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Kissing?
14/f. I've been single for nearly a year, which I don't have a problem with, but me and this guy have sort of started talking. I've never kissed anyone, though a guy came close to kissing me at homecoming, then the song ended and he walked away. I'm not very assertive, in the whole relationship field, so if me and the guy I'm talking to, or another one for that matter, in the future, started dating me, and we were going to kiss each other, how exactly do I kiss? And I don't want to make the first move for my first kiss, but later, if I did want to kiss someone, how would I make the first move on him? I'm sort of clueless and just trying to be prepared. My friends have already had their first kisses, so I'm the oddball, they say it comes naturally, but the guy that was gonna kiss me at homecoming was starting to lean in and I had no idea what to do! So, help is appreciated greatly :) Sorry for the length.
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Well I think it's nice you haven't had a first kiss yet. Too many girls rush into things with guys and that is a shame.
Hopefully you are a girl with strong morals and a strong self image. You can kiss without going any further. If this is the case, I don't mind telling you... your first kiss is going to be the most terrifying, terriffic thing to happen to you in your early teens! I think you are right NOT to initiate it. This keeps you a lady. If you initiate it, the boy can get the wrong idea that you are much more forward than you are.
As far as "how to kiss"... since the boy is going to initiate it, you should probably just softly close your eyes as he comes near you and makes contact. After that, go with the flow. You will know if you are comfortable parting your lips or not. Possibly for your first time you may not want to do this. But be ABSOLUTELY sure this is what you want with and WHOM you want it. I am pushing 30 and still remember EVERY detail about my first kiss. You don't want it to be with the frog faced little monster down the road who eats worms (for example). Make sure he is worth the memory of a lifetime!
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i agree with your friends it does come naturally. that guy who was going to kiss you obviously wasnt meant to kiss you. especially since it sounded like it was awkward. it should feel right when you kiss that some one, like when i kiss my boyfriend, who ive been dating for over a year, i still get tingles in my stomach, my breathing becomes uneven, and its hard to concentrate on anything but him. if you dont get any kind feelings about the guy your kissing then you probably shouldnt be together. Oh yea, being the oddball in the group makes you special, boys like it when you havent done stuff all the way some times, you could find a guy who hasnt had his first kiss yet too.
there is no right way to kiss. and everybody has certain ways they liked to be kissed. if you do kiss some one its probably best if you didnt shove your tongue into their mouths or down their throats though.
here is a site i found (and go to myself) there is a lot of stuff on it that was helpful to me. and it can tell you ways to kiss:
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hope i helped. (& sorry this is so long)
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ok, so this is gonna sound really pathetic, but i just turned 16 (f) and I've never done anything! I think i'm bi, but i've never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend! the only thing i've ever done is made out with my friend but we were drunk and she's straight anyway, so it didn't count or anything. I really want a bf or gf though. I go to an all girls school and there are bi and lesbian girls but i don't really like any of them. How do I meet people? What should i do???? i need to do something soon, because i hate being this pathetic, it's ridiculous
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