end up going to college and never seeing them again and stuff, just be the best you and be yourself, even if your dorky (like me). When i was going into seventh grade i really wanted to be popular but my friends werent and they showed me that as long as you have good friends you should be happy, when your popular you have an expection and have to worry about who is doing what, and who is talking about who, just a bunch of shit.
basic point is: popularity= more drama - true friends.
In most cases. I really hope i helped! Good luck! (if you got any questions about what i wrote or any of that feel free to ask away!)
Hey, ok so there is this great [[public]] school that is like 5 minutes away from my house, but i guess it's not "in my area".
I know that people can get permits and stuff for that but can someone please tell me where and how?!
thanks soo mucho!
u might not be considered in that school district.
i dont live in the school district of the school i go to, my mom has to pay the school $ its like called tution or something, tution in my area is like 800$ per person.
But not all the schools tution $ is that much.
You could get your parents to talk to someone like the principle. They can tell your parents if you are in that school district or not, you might be a what they call a "tution student"- some one who goes to a school, but isnt in what people call the school district. If you want to be switched to the school as you know your parents will have to get and fill out a bunch of papers and probably talk to some one who works for the school, i think (but could be wrong) that when your parents tell them where you live the people at the school will tell them that you are not considered in the district and if you want to go to this school you will have to pay X amount of money, or continue going to the school you were going to.
And if your not a "tution student" then im not sure i know what your talking about...
And if i confused im sorry.
(i hope i helped)
you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =(
She sounds like a **bad word**! I think the best thing to do is ask her why she has been acting that way.
And your not overreacting.
**I wouldnt get to be too close to her because she could turn on you though-its not fun when its your best friend who knows everything!
I'm just sayin because you could get hurt.
And since she has been a friend for awhile I would try to remain friends with her but if she does it again shes not worth it!
Hope I helped! And sorry if I didnt.
Okay I am 15yrs old, female, and I weigh like 145+ pounds, which is NOT healty because I am only 5ft 3.5in. When I was like 11yrs old I was like 5ft 1in and 185pounds so I have lost weight but ever since I reach 145pounds like a year ago I can not loose anymore weight. I excercise and eat healty (I used to be a vegitarian but now I just don't eat red meat) but none of that is helping me loose weight. I am constantly stressed out all of the time and rarely happy because I am so fat. Where I live everyone is so weight concious and not afraid to point out your defects so that does not help my stress or self esteem but seriously, what is wrong with me? Why can't I loose weight???
Just keep up doing what you had been doing.
Don't worry about what people say!! They say stuff to make themselves feel better- sometimes there even jealous when they say stuff.
Be proud of yourself for losing the weight! Don't put your self down! You are a yr. older than me and about the same height. I weigh 5 pounds less than you. My doctor said I should weigh 136. Which means I'm now considered over-weight-by 4 pounds.
So don't feel bad!!
And a lot of people these days (at least ones I know) are either over-weight or toooooo skinny!
And remember some guys like it when girls arent skinny! If I was you I wouldnt really sweat it just try to stay at what wieght the doctor said you should be at! If you are only like 2-4 pounds over wieght don't sweat it that bad!
Good luck!! = ] And no you arent alone in this situation! ((hope i helped)
boyfriends dad caught us together (not the first time), well we were in his room with the door locked. when his dad opened it, he told my boyfriend to leave.. with me. Basically, hes not allowed to see me for two months. I dont know what to do, i fucking love this boy so much, we've been together for over a year. But we cant sneak around to see eachother, thats how we got caught. I can either break up with him or just not see him for the whole summer. I'm really upset by this, and his father doesn't speak english so talking to him is out of the question. But i cant go two months without seeing him.. i love it when he hugs me or sends me cute little textmessages. My parents dont care about me, only he does. I dont know what to do. Help or advice or opinions please :(
Im sure your parents really do care about you. And your dad probably feels that way because he does care about you and doesnt want you having sex, especially since there is a chance you could get pregnant-my friends only 14 and she is due sometime this month. i feel really bad for her because she has had a good life any way so this makes it harder on her.
I think even if your not close (i know im not all that close) to your parents (mom is probably the best if she is available.) Tell them that he is some one you care about and are very close to and its hard not being able to hang out with him and stuff. Even suggest that you and your family watch a movie with each other or something.
If you really miss him tell them that you'd like to have at least have parental advised visits. (i had to have those at first)
they suck but it helps if your not allowed to see him at all!
Well thats all i can say for now... Good luck hope you get to see him soon! let me know how it goes please!