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Friends back stab!!!
I HAVE A HUGE ISSUE. Ok well,this ex boyfriend I dated for 4 months is now dating one of my friends.
They talk very perverted to eachother and one day me and my friend (the one dating him ) went to the movies and she had to go to the bathroom,so she had me hold her phone and i was just looking throught her inbox and outbox not looking for anything specific. But then I saw that my ex's name appear in a text with her saying she wants to get pregnant with his baby and marry him, and run away etc... (she just turned 13,and he's 17). It hurts me really bad that she would do that to me. i thought i had no feelings for him but one day he texted me saying he still loved me. we haven't talked since then cause i know he was playing both of us. ( i dont like him,but shes going to get hurt...shes going to wind up getting pregant and he is going to leave her)
heres some stuff about him
1.has a kid
2. was married.
3.only 17
4. a big player.
heres stuff about my friend
1.just turned 13
2. was pregnant 2wice already.
3. is a slut..
I dont know what to do.
She still don't know that i know they're together.
HELP.
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wow.thats is crazy, i would say something to your friend about it,dont hide it from her because it would just hurt you in the end.if she wants to get pregnant, she really needs to reconsidderr it.since she is your really good friendd you should be able to talk to her about that kind of stuff, so i would be straight up with her about it
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Okay, well first of all, if they ever do anything intimate and/.or sexual things, then that boy is going to jail.
Your friend needs a reality check and that is where you come in. Sit her down (I know, cliche), and talk to her. Say you're really sorry but you looked through her phone that night and saw the message. Tell her that you don't know if she was saying that seriously or jokingly, but either way you're not happy with her going out with your ex not because you still like him/jealous of him, but for these reasons:
Age difference will land him in jail.
Who knows how many STDs this guy might have
Who knows how many girls he's knocked up/have played/is still playing.
If she really wants to handle being pregnant AGAIN and/or handling a kid at age 13.
Him having a kid and being married already will result in the same for her.
Ask her what she finds so attractive in him...
Really, guys who have been married, have a kid, and is a playa doesn't appeal to many.
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Why don't you just talk to her about it. i mean she is your friend she would understand. Just tell her to becareful because you know how he is. and say that you don't wnat to make another mistake so becare ful. just don't bring up the fact taht you read her messages. Just tell ehr that you noticed her hanging around with him and stuff and taht i know that you are going out but i just wanted to tell you to be careful and to not do anything that you will regret.
~sealgirl~
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