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boyfriends dad caught us together (not the first time), well we were in his room with the door locked. when his dad opened it, he told my boyfriend to leave.. with me. Basically, hes not allowed to see me for two months. I dont know what to do, i fucking love this boy so much, we've been together for over a year. But we cant sneak around to see eachother, thats how we got caught. I can either break up with him or just not see him for the whole summer. I'm really upset by this, and his father doesn't speak english so talking to him is out of the question. But i cant go two months without seeing him.. i love it when he hugs me or sends me cute little textmessages. My parents dont care about me, only he does. I dont know what to do. Help or advice or opinions please :(
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well, i really dont know what to say to you. i mean i wana help but i saw what eevryone else wrote to you and it didnt seem like they helped. so here goes what i think you should do. ok:
well, my mom hates me too well parents also, and i feel like i only have my boyfriend to help me out. so if that happened to me i would die. so if theres no way of talking to your b.fs dad then you should sneek around. i know you said you did already but this time you have to do it better. sneekier. you cant get caught! ok liek for example does he have a cell phone you can call him at? like textmessaging also, comon his dad will neevr know hes texting or calling you. well unless he checks and that is kinda weird..but he can always delet your calls and messages. im afraid that if you dont want to talk to his dad or sneek around what else can you do? if it was me i would try calling him. like i would also tell my bf to pretend hes going shopping or to the movies with friends and then go meet up with you. i hope you guys can work this out. it soudns liek you really love him :)
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Hey, well you pretty much already gave yourself the two options. You can either just keep texting and talking without seeing each other or break up. You guys could try going on a break. You could hvae your boyfriend try and talk to him, sice he probably knows the other language and a way of communicating with him better. Thats really it. Im sorry.
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Im sure your parents really do care about you. And your dad probably feels that way because he does care about you and doesnt want you having sex, especially since there is a chance you could get pregnant-my friends only 14 and she is due sometime this month. i feel really bad for her because she has had a good life any way so this makes it harder on her.
I think even if your not close (i know im not all that close) to your parents (mom is probably the best if she is available.) Tell them that he is some one you care about and are very close to and its hard not being able to hang out with him and stuff. Even suggest that you and your family watch a movie with each other or something.
If you really miss him tell them that you'd like to have at least have parental advised visits. (i had to have those at first)
they suck but it helps if your not allowed to see him at all!
Well thats all i can say for now... Good luck hope you get to see him soon! let me know how it goes please!
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Call your boyfriend and ask him if you can sit down with him and his dad and talk. He can act as a translator. Explain to his dad that you have been going through a lot lately and that your boyfriend is really important to you and you really want to be able to see him. Tell him that you are sorry about what happened and ask him if maybe you guys could arrange to go out in a public place one a week or if you could hang out at one of your houses while parents are home. I'm sure that if you explain the situation and act responsibly and respectfully, his dad will be willing to compromise.
Good Luck!
Sarah
Alright... what are you expecting here? I gave you a reasonable solution to your problem and you rated me a 2? That really hurts my rating. If your not gonna appreciate the advice that people give you then work your own problems out.
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